Would you start a relationship with a Escort

[Ineeda SM]

I had a relationship with an escort girl
Everythng started as client-provider relationship and suddenly i was dating her.
I didn't took the relationship too serious, I regret now, I keep it casually, but feelings started to grow,and I couldn't deny the fact I was missing her.
What was killing me was her "job", I guess is hard to share a sexual relationship. I couldn't do better, finally she moved to the west coast, and I needed to move on
Now the time has passed and I can say, that it is hard , at least it was for me to think she is in bed with somebody else...selfishness from my part
I will not want to live that experience again, if is possible to love an escort, yes I am sure

NO you're not being selfish. It's a very normal feeling to want her for yourself if you are really in love with her. But that was the problem. You were in love, and she was still fucking guys for cash. That's not true love, and never could be. No guy who is looking for true love could handle that kind of relationship.

[openingwide4u]

in a heartbeat!!

[dderek123]

As a general rule of thumb ..... Fuck no! Way too much baggage.

Some handle their baggage better than others though.

[BigDF]

I had a relationship with an escort girl
Everythng started as client-provider relationship and suddenly i was dating her.
I didn't took the relationship too serious, I regret now, I keep it casually, but feelings started to grow,and I couldn't deny the fact I was missing her.
What was killing me was her "job", I guess is hard to share a sexual relationship. I couldn't do better, finally she moved to the west coast, and I needed to move on
Now the time has passed and I can say, that it is hard , at least it was for me to think she is in bed with somebody else...selfishness from my part
I will not want to live that experience again, if is possible to love an escort, yes I am sure

Sure it's difficult to think of her in bed with someone else, but there is definitely a difference between fucking and making love. I think in order to have a loving relationship with an escort, you have to be able to understand that difference, which I think takes a while for most guys and some never really understand that.

[Solitary Brother]

Think about what your asking.
Why would ANYONE want that?
I have an even better question.....Ask the escorts that frequent this board if THEY would date another escort!

[alyssaluxor]

Think about what your asking.
Why would ANYONE want that?
I have an even better question.....Ask the escorts that frequent this board if THEY would date another escort!

a big YES!

ive dated and even had a bf whos an escort and love it so much! we even had 3some sometimes fantastic time spent together

[Ineeda SM]

Think about what your asking.
Why would ANYONE want that?
I have an even better question.....Ask the escorts that frequent this board if THEY would date another escort!

Dating? Sure they do. Live together? Sure they do that too. But ask them if they could ever have a true love one on one relationship with an escort.

The true love one on one is not possible if one is still an escort. Those who say yes they have done it, are in denial of what true love is. You can date an escort and even live with one. But if they are still escorting, you are in an open relationship based on lust and close friendship. Which is absolutely great if that is what you want.

Most of the guys replying here are looking at (RELATIONSHIP) as a true love one on one relationship. The escorts replying here are looking at it as their business and if they want a relationship outside of work, it has to be an open type of relationship where true love between 2 people only can not exist.

Once again, I am not saying that the open friendship based on lust is a bad thing as long as both of you understand and agree that is how it will be. By all means, enjoy, have fun, and be happy. Just please don't try to say it is the same kind of true love that is shared between 2 monogamous people.

[BellaBellucci]

Think about what your asking.
Why would ANYONE want that?
I have an even better question.....Ask the escorts that frequent this board if THEY would date another escort!

Absolutely. I married one.

~BB~

[MdR Dave]

The true love one on one is not possible . . .in denial of what true love is. . . an open type of relationship where true love between 2 people only can not exist. . .Just please don't try to say it is the same kind of true love that is shared between 2 monogamous people.

"You act like you've never had love, and you want me to go without.". U2

You don't choose who you love.

Only what you do about it.

[Ineeda SM]

"You act like you've never had love, and you want me to go without.". U2

That comment makes no sense at all. Not one thing I have said would imply that I have never had love, and didn't want anyone else to have it neither. Of course I have had true love. I have been married, and I've lived with men, GG and TG that I loved deeply. Always faithful to them and them only as long as the relationship lasted. And I would like for everyone to have true love. There is nothing else as wonderful in the universe. But how on earth do you come up with your U2 comment from this conversation?

You don't choose who you love.

Only what you do about it.

That makes sense. Love just happens if it is real. But it also has nothing to do with this conversation. The original poster asked, "Would you start a relationship with an escort? From my very first post in this thread, all I have been trying to do is determine which kind of relationship the original poster was asking about.

1. An open relationship of lust and friendship where both people agree that they can fuck whoever they want on the side, even if it is for money,....or...

2. A true love, 1 on 1 monogamous relationship where nobody can cheat.

There is a big difference between them. The first would say yes, sounds hot. But the second would say no, or at least not until she quit escorting to be faithful to me, then yes. You can't have both. It's either open where anything goes, or true love shared between 2 people only. Both are just fine for those who chose them. I just wanted to know which they meant.