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09-26-2011 #1
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Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
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Question for all you guys
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09-26-2011 #2
Re: Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
Why not?...
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09-26-2011 #3
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Re: Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
Uh huh..
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09-26-2011 #4
Re: Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
If she's 100% passable the question of her gender would never arise.
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09-26-2011 #5
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09-26-2011 #6
Re: Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
No matter who the girl is, people do discover she is 'different' in hetero-centric social circumstance.
I submit that this whole 100% passable thing is a myth, from someone neck deep in this scene their whole adult life.
In my life I go about my affairs striving for nothing more than being authentic in my nature, true to myself, my internal framework of expression about myself... Generally people are unaware of my 'difference'; but when they are aware of my difference, I am so casual, self assured, friendly and polite and very real- I never have encountered any hostility or social censure... once I figured out how not to be a cartoon of a female. Certainly the early days of all trans women's lives are awkward and comedic.
My point of view is I'd never date a man insecure about what might arise with me on the social frontier...
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09-26-2011 #7
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Re: Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
I'd have to see the rest of her, and get to know her a bit but if that was all good I'd have no problem at all. IMO there is no need to go proclaiming to everyone you meet that your girl is TG, but if it ever came up I'd have no problem with it. I don't really care what other people think- family included. If we were happy that's all that matters.....well, as long as she was down with the ball gag and ropes every now and then, if she wasn't, that would matter, but other than that it should all be good.
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09-27-2011 #8
Re: Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
It would be very cold and inhumane to treat someone like a dirty secret. Of course I'd date her publicly and if bringing up her gender was relevant (and she was okay with me disclosing such information), sure I'd be open with it.
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09-27-2011 #9
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09-27-2011 #10
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Re: Would you date her publicly, and be open about her gender
To the original poster- it all depends on the girl herself. Is she stealth?
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