Trannys were once a new thrill for you guys.

[Nicole Dupre]

I wonder. Were transsexuals a perfect fit for some of you, which left you feeling like you finally arrived at the sexual destination you always vaguely dreamed of, but couldn't quite put your finger on?

Or do you see us as a kick? Were we just one taboo that you needed to conquer? And, if so, is the "fetish" still satisfying you? Was it all that you hoped for? Were "we" who you hoped we'd be? For that matter, how much have you learned to make generalizations about us as human beings? Are we "all the same" the more you get to know us? Or do you feel like you don't even have enough time in your life to get to know us quite the way you should?

And, if we are a taboo, what other taboos might you be inclined to... move towards? I know many men secretly lust for children. I've had a few confess this to me. And many do far more than think about it. And trust me. It's not always "someone else". I bet it's some guy you already know, or someone you see on television and/or in movies. Maybe it's your boss. Maybe it's your priest. Maybe it's your father.

But back to us; transsexuals. What do you think? Do we satisfy you? Are we worth the learning experiences that come along with getting to know us? Or, do we have too much baggage? If you seek love, are we lovable? Do you love yourself enough to even love anyone else in the first place? Do you want love or just sex, or both? Are we an escape or a realistic goal?

Reach deep on this thread.

[SirCumsAlot]

If I could met a tranny who didn't want to escort for the rest of her life, like is actually willing to stop escorting and pursue onto other things, I wouldn't mind getting to know her on the personal level and dating her and being public about it. She also has to be into me too of course and not what's in my banking account. I've only met a very very few who were actually willing to stop escorting for me while we dated.

[Prospero]

I know you love provocation Nicole. But I think to suggest that an attraction to transexuals leads to paedophilia is rather offensive. It is the same sort of argument that used to be levelled against gay people - that they would, given half a chance, molest little boys so would need to be hounded out of jobs such as teaching. Paedophilia is a sickness that is just as likely to arise among the heterosexual population as among those attracted to transexuals and among homosexuals.

Perhaps all men who are attracted to transexuals and transvestites should be rounded up and put in camps to protect children? Just in case?

[Yvonne183]

Good question Nicole, I await the responses and I can only hope they are honest responses and not words of the usual standard types of words to sound correct and comfy.

I am not sure if I should respond cause I am on the other end of this question but in my life's encounters most of the guys i met wanted me to stay in the closet and hide from their real life and just to appear when they are horny.

I don't know about the link or connection with peds, but when I was very young, the men that were attracted to me and had sex with me would be classified as such but whether it had to do with me looking like a girl is unclear. I believe these guys would have molested me if i was either a boy or girl.

I await some honest answers, but I prepare for another battle,,,,lol

[Nicole Dupre]

I know you love provocation Nicole. But I think to suggest that an attraction to transexuals leads to paedophilia is rather offensive. It is the same sort of argument that used to be levelled against gay people - that they would, given half a chance, molest little boys so would need to be hounded out of jobs such as teaching. Paedophilia is a sickness that is just as likely to arise among the heterosexual population as among those attracted to transexuals and among homosexuals.

Perhaps all men who are attracted to transexuals and transvestites should be rounded up and put in camps to protect children? Just in case?

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I'm not suggesting a love of transsexuals implies being a latent child molester AT ALL. I'm merely telling you what I've heard from men at weak moments. I never made the association until I heard it more than 2 or 3 times. In fact, I've also noticed that men often fantasize about being the child in question. It's the idea of deflowering that they cathect. Many men are turned on by the thought of perversion itself. I'm sure a multitude of things cross over into any given man's libido. Actually, I think most men who like transsexuals are sexually submissive. But I could be wrong. But men who leave transsexuals in the realm of their fetishes do have other fetishes. From being a smoker of cigarettes, I've learned that MANY men have a thing for both transsexuals and smoking. But heels, leather, S&M, bondage, paraphilic infantilism, necrophilia, etc, etc ALL potentially share some common ground in many men's libidos also.

I ultimately have no idea what makes many men tick, sexually. I was just asking questions, not making blanket statements about men into trannys being latent child molesters, although I'm sure the phenomenon exists.

[Prospero]

Yvonne wrote: " when I was very young, the men that were attracted to me and had sex with me would be classified as such but whether it had to do with me looking like a girl is unclear. I believe these guys would have molested me if i was either a boy or girl."

Plenty of men are attracted to teenage girls - who are often legally underage. Technically - in the eyes of the law - this is paedophilia. But I think a 25 year old who dates and maybe has sex with a 15 year old is - by and large - a fool but not a sex monster. Plenty of girls under the age of consent are also keen to have sex - and usually with boys or men older than themselves. It's always been a fact of the world.
Paedophilia is surely something else really - the sick creeps who want to molest babies, toddlers or the very young.

[OmarZ]

I wonder. Were transsexuals a perfect fit for some of you, which left you feeling like you finally arrived at the sexual destination you always vaguely dreamed of, but couldn't quite put your finger on?

Or do you see us as a kick? Were we just one taboo that you needed to conquer? And, if so, is the "fetish" still satisfying you? Was it all that you hoped for? Were "we" who you hoped we'd be? For that matter, how much have you learned to make generalizations about us as human beings? Are we "all the same" the more you get to know us? Or do you feel like you don't even have enough time in your life to get to know us quite the way you should?

And, if we are a taboo, what other taboos might you be inclined to... move towards? I know many men secretly lust for children. I've had a few confess this to me. And many do far more than think about it. And trust me. It's not always "someone else". I bet it's some guy you already know, or someone you see on television and/or in movies. Maybe it's your boss. Maybe it's your priest. Maybe it's your father.

But back to us; transsexuals. What do you think? Do we satisfy you? Are we worth the learning experiences that come along with getting to know us? Or, do we have too much baggage? If you seek love, are we lovable? Do you love yourself enough to even love anyone else in the first place? Do you want love or just sex, or both? Are we an escape or a realistic goal?

Reach deep on this thread.

For me its all a fantasy

ive never meet a TS in real life as far as I know...

[Nicole Dupre]

I wasn't for even a second expecting that guys start raising their hands and saying they have kiddie porn on their computers, but I'd bet my life that some guys on here do. Personally though, I don't want to know the details.

[Silcc69]

Well remember one of the most popular thread in here was the club kids thread. So you can take that as it is. As for everything else I haven't found the right gg let alone tg so i'm pretty much status unknown. If I did meet the right tg i'm not even sure how i'd feel.

[SirCumsAlot]

ive never meet a TS in real life as far as I know...

Really? U need to jump on that bandwagon quick man, you're missing out! Hop on backpage tonight after the football games and get yourself a tgirl!