I'm confused.....

[onmyknees]

I don't know if this is the appropriate section for this, please move if it's in the wrong spot.

Let me start by saying that this forum is the first place that I have read comments from transgender girls, and as I am a brand new member I don't really know much about the lifestyle or what is generally accepted. This forum has been a real eye opener, and has actually made me more confused than ever. I hope someone can help me figure all this out.

I am attracted to women. Nothing about a guy is attractive to me. I found this place as I have become more and more interested in transgender girls. However after reading some of the comments here, I don't think my assumptions are reality. I am not trying to offend anyone and I apologize for my coming generalizations, but I am just putting my thoughts out there. I thought that I would match well with a transgender girl, because- in my experience- I find that the GG I have been involved with use sex to get to relationship stability and then dial it back. The GGs that I have been involved with that have a high sex drive have also been less than faithful...it seems that they desire sex not for the release but for approval...so I wind up with a partner that does not satisfy me, or one that satisfies me, and everyone else.

I had never seen a transgender girl until I saw one in porn. She was so hot I thought she was a GG until she revealed she wasn't. I was pretty shocked. Like I said I like pretty girls, and this chick was hot, I had no problem with her plumbing...I have it too. After seeing more and more hot transgender girls, and having my own issues with GGs, I thought: "maybe dating a transgender girl would be for me"...My misguided thought process had me thinking that a transgender girl would be more sexual- because they would have more knowledge of a male sex drive, but that the sex wouldn't be based off approval like so many GGs. I know I am generalizing but bear with me.

So now I read here that if you like transgender girls you are a "tranny chaser" and then they don't like you. I don't have any interest in being topped or blowing anyone, but I am a pleaser by nature so if a girl wanted oral I would be ok with it, but then I read that if I did that then some girls wouldn't want anything to do with me. The plumbing isn't what attracts me, but what does seems like it was manufactured in my own head. Confused.

Bingo....come on down you win the prize ! LOL

Since your post was obviously genuie, be mindful that anything I'm about to tell you can and will be used against you ...As far as confusion, join the club, but I don't let it bother me or alter my behavior, or my likes.


I get your point...So Pursue the things and the people that satisfy you, and fuck those that try to categorize your behavior. It's a shortcoming of the human behavior, but people will try to put pigeon hole your for everything from politics to sexual choices, and all this while they claim to be open minded !! I suppose people take comfort in either being part of a group, or putting other people in one. If you start putting emphasis on what the psychotics on this board think, you'll need to self medicate before too long. lol
I too have learned a lot since joining, and I wish I could say it was all good....but it ain't. It is what it is..., so I live my life for me and laugh the rest of it off. There's some cool folks on this board...gravitate towards them . You sound like you got your shit together....You'll figure it out. Just my 2 cents.

[Devilboy]

Bingo....come on down you win the prize ! LOL

Since your post was obviously genuie, be mindful that anything I'm about to tell you can and will be used against you ...As far as confusion, join the club, but I don't let it bother me or alter my behavior, or my likes.


I get your point...So Pursue the things and the people that satisfy you, and fuck those that try to categorize your behavior. It's a shortcoming of the human behavior, but people will try to put pigeon hole your for everything from politics to sexual choices, and all this while they claim to be open minded !! I suppose people take comfort in either being part of a group, or putting other people in one. If you start putting emphasis on what the psychotics on this board think, you'll need to self medicate before too long. lol
I too have learned a lot since joining, and I wish I could say it was all
good....but it ain't. It is what it is..., so I live my life for me and laugh the rest of it off. There's some cool folks on this board...gravitate towards them . You sound like you got your shit together....You'll figure it out. Just my 2 cents.

Thanks for the reply. That's part of the problem, I have pursued the people that satisfied me, but it never really panned out from a relationship standpoint. I am trying to get all aspects satisfied, and it's easier said than done. People just like what they like.

[tsdvdman]

Guys who chase women have always been called "womanizers"...guys who like/lust/chase after trannies are called "trannie chasers". It's just a label. It shouldn't affect you one way or another. If you won't suck a man's dick or let a dude fuck you in the ass then why are you stressin some generalized label. Seems to me that the guy who start these "trannie chaser" threads are the ones who will suck a man's dick (not that you've done it yet) and is just trying to convince themself otherwise out loud.

[Devilboy]

Guys who chase women have always been called "womanizers"...guys who like/lust/chase after trannies are called "trannie chasers". It's just a label. It shouldn't affect you one way or another. If you won't suck a man's dick or let a dude fuck you in the ass then why are you stressin some generalized label. Seems to me that the guy who start these "trannie chaser" threads are the ones who will suck a man's dick (not that you've done it yet) and is just trying to convince themself otherwise out loud.

If I was looking to suck a guys dick, I'd be on a gay site. I think you misunderstood my post....I'm not concerned what anyone thinks of me or labels me...I am me.....what I was saying, is that it seems from the comments on this board, that the transgender girls are not what I thought they would be. That's all.

[Foggy]

To Foggy- I am not attracted to men. Whatever I am, i am. I am attracted to beautiful women regardless of their gentiles.

Gentiles...!!!....that's funny.

Hey....relax. It was a joke.
You'll find answers here once you weed through the nonsense.
Like mine.

[Devilboy]

Guys who chase women have always been called "womanizers"...guys who like/lust/chase after trannies are called "trannie chasers". It's just a label. It shouldn't affect you one way or another. If you won't suck a man's dick or let a dude fuck you in the ass then why are you stressin some generalized label. Seems to me that the guy who start these "trannie chaser" threads are the ones who will suck a man's dick (not that you've done it yet) and is just trying to convince themself otherwise out loud.

Gentiles...!!!....that's funny.

Hey....relax. It was a joke.
You'll find answers here once you weed through the nonsense.
Like mine.

LOL. I hate the smart text feature....I took no offense, live and let live....

[Jackal]

I think you are a straight guy who is also trans-attracted. That's what it sounds like. Just do your thing and be respectful to the women you meet; any other labels by yourself or others applied to you are insignificant, especially if they are unhelpful or bothersome to you.

[bte]

Why do people who first join feel the need to post their thoughts on their attraction to t-girls?

[pretty_boi_rico]

lol if u feel that way ur better off fuckin wit genetic women

[yodajazz]

I don't know if this is the appropriate section for this, please move if it's in the wrong spot.

Let me start by saying that this forum is the first place that I have read comments from transgender girls, and as I am a brand new member I don't really know much about the lifestyle or what is generally accepted. This forum has been a real eye opener, and has actually made me more confused than ever. I hope someone can help me figure all this out.

I am attracted to women. Nothing about a guy is attractive to me. I found this place as I have become more and more interested in transgender girls. However after reading some of the comments here, I don't think my assumptions are reality. I am not trying to offend anyone and I apologize for my coming generalizations, but I am just putting my thoughts out there. I thought that I would match well with a transgender girl, because- in my experience- I find that the GG I have been involved with use sex to get to relationship stability and then dial it back. The GGs that I have been involved with that have a high sex drive have also been less than faithful...it seems that they desire sex not for the release but for approval...so I wind up with a partner that does not satisfy me, or one that satisfies me, and everyone else.

I had never seen a transgender girl until I saw one in porn. She was so hot I thought she was a GG until she revealed she wasn't. I was pretty shocked. Like I said I like pretty girls, and this chick was hot, I had no problem with her plumbing...I have it too. After seeing more and more hot transgender girls, and having my own issues with GGs, I thought: "maybe dating a transgender girl would be for me"...My misguided thought process had me thinking that a transgender girl would be more sexual- because they would have more knowledge of a male sex drive, but that the sex wouldn't be based off approval like so many GGs. I know I am generalizing but bear with me.

So now I read here that if you like transgender girls you are a "tranny chaser" and then they don't like you. I don't have any interest in being topped or blowing anyone, but I am a pleaser by nature so if a girl wanted oral I would be ok with it, but then I read that if I did that then some girls wouldn't want anything to do with me. The plumbing isn't what attracts me, but what does seems like it was manufactured in my own head. Confused.

It's not you that is confused. You seem to understand what you want. It is others who confuse the desires of other people that is the major problem. I have never heard, of a tall man, refusing to date a woman, because she is attracted to tall men. Most people understand that it is many things that attract us to others, especially in having a relationship. Most of us have a desire to please or turn on our sex partners period.

So it's like, when you know that you are right, someone will eventually catch on, and you'll both be the happier because of it.