Trannys were once a new thrill for you guys.

[Stavros]

An additional issue which I think is relevant to this thread, is an assumption that is made about 'being a man'. In the past I have worked with blue collar worker people whose sexual exploits are part of everyday conversation, and if someone has nothing to say it suggests they are either gay or cant get laid, and for those reasons is 'less than a man'. Althoug I came to the conclusion that most of the stories I was told were either rubbish or heavily embroidered, there is one major problem that is rarely discussed -how good are you at sex? It always looks good in the movies, but how many real encounters resemble the film with any ts porn star you can name?

I wonder how many escorts get frustrated with clients who don't know what to do with a transexual, or are just not very good, technically speaking -and conversely the ones who do know, I don't know which scores more than the other. One of the reasons people dont like telling the truth about sex is because sexual behaviour is linked to personality: active, passive, sensitive, rough and so on -it may be an alter-ego for some, but it still tells something -but not everything- about the person, and that's true of both partners. I saw a programme about porn films once where someone said a lot of men can't perform on camera, and that often there is another guy standing by to produce the 'money shot' if the lead can't come.

For my own part, I am willing to concede that I have had problems ejaculating, whomever I have been with; I now understand the root causes are psychological not physical, although I did have a minor operation on my penis when I suffered from mild retention about 10 years ago; but it is embarrassing being unable to come, and some would say it is not 'manly', but this insistence on 'proving oneself as a man', being the active partner in the bedroom; being the primary source of income, fathering children and all that, is to me cultural baggage I can do without. Some people are not suited to relationships, and would not make good parents, but it doesn't mean they are somehow inferior to the people who are married and have children.

[alpha2117]

I wonder. Were transsexuals a perfect fit for some of you, which left you feeling like you finally arrived at the sexual destination you always vaguely dreamed of, but couldn't quite put your finger on?

Or do you see us as a kick? Were we just one taboo that you needed to conquer? And, if so, is the "fetish" still satisfying you? Was it all that you hoped for? Were "we" who you hoped we'd be? For that matter, how much have you learned to make generalizations about us as human beings? Are we "all the same" the more you get to know us? Or do you feel like you don't even have enough time in your life to get to know us quite the way you should?

And, if we are a taboo, what other taboos might you be inclined to... move towards? I know many men secretly lust for children. I've had a few confess this to me. And many do far more than think about it. And trust me. It's not always "someone else". I bet it's some guy you already know, or someone you see on television and/or in movies. Maybe it's your boss. Maybe it's your priest. Maybe it's your father.

But back to us; transsexuals. What do you think? Do we satisfy you? Are we worth the learning experiences that come along with getting to know us? Or, do we have too much baggage? If you seek love, are we lovable? Do you love yourself enough to even love anyone else in the first place? Do you want love or just sex, or both? Are we an escape or a realistic goal?

Reach deep on this thread.

Wandered aimlessly into liking TS girls. I frequented the same bars because they didn't card me and they were open all night. I was happy hanging with the goths and the club kids but I also struck up a friendship with some of the TS girls who held court down one end of the bar. One night one thing led to another and I discovered that I like transsexuals just as much as genetic girls. Truth is that there is very little difference.

[RainMan]

Twinks wearing too much makeup.

Oh ok lol

[BigDF]

An additional issue which I think is relevant to this thread, is an assumption that is made about 'being a man'. In the past I have worked with blue collar worker people whose sexual exploits are part of everyday conversation, and if someone has nothing to say it suggests they are either gay or cant get laid, and for those reasons is 'less than a man'. Althoug I came to the conclusion that most of the stories I was told were either rubbish or heavily embroidered, there is one major problem that is rarely discussed -how good are you at sex? It always looks good in the movies, but how many real encounters resemble the film with any ts porn star you can name?

I wonder how many escorts get frustrated with clients who don't know what to do with a transexual, or are just not very good, technically speaking -and conversely the ones who do know, I don't know which scores more than the other. One of the reasons people dont like telling the truth about sex is because sexual behaviour is linked to personality: active, passive, sensitive, rough and so on -it may be an alter-ego for some, but it still tells something -but not everything- about the person, and that's true of both partners. I saw a programme about porn films once where someone said a lot of men can't perform on camera, and that often there is another guy standing by to produce the 'money shot' if the lead can't come.

For my own part, I am willing to concede that I have had problems ejaculating, whomever I have been with; I now understand the root causes are psychological not physical, although I did have a minor operation on my penis when I suffered from mild retention about 10 years ago; but it is embarrassing being unable to come, and some would say it is not 'manly', but this insistence on 'proving oneself as a man', being the active partner in the bedroom; being the primary source of income, fathering children and all that, is to me cultural baggage I can do without. Some people are not suited to relationships, and would not make good parents, but it doesn't mean they are somehow inferior to the people who are married and have children.

Stavros as a former blue collar worker and UAW union steward I can tell you that in general 90% of what the guys say about their love life is pure crap. This percentage often goes down as the guys get older, married, etc. On the other hand, I found it is a lot more interesting to hang out and listen to blue collar women talking about sex as they are much more open about their affairs, especially if some guy did something to make an ass of himself.

I understand your issues as well, because my cock has several annoying habits such as going limp at critical times as well as not ejaculating sometimes. Size? Well, I don't want to brag or anything, but if I can get hard it's probably a whole 5 inches. Balls about the size of marbles and I'm on a monthly schedule to for testosterone injections. My performance follows this schedule, so at the beginning of the month I am snorting and pawing the ground, ready to shag anyone or anything I can get to hold still for a minute and a half. Performance heads downhill to the end of the month when I'd just as soon sleep.

My first wife left me because I could not sire a child, or at least that's what she told me. Of course that bothered the hell out of me for a long time, but I finally decided it was for the best. I married my present wife in 1989 and have been thankful to have her every day since. She has seen me through my medical problems and has put up with all of my little idiosyncrasies, including my attraction to transsexuals. She has her own issues with sex and we haven't had a physical relationship in years, but we are happy with each other.

Well, damn, I guess that's enough of this crap.

[loveboof]

Hey BigDF, don't tell these arseholes that stuff...

(you seem like a good bloke, so I don't wanna see this come back around in a few weeks)

[BigDF]

Hey BigDF, don't tell these arseholes that stuff...

(you seem like a good bloke, so I don't wanna see this come back around in a few weeks)

Wouldn't be the first time, my friend. I've been called out on here a lot. Somewhere around last year I decided that I was going to say what I wanted to say and just be myself. That's when I put my own photo in my avatar and started sharing things on here.

You see, I'm not sure how much longer I will be inhabiting this vale of tears. I've had lung cancer and survived, along with two brain tumors that were removed surgically. There's little anyone on here can do to me.

Thank you for your concern, Loveboof.

[Jericho]

But back to us; transsexuals. What do you think? Do we satisfy you? Are we worth the learning experiences that come along with getting to know us? Or, do we have too much baggage? If you seek love, are we lovable? Do you love yourself enough to even love anyone else in the first place? Do you want love or just sex, or both? Are we an escape or a realistic goal?

SO the wrong time to be asking this!

[loveboof]

@ BigDF: That sounds horrible, but you made it through - and you're right, I doubt there's much anyone can say to you now (especially on here)...

[fred41]

I've had lung cancer and survived, along with two brain tumors that were removed surgically. There's little anyone on here can do to me.

Once you come face to face with your own mortality...you don't sweat the small stuff. True.

[Jackal]

I've dated and made love to transwomen before...I am attracted to transsexual women. It isn't just a matter of checking out the porn or having a curiosity, not for me. For other guys who check out transsexual websites, pics, porn, etc.? Sure, for some of them.