Would you start a relationship with a Escort

[Ineeda SM]

Most men in this thread agree that they couldn't have a relationship with an escort...(I've read all the posts)...but they don't try to put a definition to "true love" the way you do. Some posters actually came out and made the distinction.

Read them again. Many expressed the same reason that I do. And the ones that didn't clearly implied it. I am just being more explicit with my responses.

[fred41]

Read them again. Many expressed the same reason that I do. And the ones that didn't clearly implied it. I am just being more explicit with my responses.

LMAO..we're just never gonna completely agree on this.

[Ineeda SM]

LMAO..we're just never gonna completely agree on this.

LMAO Like I said Fred41, life is too short to take this shit too seriously. It's just everyones opinions. Whatever make us happy is all that matters in the end.

[lovetheladies]

ive been dating my girl now for two years,it can be hard sometimes but we do love each other very much.i sometimes forget what she does when we are together but if her phone rings my heart breaks everytime,and i try to keep smiling and not show her how i feel, but she knows.just because she is an escort doesnt mean that we can be in love so who knows what will happen in the future,just happy together at the moment

[thaibound]

Marraige, love and family isnt a 'control game', it's how society works and has worked for tens of thousands of years.
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not really.
until the 20th century marriage was primarily a financial arrangement between families and/or enforced by kings/chiefs/tribal rulers of whatever ilk.
over the course of the last millenium the Church has cloaked marriage in mysticism (religion) but love was something that the couple only -- if lucky -- gradually discovered through the course of their relationship, which, btw, most often lasted only a decade or two before one of the couple died.
only in our grandparents' lifetimes has 'until death do us part' come to hold such a long and heavy burden as our life expectancies expand faster than porn sites on the web. (okay, maybe not *that* fast.)

as for your "tens of thousands of years" reference, i'll assume you were employing hyperbole, as i believe that time frame would precede recorded history altogether, much less anything resembling marriage licenses, or even "society" as we now know it.

the closest you'd ever get to that long-ago time with any relevance to our current age would be through what we all know to be the world's oldest profession. which is to say, prostitution -- which has proven to be a much more lasting basis for a relationship between human beings than marriage ever will be.

so i'm not about to dismiss anyone's loving relationship with an escort, regardless of how the current embodiment of society might frown or what romantic illusions it might corrupt.

and that's not just because 3 of the 5 women i've ever loved were ATF's, not traditional girlfriends/wives. nor because number 6 probably will be as well. after all, the leanest, meanest, sexiest, most powerful, beautiful, and independent women available in the world today occupy a much greater percentage of the escort world than they do the world in general. and that statistic grows more true every day.

especially among those earthly angels who happen to be hung.

[bte]

I don't know, if I like the person then I would get in a relationship with them. It wouldn't bother me, but I would think the more I think about it and the more I think about random dicks being inserted in my g/f poopchute, then I would probably end the relationship.

[nolimitsmale]

I would certainly enter into a relationship with an escort, preferably a Professional Domme. That way She would be in control of her clients and sex would probably not be an issue during sessions with her clients.
In my view, escorting is just another job. If your partner loves and respects you then she will not run off with one of her clients.

[testtickle]

I was interested in your message. I went out with a TS for quite some time. She was an escort and at one point, we sopped having sex for quite a number of weeks - and she stopped escorting as well. Then she admitted that she'd done a bareback session and was worried about her HIV status. It was all OK but she kept on barebacking for selected clients, who she checked out carefully. She was constantly asking me "if it's all right". We were really short of money at the time, so I said I'd leave it to her to make the decision. I got used to what she was doing and the subject didn't crop up in conversations in any negative way. What she did at work, was work and as far as I know, she was never unfaithful outside of the work environment. (but obviously, I had concerns). Strangely enough, one night when a client was dropping her back home, I peeped through the windows and saw them kissing. Have to say that I felt more jealous witnessing this, than the thought of her doing bareback with her clients. Strange how we judge relationships... We stayed together for quite some time - nearly three years - but the relationship finally ended when she left the area. Looking back I guess the escorting did place a lot of pressures that probably impacted on the outcome.
Have to say, she was drop dead gorgeous and gave the best massages imaginable. Pity it ended.

ive been dating my girl now for two years,it can be hard sometimes but we do love each other very much.i sometimes forget what she does when we are together but if her phone rings my heart breaks everytime,and i try to keep smiling and not show her how i feel, but she knows.just because she is an escort doesnt mean that we can be in love so who knows what will happen in the future,just happy together at the moment

[Bobby Domino]

I've had 3 relationships with escorts. I'm very open-minded and was not ready to become a sugar daddy or begin to question her decisions. We always have fun initially, but the insecurities about being a pro, let alone a t-girl, always made the relation difficult. Lots of questions with no answers. I always tried to be supportive, but those relationships never lasted more than 3-6 months. I kept a relationship with a fantastic girl for over 5 years but we chose to be strictly sexual and platonic. That seemed to work the best. It's pretty tough. Escorting can be addictive and if there are no other aspirations, what can you do but be supportive. All that said, I would attempt it again. I'm a hopeless romantic...

[Bobby Domino]

Actually it's more likely you'll pick up a disease from a casual encounter than a professional sex worker, since most of those tend to be very conscious of the risks.

I wholeheartedly agree.