Is this guy fo' realz?!

[BellaBellucci]

So this guy from Cam4 ordered a pair of my panties last night. He spent nearly an hour hemming and hawing about the price until almost 5AM (knowing I charge $2/min for cyber/phone/cam), pried about the irrelevant and personal details of my life as if they affect his purchase, paid in a manner that allows him a method of chargeback, and paid a SECOND time using the safer method after I refunded his original purchase price in full.

Today he emailed me and asked for a refund because he's a student that had a surprise fee sprung on him. Seriously?! You dragged me into your panty fantasy, you made a decision with your dick, and then come to find out, you also planned poorly. Now you want all of that to be MY problem? Over $50?

Sorry about your fees kid, but if you're going to school and spending money frivolously, you presumably have someone to help you and I have a business to grow and a child to support.

~BB~

[AmyDaly]

Too bad, so sad. Some people need to be taught lessons in life. I have 0 sympathy for people who ask for charge backs on cam shows that they sat in from start to finish. I wish there was a way where you could get even more money out of him for the charge back.

[Silcc69]

Tell him to fuck off.

[Donkey]

Agree completely. Tell him to fuck off.

[BellaBellucci]

Too bad, so sad. Some people need to be taught lessons in life. I have 0 sympathy for people who ask for charge backs on cam shows that they sat in from start to finish. I wish there was a way where you could get even more money out of him for the charge back.

Oh, he's not charging back, or at least if he tries, he'll find that he has no recourse. I've been in the adult business for 14 years and if it's one thing I've learned, it's how to keep my money.

Here's a bit more (reprinted from my Facebook fan page). This came after he told me, 'you can't control when I masturbate' ):

I just got an email telling me how disgusting it is to sell used panties. Tell that to the guy who just paid $50 for them! It's not MY fetish people. I'm just in it for the cash! lol

Here's the last email I sent him in which I said almost the exact same thing (after he promised he wasn't jerking off to me when he was discussing his panty fetish):

'I don't get to control when you masturbate. But you also don't get to control when I talk about erotic topics unless you're paying me. Sorry.

Also, I never told you not to use your cam or mic. I told you not to use your cam if you were jerking off because I didn't want to view unless I was being paid. Regardless, it was a large chunk of my time that I spent with you when I should have been sleeping. Like I said, I'm not a department store salesperson. I'm not being paid a salary to discuss products with you even if you don't buy. We had an agreement. You not only want to back out of it but you want to make me the bad guy citing a sudden need with which I'm supposed to empathize. Well, I do, but I'm trying to run a business here as well.

Furthermore, you've offered to provide proof that you weren't jerking off to me (which is irrelevant BTW, you were obviously using me for stimulation as well), but you haven't offered to prove your school expense. Also, you said others refused to give you a refund as well and you seem really frustrated. As near as I can tell, you've probably run this game before (or at least have had perpetual buyers' remorse issues), and now you're taking your anger out of me because I protected myself and made it impossible for you to play me. Look hon, I ALWAYS protect myself... in more ways than one.

I'm sorry hon, but you knew I was no dummy. Not only am I not doing anything wrong, but I feel that you owe me an apology for this CONTINUING hassle.'

FUNNY SHIT!

~BB~

[MdR Dave]

C'mon. Give me my money back!

Kidding! How about a consolation prize- mail him another pair, something stretchy that Dino could test drive for a day or two first--

I'll post shipping fees to your paypal account.

[hippifried]

Well I can see that you're just torn up about all this.
I can take the money off your hands if it'll ease your mind. Always glad to help.

[Nikka]

I met a dude that was paying for hookers, then I told him to join my website, and he told me "I think joining websites is silly. I rather to give that money to some poor child in Africa"

[rockabilly]

$50 for your panties? I sold my boxers to some girl in India for $145 .. And i'm nobody.

[partlycloudy]

you should have known from the way he critiques porn that franklin wouldn't be happy with his panty purchase...