How long is too long?

[IndyCloset]

The majority of this thread makes me really sad for the age that we live in where everybody wants the ms. instant gratification and not the right person..

In this day and age the two aren't mutually exclusive.

But if some laddies wanna make him wait...then make him wait.

Indy has other plans.

[Jackal]

If she is a nice lady who I really like and am interested in, then until whenever she is ready.

[Nicole Dupre]

In this day and age the two aren't mutually exclusive.

But if some laddies wanna make him wait...then make him wait.

Indy has other plans.

Chase-roe, please. lol

Yes, they are. "Ms Right" and "Ms Right Now" are two different worlds. Finding the "right person" is a process, and you can't predict you found them just because you fucked someone within less than 24 hrs of meeting them.

Some people don't want a LTR, for whatever reason. That's fine. I know I don't right now. It would be nice and all, but I'm realistic. It doesn't fit in with my plans. Some people don't even have a plan. They're like leaves, getting blown around in the wind. But again, whatever floats your boat... until it sinks. lol

Regardless, it is human nature to both want a soulmate AND to want instantly gratifying sex. Life's filled with paradoxes like that, but that's one of the biggest. Another one would be, you either 'stay in and do your homework' so you get a good job OR you go out and party instead. If you can't find balance with that, you'll wind up working in a gas station and drink bottom shelf booze to drown your sorrows.

So please don't try to make the 'playa creedo' out to be something profound. It's not. Most playas are basically sexual "jacks of all trades, but masters of no women". That's the inevitable future of the "game". You wanna chase? Great. But we both know you're gonna be alone at the end of the road, if that's all you're about. And there are plenty of other playas who will pat you on the back, all the way to becoming an old man with his dick in his hand, wondering what love actually was, or if he could've had it, right before he croaks. "That's a hard muthafuckin' fact of life", Homes. lol

[Nicole Dupre]

But I know lots of you playas had your hearts broken at some point, so you live that way. I sympathize to a degree. That's the other side of that coin. There are some ruthless hoes out there.

But you gotta keep your eye on the prize, if you want a prize.

lol

[Bobby Domino]

I do like having a girl under my arm. The ones I date are because I value their intellect and our topics of conversation. If there's sex after, that's gravy. If there's no sex, the night wasn't wasted. Now if I just wanted some ass, there are those girls as well. I've never really been able to find a balance- a chick that could go to an opera in the evening and then a rave 'til dawn.

Odds are that she does to.

Which is why she's making you wait....

So play those game how you see fit I guess but shit if you're both fucking dutch, she should at least be paying for some of those dates.

Just sayin

[Helvis2012]

Three seems pretty reasonable. I'm thinking that's all I've ever waited.

[Nicole Dupre]

I've never really been able to find a balance- a chick that could go to an opera in the evening and then a rave 'til dawn.

New Orleans is probably not the easiest place to find that girl. NYC is a better bet.