Trannys were once a new thrill for you guys.

[Prospero]

You don't read very carefully do you Yvonne I said babies, toddlers and young people. I deplore this. Do not dare suggest that it is MAYBE a coincidence Yvonne. I accept that you met some creeps and that they thought that having sex with you (consensual I assume0 was okay but that having sex with toddlers wasn't. Did they rape you then Yvonne/ is that what happened/ if it did then i find that sickening. But if it was consensual what exactly are you on about? I hate and loath sexual abuse of anyone. I believe that sexuality must be consensual. And i would no more have sex with a child than i would kill an old lady. So just shut up with your veiled accusations,

[OmarZ]

Really? U need to jump on that bandwagon quick man, you're missing out! Hop on backpage tonight after the football games and get yourself a tgirl!

Nope no TS in my area

and honestly id hate it to have to pay for sex...

[Yvonne183]

You don't read very carefully do you Yvonne I said babies, toddlers and young people. I deplore this. Do not dare suggest that it is MAYBE a coincidence Yvonne. I accept that you met some creeps and that they thought that having sex with you (consensual I assume0 was okay but that having sex with toddlers wasn't. Did they rape you then Yvonne/ is that what happened/ if it did then i find that sickening. But if it was consensual what exactly are you on about? I hate and loath sexual abuse of anyone. I believe that sexuality must be consensual. And i would no more have sex with a child than i would kill an old lady. So just shut up with your veiled accusations,

I told you I am not going into details to satisfy you or anyone else's disgusting thrill. I said they were peds and that is all I will say.

And again you target my post words as too exact, off course the guys didn't say the exact same thing as you did, but they did say something very similar, the content was the same, they had a sort of self rules as to what they felt constituted being a ped and what was OK to do, similar to what you said, i can't help if your words were SIMILAR to theirs.

[Nicole Dupre]

in defense to my ts sisters you cant really comment about the escorting thing, in life we do not have the same opportunities given to us than normal men and women, many of us take things in our own hands, many feel surgery, hormones, etc can be quite expensive so how do you pay for it when every job seems to discriminate or not hire you because it says male in your id or birth certificate? If you would truly care for a ts you would find a solution for her out not just if you want to be with me then you stop without and means of support, sorry but you cannot really understand this subject unless you are a ts yourself. I know from experience even tough my mom had me start of very young and i didn't need surgery to feminize myself i dabbled and still do in the fetish scene to provide for my school that eventually landed my real job( that seems to be the only way, education) And in no doubt in my mind i would one day want to settle down with a man and wake up and cook him breakfast, do his laundry, yell at him for stupid crap yes i would love to be in a marriage and actually give myself to him. And many ts do to! They probably just don't have a way or option outside the industry. a little understanding goes a long way and if you want a ts GF nothing says romantic more than understanding and honesty.

Great post. I couldn't agree with you more.

I can't relate to the girls who find themselves living the sexworker life as a final destination or career. I also take offensive to being told by many TS that I'm hurting my fellow transsexuals by being one, or that I'm "just like the rest" of who they've known. Well I went to school, and I have a great relationship with my family. It actually got better and better the further I went with my transition. They never worried about ME being a TS; they worried about what the assholes of the world would try to put me through. And those assholes have tried to break my spirit PLENTY. But I appreciate those things. I have NO regrets. And I never wanted to be in the "27 Club" like some of the girls I've known ie. crash and burn because I never thought about my future. People think I'm a snotty bitch because I'm honest about my values and what I want from life. But I got over all of them a while ago. No one was there for me at the most difficult moments in my transition, so I don't live my life to please anyone but myself, my family, and my real friends. I don't want validation as a sexworker. The ends will justify the means.

[f1manoz]

I wonder. Were transsexuals a perfect fit for some of you, which left you feeling like you finally arrived at the sexual destination you always vaguely dreamed of, but couldn't quite put your finger on?

Or do you see us as a kick? Were we just one taboo that you needed to conquer? And, if so, is the "fetish" still satisfying you? Was it all that you hoped for? Were "we" who you hoped we'd be? For that matter, how much have you learned to make generalizations about us as human beings? Are we "all the same" the more you get to know us? Or do you feel like you don't even have enough time in your life to get to know us quite the way you should?

And, if we are a taboo, what other taboos might you be inclined to... move towards? I know many men secretly lust for children. I've had a few confess this to me. And many do far more than think about it. And trust me. It's not always "someone else". I bet it's some guy you already know, or someone you see on television and/or in movies. Maybe it's your boss. Maybe it's your priest. Maybe it's your father.

But back to us; transsexuals. What do you think? Do we satisfy you? Are we worth the learning experiences that come along with getting to know us? Or, do we have too much baggage? If you seek love, are we lovable? Do you love yourself enough to even love anyone else in the first place? Do you want love or just sex, or both? Are we an escape or a realistic goal?

Reach deep on this thread.

I'll do my best to answer this one.

I'm 29 and have been interested in transsexuals for over 10 years now. How did I got interested? Probably from the internet. What attracted me? Still can't answer that honestly 100%. At the beginning, it probably was the taboo aspect.

It took moving from Australia to the UK to actually do anything about it. To begin with, I started seeking out escorts. It was merely a case of getting the experience and, if I liked it and realised it was what I wanted, then I would go on further.

However, it is only in the past year that I've seriously started looking for a partner. I joined an online website that appeared reputable enough - not simply a false find-a-fuck website. The only problem is that most of the girls from the website were overseas.

Anyway, long story short, I started chatting with one girl from the Philippines. She was interesting to talk to and we chatted for a number of months. We then almost mutually suggested me flying to actually meet up. So I booked a ticket to Cebu, booked a hotel to stay and flew there late last month.

The girl I went to meet was pretty much everything I want. Attractive, educated, driven to succeed, but at the heart of it, just a thoroughly likeable person.

We spent 11 days and nights together in total. Now while I was warned prior to my trip that I should 'be careful' - not sexually but financially - never did she expect anything from me. But, being the gentleman that I am, I always made sure she was looked after without taking the piss.

I almost met many of friends and also spent time with her family. She comes from a reasonable middle-class upbringing, though Filipino middle-class is quite different to UK / Australian middle-class. She told me that her family really liked me which was nice to hear.

Anyway, I only got home today from my trip and I thoroughly miss her already. We got along very well and have already spoken about me returning sometime next year.

[SirCumsAlot]

Nope no TS in my area

and honestly id hate it to have to pay for sex...

Damn that sucks, no TS at all? Not even in a close nearby city?

Paying for sex does suck at first. My first time, I really, really didnt want to pay, but I really, really wanted to see a tgirl, especially the particular one I saw. At first you might have regrets for paying, but if u have a good paying job you'll get over it because money can always be made and replaced, might as well pay to see one or two. Plus u never know what relationship u might build with her. We all live once as far as we know of, might as well enjoy life to its fullest.

[Nicole Dupre]

I've also entertained men's fantasies of being their little girl. I've talked "baby talk" when requested and driven guys crazy with lust. But I don't do extreme roleplay as a submissive anymore. I realized I was learning way more than I wanted to about some of these men. I'm not instinctively submissive anyway. I can be with someone who I have an emotional bond with, but it's not a consistent dynamic. It's give and take. In a good relationship, no one should always be submissive imo.

I prefer being in control almost always with clients though. I can range from being genuinely dominant to being sadistically cruel. I have that propensity. But being their "little girl" is nothing I could even fake; not with a stranger. I'm sure other girls can, or are genuinely like that. But then, I think the reason my clients like me is, I genuinely cordial and warm, AND I'm genuine about enjoying my role as a domme.

[Mayrah]

in defense to my ts sisters you cant really comment about the escorting thing, in life we do not have the same opportunities given to us than normal men and women, many of us take things in our own hands, many feel surgery, hormones, etc can be quite expensive so how do you pay for it when every job seems to discriminate or not hire you because it says male in your id or birth certificate? If you would truly care for a ts you would find a solution for her out not just if you want to be with me then you stop without and means of support, sorry but you cannot really understand this subject unless you are a ts yourself. I know from experience even tough my mom had me start of very young and i didn't need surgery to feminize myself i dabbled and still do in the fetish scene to provide for my school that eventually landed my real job( that seems to be the only way, education) And in no doubt in my mind i would one day want to settle down with a man and wake up and cook him breakfast, do his laundry, yell at him for stupid crap yes i would love to be in a marriage and actually give myself to him. And many ts do to! They probably just don't have a way or option outside the industry. a little understanding goes a long way and if you want a ts GF nothing says romantic more than understanding and honesty.

Many men who get introduced into ts porn hardly understands a thing about us, they only see the dick and the whole "i want a ts gf" is mostly for just that. Also they seek their gfs in the adult industry, and then bitch about their lifestyle when they have one.

[Prospero]

I told you I am not going into details to satisfy you or anyone else's disgusting thrill. I said they were peds and that is all I will say.

And again you target my post words as too exact, off course the guys didn't say the exact same thing as you did, but they did say something very similar, the content was the same, they had a sort of self rules as to what they felt constituted being a ped and what was OK to do, similar to what you said, i can't help if your words were SIMILAR to theirs.

Yvonne - I have no desire whatsoever to have details for "any disgusting thrill" I do not want the details. I accept that it has scarred you. I feel sympathy for you if the experience was unpleasant and has left you scarred. That is all.

You might find my words as similar as you like. I repeat again that I resent that - from that - you imply that i might share this taste for paeodophilia.
I emphatically assure you that there is no taste for this in me at all. If you read my posts here you will find that by-and-large, i refer more mature women - emotionally and physicially. I totally condemn paeodophilia.

Yes i do read yours and others posts carefully. Why wouldn't I? Words matter. They can and do express things carefully and exactly. So just as I accept that you had a bad experience with some men who you assume or believe to have had paedophilic impulses please accept my assurance that I do not. Okay?

[Nicole Dupre]

Many men who get introduced into ts porn hardly understands a thing about us, they only see the dick and the whole "i want a ts gf" is mostly for just that. Also they seek their gfs in the adult industry, and then bitch about their lifestyle when they have one.

LOL Exactly. We're not dealing with any potential BFs here; for the most part anyway. Some of these guys are pretty sharp and together, but how many of them are capable of thinking with the big head before they let the little head do the talking? lol

But unfortunately, many men don't learn about having relationships with women from anything but porn and maaaaaybe escorts. The guys who get the BIG PICTURE are rare. GGs deal with that to some extent too, but nowhere near as much as we do.