Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender

[NaughtyJane]

I disagree, I can think of a few who really do pass 100%. All Thai's/Phillipina's mind.

And how many of those girls do you personally have access to, in a public everyday social sense, sir... ??

All lives are imperfect. Many of us strive to make them better. I suspect yours is made better via desire and observation, rather than actual experience.

[archineer]

And how many of those girls do you personally have access to, in a public everyday social sense, sir... ??

All lives are imperfect. Many of us strive to make them better. I suspect yours is made better via desire and observation, rather than actual experience.

Well i'm not sure what you actually mean, but I have 4 close personal friends who I would say fit the mould. There are others I know casually.

[BellaBellucci]

If she's 100% passable the question of her gender would never arise.

You guys are confusing physical sex and gender again. Her gender is female.

As far as passability, as long as one is mostly (naturally) feminine and/or very attractive, it's usually a non-issue, at least here in SoCal (even Orange County). It has nothing to do with percentages.

~BB~

[Nicole Dupre]

A friend who lives in the Philippines claims they're usually only passable in Western countries, because where they live, they're too tall to go unclocked.

[FreddieGomez]

but how does her voice sound?

[pkoonz2930]

The only right thing to do is to be completely open about everything, permitting there is a consensual understanding about what each of you is comfortable about.

These are the kinds of conversations that are important to have because if either person is not 100% committed to each other, the relationship is based on half-truths to begin with. Personally, if anyone were to ask me re: a relationship with a special woman, it's important to be up-front.


That is not to say there is anything wrong with admiring from the background - but if you take the leap of a fully committed relationship, it's all-or-nothing.


Just my take, have a great day everyone!

[archineer]

A friend who lives in the Philippines claims they're usually only passable in Western countries, because where they live, they're too tall to go unclocked.

True. But there are quite a few little ditty ones around 5'4" or so. And there are tall girls in asia too.

[archineer]

http://www.eros-london.com/files/187197.htm

I've only met her twice briefly, but she looks exactly the same in real life.

[BellaBellucci]

There was a study recently that determined that people find it more difficult to determine gender over cultural lines because they are less familiar with their 'norm.'



~BB~

[Nicole Dupre]

True. But there are quite a few little ditty ones around 5'4" or so. And there are tall girls in asia too.

My nail tech is 5'10", and she's Vietnamese.