Whats up with all these guys trying to change...

[Birgitta]

to be fair, girls do it also

True and when it comes down to it tgirls are probably worse then men,

About domino, i remember a lot of guys did not want her to get implants, i thought that was pretty cool.

I dont like a lot of things that guys say here but i like it that some of them are really honest about stuff...like that they would date pre op, but no post op.

i think that makes a lot of girls insecure about srs(well at least im one), if the world was full of guys praising post ops, it would be much easier for me to take the step.

So in general, tgirls that are into men will be influenced by what men say because they love them.
This has resulted in a lot of pressure to look perfect and like a gg.

A lot of girls and lovers find it normal for girls to do ffs, and implants, when they dont look feminine enough, while a the same time more then half of the guys interested want them to behave masculine in bed.
And when a post op does not look like a gg, it is almost considered a crime.

im also very insecure about my looks, but that stuff can really drive you crazy.

I rather be a freak with a big loving heart,then chasing an impossible dream, or one that i could only achieve with selling my body....but the pressure from sociaty, tgirls tlovers, woman and men in general is enormous, and often too much to handle for anyone in this situation....

[LibertyHarkness]

reality is moment you step into anything that invloves posting picutures on an open forum your open to hear things you dont like ...just the way it is ...especially people that are in porn ..

I think people should just be abit more politer if they dont like a look of a girl, rather than, "jeez thats a an ugly cunt with no tits, i have seen boys at my work more girly looking etc" all they would have to say is , xyz is not my cup of tea i dont like her like for me ..

About thick skin, and owning yourself as kelly puts it that is correct .... everyperson needs to own themselves fully ...but you really do need to be come like steel and think nothing of the insects ..

[Prospero]

When it comes to making remarks about girls who've the courage to post pictures the guiding principle should be - if you can't say something nice, say nothing at all.

[phobun]

i think that makes a lot of girls insecure about srs(well at least im one), if the world was full of guys praising post ops, it would be much easier for me to take the step.

You should do everything for yourself and ignore the fetishes of cockhounds.

There are some guys who are not focused on male-anatomy and who will respect and appreciate you for being who you are, not who you think a cockhound wants.

[Bobzz]

Yes it may be a porn forum babe but u have to understand a lot of these girls are doing this life because its all they can do.

This has got to be the 3rd or 4th biggest lie right after the check is in the mail and I promise I won't cum in your mouth (and the lie is not just amongst transgendered women). It is somewhere between a self fulfilling rationale or a misplaced justification not to do anything else. I personally have met and know transsexual women who are hairdressers, Sprint telephone salespeople, barristas at Starbucks, secretaries, restaurant hostesses, lawyers and even a one physician. I'm sure that there are also many, many other careers and positions that transsexual women have chosen rather than "this life", whatever that means.

If one chooses the porn industry (or acting for that matter) as a profession, one willingly subjects themselves to the vox populi and all of the downside comments that go along with it (as well as the upside). After all, you're putting yourself on display for what you are not who you are and not everyone shares the same tastes.

Just a thought!

[phobun]

This has got to be the 3rd or 4th biggest lie right after the check is in the mail and I promise I won't cum in your mouth (and the lie is not just amongst transgendered women). It is somewhere between a self fulfilling rationale or a misplaced justification not to do anything else. I personally have met and know transsexual women who are hairdressers, Sprint telephone salespeople, barristas at Starbucks, secretaries, restaurant hostesses, lawyers and even a one physician. I'm sure that there are also many, many other careers and positions that transsexual women have chosen rather than "this life", whatever that means.

Very true

[tslvr]

Not to be mean, but isn't there a girl in this thread that used to talk about how she would never go to bed with less then a perfect looking guy? My feelings have always been pretty simple, just show a little respect and restraint.

[SammiValentine]

You should do everything for yourself and ignore the fetishes of cockhounds.

There are some guys who are not focused on male-anatomy and who will respect and appreciate you for being who you are, not who you think a cockhound wants.

and there are also men, women or ts who think or say or imply that if you do not want srs you are not a "real" transsexual - also BS. (just like the point you both made)

Pressure , pressure, pressure..

It is more about how you deal with things as Kelly said, - as unfortunately comments whether you like them or dislike them are "nature of the beast".

[Birgitta]

You should do everything for yourself and ignore the fetishes of cockhounds.

There are some guys who are not focused on male-anatomy and who will respect and appreciate you for being who you are, not who you think a cockhound wants.

Might be true, the guys that are passive are no relationship material, but there are guys out there that are, and i can understand that a post op ts is a different sexuality for men, then dating a pre op.
Its easy for me to understand a guy that finds the physique of a pre op attractive, post op you have to be beautifull coz indeed you are competing with ggs and the surgery has to be succesfull too.
Too many risks involved, im not a beauty queen and try to make the best of what i have got.
Im quite rational...or so i like to think,
As a woman, i dont want to be a transsexual,
But i have no choice,
So having to be a ts i can choose between these two options.
I would want to be post op ts if i was really beautifull, and if i get a guarantee the surgery will be a succes,
The above is risky, so for now i rather be a mixture of both sexes, still seems to be the safest and best option for me.

Apart from that i am afraid of cosmetic surgery coz i want to be as natural as possible, and if in any way i would look fake, or plastic just to be passible, i rather be a natural looking ts,
Also i dont have the kind of money to pay for the surgeons i would trust my body too..
So there are a lot of reasons for me not to,

And besides, the guys that like me will probably be indifferent about my genitals anyway, unless it looked deformed and i have seen too many bad examples of that...

[dderek123]

Guys are guys. They won't change.

Porn models should develop thick skin before they decide to get involved in the industry.