Ladies, please tell your story

[Ponyboy]

Ladies, it would be great to hear what you thought about before deciding to become a tgirl.

Half the men on this website adore Tgirls; the other half want to be one, and many members are a bit of both.

I personally put a lot of thought in to the transition but decided not to. I thought I wouldn't be convincing enough and my world would go though a significant change. However, I still think of it. Just yesterday, a young kid referred to me as a lady, even though I wear traditional mens clothes and I dont wear make up. I think I just have a feminine energy. My sexuality is definitely feminine and I would love to have a pussy instead of taking it up the ass.

I like the idea of becoming a woman so I can attract and take more men, but I wonder if that actually happens, besides I dont really have a problem now. We are all a little confused so it would be nice to hear some real life considerations.

[EvonRose]

It was something I never thought about, I remember age 4 it was Xmas my dad bought me a robo cop toy and my cousin got a barbie doll, i hated the robo cop toy and played with he barbie instead. With that said i would always get an offensive feeling when I was referred to as a boy or he. I had told my mom at that young crying why everyone thinks i'm a boy, Thank god she is an educated woman then she explained to me and helped me transition. Now I didn't actually start taking hormones at 12, my breast fully developed at 17, never went trough male puberty such as voice change, facial changes, body changes, etc. But i would suggest like what my mom had told me before, never transition because it makes you feel sexual, or for men. You can feel as sexual and get as much guys as a man. Being a transsexual is not a joke! there gets to a point where you cannot go back and many cases have left a lot of ts miserable and even commit suicide because they realize they were not true transgenders but had gone too far off transitioning. If this is how you have felt since you can remember you could very well be a true transgender, therefore you need to seek help it is better to live life going for what you want and trying than not trying at all. If you are interested my mom is a sexologist and can advise you a doctor in your city and state. I know I'm only 21 but I know more than you think, and if you need to talk inbox me anytime!

[mealticket]

Yeah I do think many girls transition for the wrong reasons, sometimes they are just such an effeminate boy that they think life will be easier as a girl, or they want to date straight guys so they become a woman, or whatever other reason that they might find...supposedly girls in Brazil do it to make money as hookers or porn stars...there is a thread of girls who went back to being boys cuz it wasnt right for them...so it does happen. end the end its their body and they can do what they want with it, but hopefully they just make the right decisions...and that they really are true transsexuals...u can talk to a girl for five min and tell whether they are a transsexual or just a gay guy with implants

[Ponyboy]

EvonRose, You have a great Mum!!!

I think I have decided definitely not to do it - but I think we need more discussion on this. Evon Rose, you knew very early on.

When I was young my favourite toy was a doll but it was a boy doll so I never thought of it as feminine, even though I was the only boy with a doll in the neighbourhood, but I also liked trucks so I was less obvious.

For me it was more of a case of feeling something wasnt right for a long time and then at one point discovering 'this makes sense' and 'this feels good'. I sometimes think humans are capableof a much broader range of behavior than we put them in, and the whole notion of one gender is wrong.

and yes mealticket, some girls probably do transition for the wrong reason. That's why we need to talk about it more!!

[EvonRose]

EvonRose, You have a great Mum!!!

I think I have decided definitely not to do it - but I think we need more discussion on this. Evon Rose, you knew very early on.

When I was young my favourite toy was a doll but it was a boy doll so I never thought of it as feminine, even though I was the only boy with a doll in the neighbourhood, but I also liked trucks so I was less obvious.

For me it was more of a case of feeling something wasnt right for a long time and then at one point discovering 'this makes sense' and 'this feels good'. I sometimes think humans are capableof a much broader range of behavior than we put them in, and the whole notion of one gender is wrong.

and yes mealticket, some girls probably do transition for the wrong reason. That's why we need to talk about it more!!

Well no i do believe having the notion of gender is right in terms of functionality. Without it we would all be confused, it is a matter of knowing what you are and who you are and embracing it. whether your gay, bi, lesbian or man or woman. There is a group that separates others which is not bad this is selection in many ways some men just wont do with other men, that is why knowing your gender or sexuality is important mentally and spirituality. In reality every human has a gender role and sexuality it is being human, and scientifically normal. In terms of transitioning I was stating I never even thought of it. I just knew I was a little girl and confused to why people saw me as a boy and why i had this body.

[Bobby Domino]

Now I didn't actually start taking hormones at 12, my breast fully developed at 17, never went trough male puberty such as voice change, facial changes, body changes, etc. But i would suggest like what my mom had told me before, never transition because it makes you feel sexual, or for men. You can feel as sexual and get as much guys as a man. ]Being a transsexual is not a joke! there gets to a point where you cannot go back and many cases have left a lot of ts miserable and even commit suicide because they realize they were not true transgenders but had gone too far off transitioning. If this is how you have felt since you can remember you could very well be a true transgender, therefore you need to seek help it is better to live life going for what you want and trying than not trying at all. If you are interested my mom is a sexologist and can advise you a doctor in your city and state. I know I'm only 21 but I know more than you think, and if you need to talk inbox me anytime!

A very close TG friend told me that after 10 years, she started having male feelings again. During that period, she would look at her tits like obstructions. At the time, I was very new to it all and didn't know how to help. It was a very tough time and I regret not being able to find the words to help her. She is much better now....

[SunshyneMonroe]

I dont think ppl should trans till 18 I dont feel a 10 year old nor and 16 year old knows ne thing about life... when u trans you should be an adult...imo...My mom made me wait till I was 18 as well as made me freeze some of my "babys" so if i ever wanted to have kids I could...This is was ppl dont think about at 16

[mealticket]

I think a good option is to go on T blockers somewhere between 13 to 16 to stop male puberty, then maybe at 18 they can then decide if they want to indeed continue transition with estrogen or let male puberty kick in....

[MrsKellyPierce]

I would disagree with Sunshine.............

However I do agree that you should start hormones at 18

It's very harsh medicine...

I transitioned at age 12 - went to high shool as a female - I had to have loads and loads of counseling before I was even allowed to go to school as a female...

And even then they put me in a special class (for my safety) - till we got an advocacy lawyer

But I knew from the get-go I was wrong - that my body didn't match how I felt...

I think it helped me transitioning younger in my adult life

And look at the beautiful Kim who went post-op at 16 from Germany - she is happier than ever and beautiful...

So Sunshine I have to disagree with you

[EvonRose]

I dont think ppl should trans till 18 I dont feel a 10 year old nor and 16 year old knows ne thing about life... when u trans you should be an adult...imo...My mom made me wait till I was 18 as well as made me freeze some of my "babys" so if i ever wanted to have kids I could...This is was ppl dont think about at 16

This was a better option for you, but my mom felt it was okay for me to go trough it at 12 and guess she is a trained professional and she did her evaluations and tests and i may have qualified. I don't think we give children enough credit either these kind of subject is not something one thinks about, its something that is just there. If you have to think whether you are a male or female then you are questioning, i never questioned. from my experience being out in public dressed like a boy was humiliating it was that extreme. I would blow up balloons and stuff it down my chest in middle school! so I think the different level of transitioning we went through are two different levels of extreme and i think in some cases should be allowed with younger people.