The bisexual man is no longer a myth.

[dickgurl69]

QUOTE=woodywoodsac;991445]This is how I see it:

Gay is when you are a man and are sexually attracted to the image of another man, ie: dressed as a man, jeans, t-shirt, trainers, short hair etc. Or vice versa if you are a woman of course, only change the label to Lesbian.

Bi-sexual is when you are sexually attracted to the image of a man and the image of woman.

When you sexually like the image of a woman but know she has that special extra, ie a cock, thats where it all gets a bit blurred!

I just know what I like. Image of a sexy woman with a cock.[/QUOTE]

[BigDF]

They need more studies like this, since the belief is currently the opposite EVERYWHERE.

I have an acquaintance of mine I actually feel terrible for coming out as being bi recently since all of his friends think it's just his first step into coming terms of being 100% gay, talking with a lisp, and wearing rainbow flags everywhere. But, this is more an anti-man thing than anything, since there's never been a doubt in female bisexuality.

Also, it's a lot of 'wishful thinking' and hope for social pressure from gay men, since, well, it's more dating / sex opportunity for themselves if they can get all bi men thinking the side of themselves into women was simply 'a phase.' True or not, it's in their interest to spread that word everywhere, as it's been done to everyone and their mother...

It seems a bit ironic to me that a person who has labeled himself "Nowhere" would be such an authority of the beliefs of Everywhere. Of course, after I read your second paragraph I started to realize where all this authority is coming from. So at this point, I'm really curious as to how you would label your own sexuality?

But then again, I really don't care about your sexuality, as I have more than enough problems with my own.

[flabbybody]

Why couldn't they use the money given to these pointless studies for cancer research? No one really gives a shit what a bunch of people who swing both ways like to call themselves. I know I don't.

there's always a lot of guys who are attracted to tgirls who worry about being gay.
hense the endless discussion about sexual orientation of chasers

[Nashvegas]

there's always a lot of guys who are attracted to tgirls who worry about being gay.
hense the endless discussion about sexual orientation of chasers

Seriously, there are tons of insecure dudes on this site who worry way too much about labels and what other people think of them.

[onmyknees]

Seriously, there are tons of insecure dudes on this site who worry way too much about labels and what other people think of them.

Shit....ain't that the truth. So much so that they even invent new words to describe thier sexuality. I have more respect for those in your face gay dudes, as combative as they are. At least they aren't searching for some category they can comfortably put themselves in.
And really isn't it insecurity ? Who really cares ? Come to terms with who and what you are, accept whatever that is, and you'll more than likely live comfortably ever after !

[Hydrant]

Social and health workers have a category called MWHSWM (Man Who Have Sex With Men) to cover guys "who do not identify themselves as gay". I suppose prisoners who only fuck men when they are inside would be included in there.

I've been with quite a few male-female couples who escort and I always look for the ones with bi guys because, although I'm not turned on by men who look like men, I'm happy to suck a nice cock if a feminine presence is also involved.

Can I have my own category now please..?

[Nicole Dupre]

Actually "who cares what you are" only works on a forum where you're anonymous. In real life, where you'd have to show some balls to survive, many of you are essentially confused closet fags who aren't quite sure exactly who's dick you'd suck. That's actually more like a promiscuous gay man's attitude than a gay man with a life partner who marches for gay rights.

The guys who do care want to better understand themselves, and have some inkling to be proud of their lives. They're the guys who just might be on the level of the self-actualized women who went the TS route. The rest of you are basically DL clowns - which is fine of course. But in the end, it's difficult to respect you. You tend to be the guys who won't speak up when you find yourself in a conversation with homophobes and transphobes.

When it counts the most, and we feel abandoned the most, is when closet fag rednecks like Marcus Bachman want to "cure" us, jail us, or worse. That's when you need to say something like, "Well, fuck you. I suck dick and take it up the ass, and I'm all man. And if you say I'm not, maybe I'll hand you your redneck ass."

But guys only say stuff like that to prove they're NOT gay. That's the only way they'll speak up either way.

That's why I think James/Erika is ultimately such a vile, hypocritical piece of crap. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. I know he's pretty fat, but no pun intended. LOL

Personally, I feel sorry for most guys like that. Secrets are a bitch.

[Ineeda SM]

Whoever said that the bisexual man was a myth, is an asshole. I agree that these labels are getting way out of hand. I have been bisexual for 40 years, and have known many bisexuals. They/we have never been a myth. I have always had an attraction to men and women alike. I don't recognise new labels like pansexual. Next someone will start calling themselves unisexual. If they like dogs, they will call themselves a K9sexual. If they like sheep, they would be a bahsexual......too many bull shit labels.

Bisexual is the proper word for those who like cock and pussy equally. If you are straight, you like the opposite sex. If you are homosexual, you like the same sex. If you are bisexual, you like both sexes. Like it or not, if you call yourself a pansexual, the truth is you are bisexual. If a bisexual likes men and women, it only stands to reason that a bisexual would really like a transsexual. You get the best of both sexes in one sweet package. You don't need a fourth category label to like TG's.

I am a proud bisexual that likes men, women, and TG's. Just be proud of what ever label you have, and don't worry about it.

[Lirth]

Just submit it to myth busters

[Nicole Dupre]

Whoever said that the bisexual man was a myth, is an asshole. I agree that these labels are getting way out of hand. I have been bisexual for 40 years, and have known many bisexuals. They/we have never been a myth. I have always had an attraction to men and women alike. I don't recognise new labels like pansexual. Next someone will start calling themselves unisexual. If they like dogs, they will call themselves a K9sexual. If they like sheep, they would be a bahsexual......too many bull shit labels.

Bisexual is the proper word for those who like cock and pussy equally. If you are straight, you like the opposite sex. If you are homosexual, you like the same sex. If you are bisexual, you like both sexes. Like it or not, if you call yourself a pansexual, the truth is you are bisexual. If a bisexual likes men and women, it only stands to reason that a bisexual would really like a transsexual. You get the best of both sexes in one sweet package. You don't need a fourth category label to like TG's.

I am a proud bisexual that likes men, women, and TG's. Just be proud of what ever label you have, and don't worry about it.

A few more labels doesn't hurt. People aren't just attracted to genitals. Accurate terms won't hurt anyone. A sexual act with a particular person is not sexuality. The REAL myth is the sexuality label. Unless you're sexuality aroused, the label is moot anyway. If you want labels, the more the merrier, as long as they make sense. But just having 2 or 3 is problematic. If a man says, ""I love this man. He's my husband." That's a homosexual relationship. But if that guy closes his eyes and gets head from a woman, his dick won't have a sexuality. lol Sexuality is actually fluid, not static, technically. I'm not attracted to women, but my penis will enjoy being in a mouth. That's just reality.