So how many of you guys would actually start a relationship with a Tgirl?

[south09]

Yeah but they are going to figure it out eventually. If you keep bringing her out. So ya gotta be cool wit dat. At least that's what I think option D is actually implying. C'mon, nobody talks about each other's dicks at family events.

That's not an absolute truth, but I see what you mean

[dderek123]

Yeah I guess some families talk about dicks a lot when they are together.

[theone1982]

Yeah I guess some families talk about dicks a lot when they are together.

That comes up at my family get togethers all the time. "So which one of you ladies has a penis?"

[dderek123]

Lol. I wonder which sister has bigger balls? Hmmmmm ...

[south09]

Yeah I guess some families talk about dicks a lot when they are together.

...I meant the "they'll figure out eventually" part

[Birgitta]

Far as I'm concerned, a TS woman is a woman, no need to bring her around the family or crew like "yeah, this is my girl, oh and y'all should know that she's got a penis"

You know that is a dilemma, because I would not want family or friends to think I lied or kept secret what I am. And of course I mean, me being a TS. What is in my pants only concerns me and the bf.

[Birgitta]

that comes up at my family get togethers all the time. "so which one of you ladies has a penis?"

lol!

[Prospero]

theone1982 got it right. GSOH. Getting along with family etc is a question of liking the person... so for instance my sister who is gay found, at first, hostility from her partners family, especially the older members. But as they got to know her that dropped away. Now they are all friends. I'd hope the same would be true of a partnership with a transgendered girl or man (yes why shouldn't a girl have a relationship with a transgendered woman to male - something that hardly ever gets discussed in this forum).
Birgitta if that's you in your avatar (and not a picture of marianne faithful circa 1966) then I'd fall for you and not give a damn what family and friends thought about your gender at birth.

[dderek123]

...I meant the "they'll figure out eventually" part

Ahh I see what you mean. No it isn't an absolute truth but if you care about Tgirlfriend and you don't hide her away people (maybe not everyone in the whole world) eventually will find out. Either that or someone will start a rumor or something. That's something that needs to be dealt with and how one handles the situation is an important milestone in the relationship.

[Birgitta]

theone1982 got it right. GSOH. Getting along with family etc is a question of liking the person... so for instance my sister who is gay found, at first, hostility from her partners family, especially the older members. But as they got to know her that dropped away. Now they are all friends. I'd hope the same would be true of a partnership with a transgendered girl or man (yes why shouldn't a girl have a relationship with a transgendered woman to male - something that hardly ever gets discussed in this forum).
Birgitta if that's you in your avatar (and not a picture of marianne faithful circa 1966) then I'd fall for you and not give a damn what family and friends thought about your gender at birth.

Its Marianne And If I was a man, Id fall for her too lol
I dont like it when my pictures are over the internet..want to keep a low profile..