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05-30-2011 #1
Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
As some of you on the board know I work in Politics
What I have not said publicly is that am forced to detransition for work and make myself a presentable male. I wear a chest binding under shrirt, keep short hair, and I try to keep a day's plus stuble to look more masculine.
At frist it seemed like no big deal, but the longer it has dragged on the worse it has made me feel. It has become so dehumanizing to put on my suit & tie and go to work
Is anyone else in the same boat I am? I know I am not the only one out there that has to detransition for thier day job.
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05-30-2011 #2
Re: Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
So basically you go to work like FTM trans person. Also, I have never heard the term detransition,, but OK.
People always tell me that I make the choices in my life, some on this forum told me that my choice of where I live is wrong for me. You do the same,, you make your choices in life. You gotta weigh what is best for you,,is it the money from the job that is good or is the pain from detransition more hurtful than any money. Good luck in what you do. I know it is difficult.
I'm the girl nobody knows until she commits suicide.
Then suddenly everyone knew me.
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05-30-2011 #3
Re: Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
Yvonne183 thank you for your responce
Detransition is easy to define:
A transgender person's return to the birth gender
Yes the money is ok, but the problem of detransitioning Every day is just so mentally draining....it is like a I have to put on a mask and prefrom in a minstrel show. I know that sounds harsh and I don't want to offend anyone, but it's what I am dealing with every day. I am pretty sure I am not the only one who has do this to keep their job.
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05-30-2011 #4
Re: Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
Are those your real tits?
You say you're in politics, are you a Republican and hiding from the haters, or do you detransition for work because you're not passable as a woman?
Show us some face.
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05-30-2011 #5
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05-30-2011 #6
Re: Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
So you are a Republican?
Are you involved in local politics or do you have the capability of moving to a state where GID is protected and working for the party there? If so, please make yourself visible so that people will know that transsexuals come in all colors and political stripes...
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05-30-2011 #7
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05-30-2011 #8
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Re: Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
...I don't force it my transition down the party's throat
I understand the need to protect your job and your identity. As girl who wants to pass in everyday life (i.e. socially, at home and on the job) I keep my past identity under wraps. I don't want to be the woman who's not a really a woman, or who used to be a boy. I just want to pass as an ordinary person. Consequently I don't "advertise" my transgender status to my work colleagues. Indeed I do my best to hide it. But I would find it extremely demoralizing to have to "detransition" every time I go to work or someplace in town where I might bump into a colleague.
I'm sorry to hear you find yourself in this predicament and hope you can find a viable solution before it wears you down.
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05-30-2011 #9
Re: Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
Thank you for your concern Trish.
Well I plan on working for the party until at least this November's general election and maybe until 2012 general. I am expected to present myself as a male who is a strong framily values conservative & yes it can be damn demoralizing at times
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05-30-2011 #10
Re: Anyone else have detransition for thier day job?
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