So guess where honesty just landed me..

[Boardwalkempire]

you shouldn't lie to people you like and sometimes you run the risk of losing them but at least you can look at yourself in the mirror and know you are an honest person. She will probably tell everyone that you are a liar and gay but don't let that get to you. I think you did the right thing. Why would you want to be with someone that you can't be yourself around.

No I.met her online and she live a state away. It will never get out

[CORVETTEDUDE]

There is one answer for this.....

[Quiet Reflections]

Don't listen to this guy^^^

I have to agree! nobody should listen to me.

[Boardwalkempire]

Don't listen to this guy^^^
You made a mistake
Next time,lie,lie,and lie some more
Forget the childish wishful thinking,I live in the real world
In the real world,there's double standards,adjust(with lies)
Remember "DL 4 LIFE"lol

Dl for life..that's my motto lol

[loren]

No Deb I know why she left..but she has messed with girls before so i thought it would be ok..there was a double standard..

Double standards are bullshit. It's okay for her to play with girls, but you can't have fun with TS. That's just like a lot of guys who are anti-gay, but at the same time, they don't complain when two girls get it on.


As for you telling her about your interests, that is up to you.

[Quiet Reflections]

No I.met her online and she live a state away. It will never get out

you are set then. It may hurt a bit for a while since you liked her but there are always others next time you log on.

[Bobby Domino]

I think you told her too soon. I would have at least gotten some ass first. Hindsight is 20/20.
I told a chick I was fooling around with that I was into TGs and she flipped out but in a good way. She was really freaky in the bedroom - and pretty much everywhere else - so I had a suspicion she wouldn't care.
Never got to do anything with her and a TG but I know she would have been down; down on both of us, that is. lol!!!

Like some people said, at least you know you were true to yourself (but that ain't gonna get you laid, neither)

[Debra]

If she had messed with girls before then she shouldn't have a problem with you and guys or TS.

But keep in mind that anyone who is close enough to become someone you date a lot or even a future GF, she is not going to want to hear about the competition that you like and have been with. She may have felt that if you like TS that much, that she as a GG might not be woman enough to hold you, and you might dtray to TS on the side. Girls are like that sometimes. We want to feel that we are more than enough for you, and you won't stray.

[mealticket]

just because she made out with girls in the past doesn't mean she would be accepting of you liking ts....there is no comparison...what would be the point of telling her? maybe later on when your dating and u see a hot ts on tv u can say oh she is hot and gauge her response,...rookie move...ive only had one gg know i like ts as well and it wasnt because i told her..

[PomonaCA]

I think you told her too soon. I would have at least gotten some ass first. Hindsight is 20/20.

Yeah that's the first thing I thought. Once you bone her she's yours. So you should have waited until you sealed the deal before you told her.