Trannys were once a new thrill for you guys.

[slut_wannnabe]

I wonder. Were transsexuals a perfect fit for some of you, which left you feeling like you finally arrived at the sexual destination you always vaguely dreamed of, but couldn't quite put your finger on?

My interest in transsexuals has multiple dimensions. First, I am intrigued by the notion of gender affinity. I am male, both genetically and in physique; however, I also have strong "feminine" tendencies. I do not desire to be/become a woman, neither do I feel a strong attachment to being "male". My gender is just a very small part of who I am, and I don't feel bound to any presumptions about what is considered "masculine" or "feminine".

This makes me wonder about transsexuals; unlike the vast majority of people, who tend to identify with whatever gender they may have, transsexuals have clearly given the matter a great deal of thought, and for whatever reason feel a strong affinity for a gender not "naturally" their own. While I accept that they do feel this way, and have no problems with this; I also wonder at what the root motivation for such gender attachment is. I simply do not understand (but do wish to) why those who have indeed given it such thought remain attached to the very notion that gender is so important that it is worth physically changing one's self to mimic another gender. While I don't doubt the legitimacy of the view, that brings me no closer to understanding it.

Second, I am very anally oriented, and being so penetrated is both exciting and pleasurable to me. In my experience, it is much easier to find escorts who are so equipped among the transgendered than among gay males -- this could certainly be because I don't know the proper venues for looking; however, I have done some considerable investigation.

Third, I find the notion of being "genderfucked" extremely erotic. By "genderfucked" I mean engaging in sexual activity where I neither know nor care, at any given moment, what the gender of my partner(s) is. Because transsexuals tend to provide a mix of masculine and feminine cues, it is much easier to approach this state.

Fourth, I am a strong advocate of breaking taboos. Breaking taboos releases a great deal of power at the psychological level; that power may be used to cause fundamental changes in the mind of the person breaking them, both inadvertently and deliberately. I seek such opportunities to "reprogram" myself to the be the person I wish to be, rather than the person I happen to be.

There are other, lesser and ancillary, reasons; however, I hope this provides some insight into at least one person's view.

[Silcc69]

I've also entertained men's fantasies of being their little girl. I've talked "baby talk" when requested and driven guys crazy with lust. But I don't do extreme roleplay as a submissive anymore. I realized I was learning way more than I wanted to about some of these men. I'm not instinctively submissive anyway. I can be with someone who I have an emotional bond with, but it's not a consistent dynamic. It's give and take. In a good relationship, no one should always be submissive imo.

I prefer being in control almost always with clients though. I can range from being genuinely dominant to being sadistically cruel. I have that propensity. But being their "little girl" is nothing I could even fake; not with a stranger. I'm sure other girls can, or are genuinely like that. But then, I think the reason my clients like me is, I genuinely cordial and warm, AND I'm genuine about enjoying my role as a domme.

What is uhm "baby talk"?

[mikelpo]

What is uhm "baby talk"?

Goo goo ga ga?

[Silcc69]

Goo goo ga ga?

I kinda thought so but I hope that's not the case.

[OmarZ]

Damn that sucks, no TS at all? Not even in a close nearby city?

Paying for sex does suck at first. My first time, I really, really didnt want to pay, but I really, really wanted to see a tgirl, especially the particular one I saw. At first you might have regrets for paying, but if u have a good paying job you'll get over it because money can always be made and replaced, might as well pay to see one or two. Plus u never know what relationship u might build with her. We all live once as far as we know of, might as well enjoy life to its fullest.

maybe some middle aged gay guys in wigs, but no real ts, or even femme cds

well, i have a few dozen pretty t girls on facebook, willing to go on a date... just the distance is the problem.

[OmarZ]

But, yeah. Go to school. Get a real job, at least to see what it's like if you haven't. Join the human race, by all means. If you have to do a little "moonlighting", so what? I mean, I have no shame about escorting or porn. There are far worse things that people do. I'd be more ashamed of being full of shit.

As one cute tg told me " i want to be a normal human being, so i have a normal job"

[BigDF]

Not quite a perfect fit for me as I am married, but there is no doubt in my mind that if I suddenly became single again I would be looking for a transsexual woman in preference to a genetic woman. I do not look upon any human as a sexual kink. My wife is well aware that I am attracted to trannys and though it sometimes bothers her, she trusts me to honor our vows. I've only met one tranny in person, an attractive lady close to my own age who was getting ready to transition. Most people on here would call her a TV/CD and she was in man mode when we met, but I could see the woman inside her male body shining out through her eyes.

Like many on here my first exposure to transsexualism was through pornography, but after I watched for awhile I began to get curious about things and went looking for information. There are some excellent sources out here on the net and I was able to learn quite a bit. I also learned a lot from various stars over the years by joining their forums and reading their individual stories.

I read somewhere that some people are starting to call transsexuals the third sex, which I think is quite apt. I think what attracts me most of all is the tremendous bravery and strength that transsexuals have to undergo what you must to live the life you feel you must. I don't know how to put it any better, except to say that I think all transsexuals are beautiful people. I to you all.

[doctor screw]

LOL Exactly. We're not dealing with any potential BFs here; for the most part anyway. Some of these guys are pretty sharp and together, but how many of them are capable of thinking with the big head before they let the little head do the talking? lol

But unfortunately, many men don't learn about having relationships with women from anything but porn and maaaaaybe escorts. The guys who get the BIG PICTURE are rare. GGs deal with that to some extent too, but nowhere near as much as we do.

[Nicole Dupre]

Jesus. Guys, please. I'm not accusing anyone here of being a child molester or statutory rapist. i don't think that's what the majority of you are into. I was just saying that lots of guys who are into trannys as a fetish thing are into other stuff, and I wonder what sometimes.

*sigh Ok. Let's just look at TSbrenda for a second.(Well, maybe not. lol) Ok. Brenda is obviously into some strange shit. And the only real connection any of it has to transsexuals, from what I can see, is some type of M2F transformation. He's sexually aroused by disguising the male body as female. Now I know that there is some wild shit with TG fiction also. Years ago, I was pointed in the direction of a site called Fictionmania which has some very odd, but obviously very popular, categories for TG fiction erotica. One is actually "underage". One is for people who get off on men magically turning into girls from wearing necklaces and stuff. But then there are other categories for S&M, rubber, heels, etc. All ion all, very odd shit imo. So I'm just wondering how these fetishes may come into play with you guys, if AT ALL. I don't assume they do. BUT, for the guys who don't want us for anything more than a fantasy, it's not so far-fetched to think that we fit into some outrageous scenarios that give someone here some type of sexual excitement.

Personally, if I was born with a vagina, I don't think I would have ever explored the more kinky side of life. A lot of what I've learned to do with guys over the years is what THEY wanted. I probably would've been happy to just have a pussy to get fucked in, by someone I consider to be a handsome, sexy guy. I like romance and tenderness. My tattoos are more about adornment and art than any pain. Trust me. I hate physical pain, even though I have a high threshold for it. But anyway, I know some guys don't want to marry a TS, let alone even meet one. lol I mean, I can't predict which categories you all fall into, or even why you're here.

[Nicole Dupre]

That's you're way of saying something?

Trust me. I see how deep in fantasy many guys are with their whole TS fetish. I meet them every damn day. Don't tell me porn and escorts resemble the day-to-day sexual experiences that most of you have. If they do, you have a LOT of money. Guys with that much money usually focus on a girl or two, and become their sugar daddy. And I doubt some dude with a sci-fi comic book avatar calling himself doctor screw is living in a mansion. So what's your deal, dude. You're one of these guys who makes shit up to feel better about themselves? You're gonna tell us all what hot shit you are, and how you don't have to pay to sleep with escorts? Please, do tell. This should be interesting...