Is it over when he cums?

[evilernie]

For the girls,

Whether a guy is being topped or topping, is the romp over as soon as he cums? Or do you insist that you get yours too?

ok.. I guess guys can answer too.

[Schimmel]

I don't know.

[Heather Moorland]

No I wouldn't insist on anything. I think keeping acounts when you make love just kills it. I give out of love for him and he recieve out of love for me and he gives out of love for me and I recieve out of love for him. It all fixes it self in the end, even if we don't love eachother to begin with. Sex is a love-generator.

Ofcause guys who is not into Tantra or other funtional training programs is mostly over and done with as soon as he cums.

[Debra]

I get pleasure from giving pleasure. So if he doesn't cum, it would make me feel like I didn't give enough. But I always do my best to make sure that he cums too.

[evilernie]

oohh.. You're definitely a keeper.

I get pleasure from giving pleasure.

[Debra]

oohh.. You're definitely a keeper.

Hahahaha....awwww thanks. But I really wasn't trying to be funny. I love sex, and I will always go the extra measure to pleasure him, what ever it takes. Sex is supposed to be wonderful for both of us. If he is happy and satisfied, then he will be more willing to make me happy and satisfied. It's a win-win for all.

[Bobby Domino]

Like Debra, I get pleasure from giving pleasure. During sex, I don't cum. Never have.

I assure you, everyone goes to sleep happy

[buckjohnson]

I get the good giver, good receiver O. Winfrey romance goofiness, but in reality...and I might be wrong, but gay and TG sex expectations might be a little diff because you are dealing with genectic similar partners, with the same type of sex drive and emotional makeup.

Also in reality, having been in a few LTR, a partner is lucky to see his partner naked, let alone both having orgasms. With folks work schedules, family issues, finding time for 151 rum, needy friends, grass needing cut, plumbing needing fixed, garage door not working, leaves needing raked, who has time for mutual satisfying sexual outcomes? I am just glad every morning, when I wake, up, I am pissing, and the piss is going in the right direction. Getting a nut is secondary.

Again, nice if you are at a place in your life when you do not have to get a nut, get off, adn then go stop the kids from killing themselves, each other, or the neighbors kids, (on their journey in becoming a serial killer). Nice if you are not at the place in your life.

[Debra]

Like Debra, I get pleasure from giving pleasure. During sex, I don't cum. Never have.

I assure you, everyone goes to sleep happy

DON'T CUM? EVER? That doesn't sound like fun.

[Bobby Domino]

DON'T CUM? EVER? That doesn't sound like fun.

I can cum whenever I want obviously, but yeah, I have a lot of explaining to do every time I'm with a new girl.
My goal is NOT to cum, because I love fucking so much. I last hours, which I know sounds so machismo, but it's true my dick doesn't go soft.
I also don't like cumming in front of people. You have to be super special for me to do it in your presence, but I prefer not to