Do all TG's feel this way?

[smartsense]

I recently got into an argument with my girlfriend whom is a tg. It started because she asked me " How many other TS have sucked off?". I honestly answered 3 or 4 to which she completely flipped shit on me. Now keep in mind I'm 25 now, and my first experience with one was at 19. Also she loves when I go down on her, but she was so mad at me for my decisions. I was so confused because it was like she wanted me to feel ashamed about my past(which I dont). All the girls I did that with were passable and I would mind being with in public. She goes on to say that what if she knows one of the people or they see us in public blah blah blah. I ended up talking about the flip side of that coin saying what about the guys you've been with and such. She yells " Because only faggots suck dick!! And I think your're a fucking faggot now!" and she went into the other room. I felt hurt more than anything because I care for and I love her too. Further realizing auguring would only hurt the situation I just left and went home. A week goes by and I havent called but she called me apologizing and what not but I'm still unable to get over what she said. What should I do?

[Str8mlover4TS]

If you truly care for and love her, no pun intended, but just "suck it up", call her back and accept her apology. What she said, she said in the heat of an arguement. But make it clear to her that it was hurtful to you.

[smartsense]

Thanks for that.

I just feel like whenever I look into eyes now that is all she will see in me.

[Wendy Summers]

All tg's is a bad way to put it. Not all of us have that baggage, but many do. There's such a desire distance ourselves from anything related to our former lives as males, that anything which calls back to that can trigger negative emotions... sounds like she may have just been in a bad place and lashed out because of it.

[TempestTS]

Sounds like its HER insecurity thats not the problem you dont seem to have any issues... if she's that uptight about the fact that you have been with other TS and she "Might" know one of them who would know that you like performing oral... so fucking what! Thats no reason to flip out on you for something that she obviously liked up until she started worrying about her own self image and what others might think... apologies aside if she until she can be comfortable with herself shes never going to be comfortable with you.

[Str8mlover4TS]

You need to clear the air with her and tell her that.

Or just do her doggie from now on.

[Str8mlover4TS]

All tg's is a bad way to put it. Not all of us have that baggage, but many do. There's such a desire distance ourselves from anything related to our former lives as males, that anything which calls back to that can trigger negative emotions... sounds like she may have just been in a bad place and lashed out because of it.

Sounds like its HER insecurity thats not the problem you dont seem to have any issues... if she's that uptight about the fact that you have been with other TS and she "Might" know one of them who would know that you like performing oral... so fucking what! Thats no reason to flip out on you for something that she obviously liked up until she started worrying about her own self image and what others might think... apologies aside if she until she can be comfortable with herself shes never going to be comfortable with you.

[smartsense]

I appreciate the feedback guys.

Yeah you're right Wendy Summers I should have said that differently, lol. I should have said How do TG feel about recieving oral? Good or Bad? Or something like that.

TempestTS you hit the nail on the coffin!! That's what I was starting to think and you pulled it from my brain.

[smartsense]

You need to clear the air with her and tell her that.

Or just do her doggie from now on.

That made me chuckle.

[Hebrew Hammer]

I'm pretty sure the more dick you suck the crazier you get. It would certainly explain why almost every partner I've had was certifiable regardless of whether they were gg's, guys, or tg's. That or I need to stop picking up my dates from the loony bin.












As far as useful advice I've only been with 2 tg's and they were both one night stands so I've got nothing.