Why Does Every Guy Say It's His "First Time"?

[realityt]

well when we met a few times i couldnt go through with it.. all we did we make out and ud suck me off..back when you used to live in midtown manhattan

[sheyum]

i think golden bear is right,,....its not the obvious.. "he cant face hes gay and attracted to a woman with a cock" shit... its more that you dont want to feel like a pathetic whore--chasing guy---thus it holds true for chasing t-girls...going to strip clubs..or seeing GG escorts..
the guy doesnt want to be thought of as not being able to get laid without playing...and of course...for many guys --its NOT that they cant get laid without paying...theyre just looking for something in particular...be it a Transexual...a woman other than their wives of G friends...etc..

but no one want to be perceived as a whore monger by the girl hes wooing...nor does he want to think of HIMSELF that way...

its not that big of a deal

I think it's because somewhere deep inside he believes that the escort will think less of him if the escort thinks that he bottoms often. Bottoming, in greater society, is viewed as symbolic of femininity and weakness; and a man usually doesn't want others to think that of him. This is stupid, of course. But it's human psychology. Like when guys don't want a stripper they are chatting it up with to think that they hang out often in strip clubs (as if the stripper hasn't heard that one before).

I've been asked by TS's whether I bottom, and I shoot them a look like they are crazy. I don't. But why should I care whether they think I do or not?

[sheyum]

I always say it's my last time.

thats funny!!!!

and--sort of true!

[Vladimir Putin]

Kayden, I don't know what guys you have run into but the only time I said it was my "first time" was 20 years ago.

[Jamie French]

I appreciate men who have experience and are honest about it. It means they know how to act and what to do. Men who claim that it's their first time immediately make me feel like I'm interacting with a boy rather than a man, or a skeezy liar who gets off on the idea, (or both.)

Even if it truly is a guys 'first time' it's a pretty safe assumption that he's been with GGs before and shouldn't bring up the subject of experience at all, as they are still fuckng a hole & mashing their body against yours. The fact that they'll be fiddling around with an extra dick thrown into the mix hardly qualifies the experience as something so far removed from their usual experience that it bares remarking upon.

[leomonster]

I used to say that. prolly every time inmy first year. But I dont any more. The girl will usually ask (if she's at all interested in the subject) have you ever been with a ts before, on the first phone call. to which I reply "yes" as if its no big deal cause its not really. Then sometimes they'll ask a follow up question along the lines of "so you know what to expect right" "yep I do" this will usually be the last time the subject is brought up. Ive found that Most girls (not all) are really pretty nice if you dont come off as a liar, Be honest on the phone and show up on time, Dont try to negotiate.
in short my attitude is, these girls got to deal with enough dicks without me being one!

[TJ347]

For the same reason everyone who contributes to the Shemale Stories section labels their contribution a "true story".

[blackheva]

You look so beautiful Kayden

[Prospero]

Maybe they mean their first time today? Or this hour? or this week?

[Xcreet]

I've almost had a first time several times, but I get there and it's usually a fake or just downright filthy. So when I say it's my first, it would be my first experience. I've tried to have an encounter, because yes, I like you. It's just never happened in my shit hole of a town. Virgin butthole for the win.