Would you start a relationship with a Escort

[thaibound]

not intentionally.

You can't have a true GFE experience if the escort doesn't (in the moment) convince you she *is* your GF so allowing yourself to believe (after the moment) that she is *still* your GF is just begging for trouble.

Then again what relationship doesn't bring trouble, so all you'd really be adding is the begging. If, that is, she didn't have you doing that already when she read the charlie sheen quote you'd prematurely scribbled on the first gift envelope you ever gave her and responded with "well, I was going to cancel my next appointment and ask if I could stay the night with you, but..."

Yeah. Begging and trouble. The (emotional) twin pillars of any truly hot relationship.

[MrF]

One thing to realize when considering this question is that there are lots and lots of people to choose from for a "deep relationship". Lots of fish in the sea, as they say.

The profession of Escorting brings problems, so if all other things are equal you would avoid that and pick another person. No need to make a big fuss about it or try to change the person Escorting. That would be my simple approach. Having said that, for me a "light friendship" with an Escort is possible.

[BellaBellucci]

I agree 100% I could not have said it better myself

You two are in agreement? Now there's a shocker.

~BB~

[Equalizer]

Some people look at escorting like it just being anther job. When in reality it is not just anther job.

Lets be honest.

they make it seem like its a normal lifestyle, while its really not...

some are sleeping with like 5 men a day, 7 days a week

[BellaBellucci]

they make it seem like its a normal lifestyle, while its really not...

some are sleeping with like 5 men a day, 7 days a week

First of all, that's some. Some of us stay low volume.

Otherwise, so what? For every girl I know who charges, there are 3 who fuck just as many guys for free. Is that somehow better because they're not getting paid? Or maybe because she promises you she'll stop and you believe her because it's not her job? Sounds more like jealousy issues to me. I can't tell you how many guys really just don't like their girls to escort because they would prefer that they be dependent on them financially.

What a terrific control game, but personally I prefer mine within a BDSM framework, not a financial one. There seems to be an awful lot of male insecurity here, particularly for a board mostly dedicated to escorts and porn stars. GTFO with this misogyny shit. If you can't handle a girl escorting, making her own money, and using it to better herself, then you don't deserve her.

~BB~

[nonnonnon]

it is a bit emasculating to make less money

[Equalizer]

First of all, that's some. Some of us stay low volume.

Otherwise, so what? For every girl I know who charges, there are 3 who fuck just as many guys for free. Is that somehow better because they're not getting paid? Or maybe because she promises you she'll stop and you believe her because it's not her job? Sounds more like jealousy issues to me. I can't tell you how many guys really just don't like their girls to escort because they would prefer that they be dependent on them financially.

What a terrific control game, but personally I prefer mine within a BDSM framework, not a financial one. There seems to be an awful lot of male insecurity here, particularly for a board mostly dedicated to escorts and porn stars. GTFO with this misogyny shit. If you can't handle a girl escorting, making her own money, and using it to better herself, then you don't deserve her.

~BB~

You have a point there, and i especially blame the girls that love bareback...

About the volume, well most girls i know about love to max it up, so they get all the $$$$ they can, no one ever turns that away.

There are even some that do more than 5 a day...

[BellaBellucci]

no one ever turns that away.

There are even some that do more than 5 a day...

I do. I'm not going to exacerbate the threat to my health and/or freedom by getting greedy. I'm sorry, but those girls have a lot to learn.

~BB~

[onmyknees]

I had a relationship with an internet model. The solo stuff I didn't mind, but when she had to work with others, I had a little problem with it. No one likes someone else riding your bike. And yes...she escorted on the side when the site wasn't making much. She didn't hide it from me; she was up front about it. Fortunately it wasn't for long...

Willie is a wise man. By in large it's not about the guy wanting to be the bread winner...that's bullshit. I've dated dancers, ( call it semnantics, but I don't like the word strippers) and 2 ladies that did amatuer porn. One of the relationships got semi serious, but it's a totally different deal with an escort. The sex they were involved in outside our relationship was not that much of an issue. It caused some discussion but good communications and some genuine reassurances go a long way..The vast majority of guys can't get past the multiple partners thing with an escort, and that's what ultimately destroys most of those relationships. Most guys just aren't equipped to deal with that emtionally...and that's by no means a put down....I don't know if I could do it, so tip of the cap to the dudes who can. I'm pretty comfortable with who I am, and don't get all worked up about what others think of my choices...but the dude who can handle a lady who escorts is a special breed indeed !! Yes...I understand it's a job...a way of making a living, nothing more, but there are concequences to all our choices in life. The girl who chooses to be a Wal-Mart cashier does not have the same relationship issues with her mate as an escort ,but more than likely she'll have financial issues which probably are equally as damaging to the longevity of the relationship.

[BellaBellucci]

The girl who chooses to be a Wal-Mart cashier does not have the same relationship issues with her mate as an escort ,but more than likely she'll have financial issues which probably are equally as damaging to the longevity of the relationship.

A-fucking-men. Not to mention the issues that go with self-esteem and whatever landed her at such a shitty job to begin with. Let's not pretend that poor people who work 9-5's don't have issues too.

~BB~