Would you start a relationship with a Escort

[argentina2007]

I dated a transgender girl for about six months, she was an escort by profession. It was really difficult when I found out, considering that our relationship was so intense when we first met. Looking back now it must of been a lot harder and more emotionally draining for her than myself.
She had an extremely tough upbringing, left school at 13, some real issues that I honestly couldn't find a reason to fault her for choosing to escort, it was just her giving up on another option that eventually drove us apart.
She suffered from very low confidence issues and refused to see another route in life, when in all honesty she could pursue whatever she wanted at this stage in life.

[theone1982]

A lot of good points out there from a lot of you guys.

Here are my 2 issues on why I personally could not date a sex worker.

#1 I am naturally a jealous type of man. So even if it is emotional and purely psychical it would bother me. That is why I could not also date a person from the porn industry.

#2 STD's. Now In my life I have seen 8 TS Escorts but only had sex with 2 of them. Because of my fear of catching an STD. I have not had sex with one in about a year and got tested recently. So when I do see an escort all I do with them is oral sex, both ways and with a condom. That way I do not have to worry about catching any STD's. It works for me because I do not like the stress lol


So those two reasons are why I could not. I am not here to judge tho. So if it makes you happy then go for it!

I agree that the STD issue is some bad mojo. Question though, did you have sex with the two escorts because you were really into the moment and just went for it, or did you just sense that they "cleaner" than the other ones you were with?

[Chris in LA]

Those are two valid points. I don't have a problem being in a relationship with a working girl or a porn star. They are usually great in bed & know exactly what to do to please you, plus I think they appreciate you that much more for being able to understand & deal with their situation.

Plus, do you know the type of perks that come along with being with a porn star or somebody in the sex industry? So much fun...

[Boardwalkempire]

I agree that the STD issue is some bad mojo. Question though, did you have sex with the two escorts because you were really into the moment and just went for it, or did you just sense that they "cleaner" than the other ones you were with?

To be honest the first one I was a senior in high school so I was just being dumb and just went for it..but they both seemed like good people and were really nice to me..


The 2nd Ts would post on her ad when ever she got tested...plus to this day she updates her test dates and posts it on her ad. I still got tested and was clean.

I would never again have sex with an escort again even with a condom...not because it is not safe..but i have an OCD when it comes to these things.

I would rather just do oral and never think about it again..

[Boardwalkempire]

Those are two valid points. I don't have a problem being in a relationship with a working girl or a porn star. They are usually great in bed & know exactly what to do to please you, plus I think they appreciate you that much more for being able to understand & deal with their situation.

Plus, do you know the type of perks that come along with being with a porn star or somebody in the sex industry? So much fun...

True. But the Juice is just not worth the squeeze for me.

[theone1982]

"The 2nd Ts would post on her ad when ever she got tested...plus to this day she updates her test dates and posts it on her ad" Wow! That's what I call service! That's too bad about not wanting to have sex with a TS again, maybe some day you'll come around again.

[Quiet Reflections]

Those are two valid points. I don't have a problem being in a relationship with a working girl or a porn star. They are usually great in bed & know exactly what to do to please you, plus I think they appreciate you that much more for being able to understand & deal with their situation.

Plus, do you know the type of perks that come along with being with a porn star or somebody in the sex industry? So much fun...

I don't. What are the perks?

[Boardwalkempire]

"The 2nd Ts would post on her ad when ever she got tested...plus to this day she updates her test dates and posts it on her ad" Wow! That's what I call service! That's too bad about not wanting to have sex with a TS again, maybe some day you'll come around again.

Ya it was awesome. So while I waited to get tested every month there would be a new thing on her ad with a new date...it made me relax lol

HIV/STI NEG 11/01/2010 for example

By the time I got around to getting tested, and got a clean bill of health I stopped checking her ad lol


But I might have sex with a Ts again someday, just not with an escort.
Because of my STD scare, I have been considering just waiting till i am married.. Oral sex works just fine for me to be honest..lol

[theone1982]

Ya it was awesome. So while I waited to get tested every month there would be a new thing on her ad with a new date...it made me relax lol

HIV/STI NEG 11/01/2010 for example

By the time I got around to getting tested, and got a clean bill of health I stopped checking her ad lol


But I might have sex with a Ts again someday, just not with an escort.
Because of my STD scare, I have been considering just waiting till i am married.. Oral sex works just fine for me to be honest..lol

That's cool. If everyone was as professional as her I bet the STD levels in the population would go way down.

[Chris in LA]

I don't. What are the perks?

You're a Rockstar now....