Escorts, would you stop escorting for "Mr or Mrs Right"

[Infern0]

For escorts of any kind, If you met a guy or girl, or t-girl or t-man or space alien from Krypton or whatever.

and you fell in love with them, but they said you have to stop escorting, if you wanted to continue this relationship would you do it?

to make the question more interesting, lets say that they have a very high paying job, and you would have no financial problems, so could take a lesser paying "regular job" and still keep living the lifestyle you are accustomed to.

[Boardwalkempire]

I would hope they do stop escorting for Mr/Ms Right.


Especially if he/has money! lol

[hwbs]

They always have to do it for he right reasons...not for a significant other....its like saying I am going to get sober for my sig other..always has to be for self....I am dating a girl who is going back to school and I think its great....but too many here live in a fantasyland .....I know its very easy to still pull off without an eros ad....she was doing it b4 I met her but honestly she is one of the biggest earners out there..if I am in this relationship it is "as is" and not with all these stipulations...

[kensterling]

I would not. You are already starting out with stipulations, there will definitely be more. How many times have you met a girl that was perfect for two months and then a nightmare a year later (guys are like that too). For me to give up all the regular cleints that I have built up over a twelve year period seems crazy to me, to do so on speculation.
When you pick and choose your clients, escorting is not a bad gig. Regulars that you get along with make it easy and it's like an annuity. I would have to be nuts to give that up for what I think is Ms. Right. It might not even be her, It could be me wanting the wrong woman too.
As I said in another thread. Phasing out is my plan. Just regulars for now, build up my "striaght biz" and get out when the money evens out. I think the relationship thing will take care of itself then. I can live without it till then.

[amberskyi]

I would not. You are already starting out with stipulations, there will definitely be more. How many times have you met a girl that was perfect for two months and then a nightmare a year later (guys are like that too). For me to give up all the regular cleints that I have built up over a twelve year period seems crazy to me, to do so on speculation.
When you pick and choose your clients, escorting is not a bad gig. Regulars that you get along with make it easy and it's like an annuity. I would have to be nuts to give that up for what I think is Ms. Right. It might not even be her, It could be me wanting the wrong woman too.
As I said in another thread. Phasing out is my plan. Just regulars for now, build up my "striaght biz" and get out when the money evens out. I think the relationship thing will take care of itself then. I can live without it till then.

hmmm..i wonder what you look like lol

[Mayrah]

If a guy falls in love with a strong independant Transwoman, it should be the guy pleasing the womans needs in order to show he is serious, has the patience and is working for her.

[alyssaluxor]

Yes! Its my dream to have a boyfriend or husband!!!

I always fantasize having a bf *wink*

[BellaBellucci]

I would not. You are already starting out with stipulations, there will definitely be more. How many times have you met a girl that was perfect for two months and then a nightmare a year later (guys are like that too). For me to give up all the regular cleints that I have built up over a twelve year period seems crazy to me, to do so on speculation.
When you pick and choose your clients, escorting is not a bad gig. Regulars that you get along with make it easy and it's like an annuity. I would have to be nuts to give that up for what I think is Ms. Right. It might not even be her, It could be me wanting the wrong woman too.
As I said in another thread. Phasing out is my plan. Just regulars for now, build up my "striaght biz" and get out when the money evens out. I think the relationship thing will take care of itself then. I can live without it till then.

Perfect answer.

~BB~

[BigDF]

For escorts of any kind, If you met a guy or girl, or t-girl or t-man or space alien from Krypton or whatever.

and you fell in love with them, but they said you have to stop escorting, if you wanted to continue this relationship would you do it?

to make the question more interesting, lets say that they have a very high paying job, and you would have no financial problems, so could take a lesser paying "regular job" and still keep living the lifestyle you are accustomed to.

For anyone, escort or not, if you have to change your behavior in order to have a relationship with someone, you should stop and evaluate this person. Because anyone who demands that you behave or not behave a certain way doesn't really love you, but instead is thinking of you as a possession. And while that works in some relationships, it usually doesn't in most.

You don't have to like everything someone does in order to love them, but to tell someone you won't love them if they continue to do "X" means that you really don't love them, at least in my opinion. True love often means overlooking the things you don't like about someone. And as far as the wedding vows go, a lot of fellows seem to think that those are a one way thing, especially back when they included the word "obey" for the woman. (I personally think the man that wrote those original vows had never been married, otherwise he would have been a little wiser about that.)

Some of the responses to this thread have been really entertaining to me and demonstrate once again the big (actually enormous) differences between most men and women. Especially when it comes to attractions of the heart and groin (or love and lust, to put it another way). If you really love someone, you don't put boundaries on things as a requirement for that love. If you can't deal with the fact that someone is having sex with someone else as part of their occupation, then don't fall in love with them. It's really as simple as that.

[nonnonnon]

Yes! Its my dream to have a boyfriend or husband!!!

I always fantasize having a bf *wink*

it will happen