Racist "pls no black guys" bullshit ho

[SuzySnappz]

The TS side of the business is not as advanced and functions more like the back page GG escort market. Most TS escorts don't screen (in so far as I have experienced). And, to my knowledge, there is no network of TS escorts who refer one another.

Yeah, I don't usually screen too much, as long as I am doing incall out of a decent hotel with a real lobby where the guy has to walk by the front desk/security cameras/etc. And I have to get the vibe from the guy that he is serious about the appointment and not just screwing around, he has to call from the parking lot, etc. I have my own place too but I only see regulars at my own place. The only time I really screen is on an outcall, I need to make sure it's not a wild goose chase.

[wiltthestilt]

i've never heard of TS's asking for references, but i heard (and had the
personal experiences) of a few escorts asking potential clients to
send/text them a pic of themselves. ...Good luck on that and discretion.

LOL, yeah. I've heard of that even with GG's. Just move on to the next girl, especially since the type who would ask for that often isn't even the same one as in her pics. I imagine references are tough for TS's, since there are so few reliable, reputable, TS escorts in most of the country. How many potential customers really have useful references from someone trustworthy? If the TS market expands and gets more organized, I could see that practice catching on with at least the higher profile ladies.

[pantybulge69]

i think it's about the demeanor of a client. People should be
defined by their actions, not a prejudice judgment based upon their
racial ethnicity and what they look like. If a client approaches you professionally and like a gentleman, then he's earned an opportunity for a session, ...if he acts just the opposite with a ghetto mentality, then that's where his actions should get him turned away.

that's why i think any and every client should be addressed on a case by case basis rather than being group together and generalized.
Ditto for escorts with the ones who scam, fake pics,bait-switch,hidden robbery, etc. Just because a client happens to go thru several of them, doesn't mean it holds true for every escort.

there's a number of black clients who conduct themselves
properly and professionally but somehow get caught up in the rage and
heatwave of those who choose not conduct themselves.. So i guess it's easy for some to hateful and be destructive rather than keep their mind open and try to be constructive.

[STARTUP999]

Scanning through "TS4M Casual Encounters" on Craig's I have seen this go both ways.
Lots of posts state either a preference or a requirement for their suiters to be Black (and usually Hung). "Seeking BBC" is a common entry.

I just saw yesterday a really stunning Black TG provider on Back Page in LA including "No Black Men" in her post.

I have asked several providers both TG and GG about this discrimination and the answer was always the same. They thought Black men were more likely to be violent.

[bluesoul]

References from other escorts. Most respectable escorts (yes, there are some) won't see you without references. Sometimes two or three are necessary. Most of these women have personal websites and don't advertise on back page.

how do you get the reference? do you go see the escort and ask them to sign for you a reference? also, i'm guessing you gotta get references from other "most respectable escorts" in order for the reference to be trustworthy- or can it be a reference from any escort?

also, can you get escorts from members of a different gender? like can i use a gg reference with a ts escort? or vice versa?

as far as the topic of this thread: "pls no black guys" bullshit ho. aren't there some escorts who specifically prefer black men? is that also considered racist?

[popo]

so omarZ wanna bitch about girls personal choices but don't got shit to say when someone makes a thread called HUNG T GIRL BLACKS ONLY........ watch me make a white only thread as soon as I got the time

[Rusty Eldora]

References from other escorts. Most respectable escorts (yes, there are some) won't see you without references. Sometimes two or three are necessary. Most of these women have personal websites and don't advertise on back page.

The TS side of the business is not as advanced and functions more like the back page GG escort market. Most TS escorts don't screen (in so far as I have experienced). And, to my knowledge, there is no network of TS escorts who refer one another.

I've also never heard of TS escorts asking for, or accepting GG references, or vice versa. Many customers would prefer that GG escorts not know that they see TS escorts, since it may result in their being denied an appointment.

I've been trying to gain acceptance of TS escorts in Seattle comparable to GG escorts. It's a long journey but there is a lot of progress. Seattle GG provider scene is very much reference based. Yes two references from providers that have seen the guy. A usual response is "yes, I know him and find him safe" or similar. If the one giving the ref is reputable, all the better.

A few of the high end TS providers do get references, usually they have made arrangements for a GG provider friend to check for them. Others check out posts made by the guy on boards. It is very, very true that guys are AFRAID of being identified as seeing TS escorts - fear of appointment denial, being called Gay by other hobbyists, etc. I do think it is overblown, I still see GG providers and the ones I like would love to do a MFT session.

Conversely, reviews of TS providers happen less often compared to a GG. The guy doesn't want to be known.

The OP's point. It is not racist but very valid for a provider to exclude a type of person to be intimate with. It could be Old guys, young guys, blacks, asians, whites, Latin, redhead, tall, short. A good friend of mine is an Asian GG escort - she prefers to not see Chinese. It is important for the provider to use some tact to prevent hurt feelings.

At the same time the provider is reducing her customer base by excluding - not just by the excluded class but others that do not like exclusions. I for one are less likely to see a provider if she excludes - even if I am not.

[ohioguy13]

its a free country anyone can work with who they want. I remember when Danny Glover was whining a few years back about cabs not picking up him because of race. No its beacause new York cabbies know who tips and who doesn't. end of story ask anyone who works in a bar about tipping stereotypes and youll find they hold true
it may be a stereo type but that doesn't mean its not true. anyone who is self employed in whatever industry has the right to work with who they feel comfortable. ask people with mid eastern decent about profiling in airports. no biggie lighten up!

[lifeisfiction]

Till you walked in another's shoes, assumption will lead you down the wrong path."

[trish]

its a free country anyone can work with who they want. I remember when Danny Glover was whining a few years back about cabs not picking up him because of race. No its beacause new York cabbies know who tips and who doesn't.

No. They don’t know who tips and who doesn’t. They don’t know whether Danny tips or not. They ASSUMED from his race that he doesn’t.

I know what you’re saying. You want to say that cabbies have experience and their experience is that the odds for a person of this race tipping you are better than the odds of a person of that race tipping you. They’re just playing the odds.

The trouble with that is threefold. One, it’s an assumption about cabbies and what they think. Two, it assumes there really is a correlation between race and tips, independent of dress and other easily identifiable characteristics quickly discoverable from the cab about a prospective client standing on the curb with his or her hand up. If there is show me the data. Three, using race to determine who you will or will not do business with is racist.

ask people with mid eastern decent about profiling in airports.

Yes ask them. It’s a biggie. But it’s not as big as denial of service on the basis of race. For an airline, that would be illegal.