SORRY BUT I HAVE TO VENT....

[flabbybody]

Mega
It must suck to see her pics and I understand what you're going through. But you were the one who always told us about trannys. I'll see a girl a few times and I know I'm starting to like her more than on sexual terms, but then I remember, she's a fucking escort. She's with me cause I'm paying her. I'd love to meet a tgirl who likes me and wants to give up the biz, but it hasen't happened yet.

[bezane]

Jesus Mega. You sound beaten. And I think you're wrong and mistaken. To start with the first thing. The girl. You say you've known and hung around her for a year and a half, but never took that final step. You should have man! What the hell are you waiting for. And holding her to a standard of your ex, well that's just plain unfair.

Now she calls and you ignore her? Shame on you bro. Maybe she needs your ear. Maybe she just slipped a little. Who are we to judge? Drop all the bullshit and pick up the phone. If nothing more you owe her an apology. This road and journey many of these girls have and will travel takes courage and in the beginning can be very lonely. Just because you hang in the scene doesn't make you open your eyes all of the time.

I'm not telling you anything you don't know here, just reminding you that you lost your way. Many of these girls grow up feeling isolated. They are not accepted in the mainstream. And many have taken to only going out at night if at all. The escort life, once they've achieved the sex appeal and beauty they've strived for, is a means for them to feel wanted to a large degree. Guys actually want them instead of harassing them. You look at it as "prostituting" but it seems more to me as a way to make a little money, and at the same time feel value like a commodity.

The mainstream world isn't accepting the girls that readily in the regular job market. It's an emotional challenge for them to be out in the world going to school, getting training and living the 9 to 5 thing. There are exceptions but not many. It's guys like you that are suppose to be the first ones to support and recognize their dilemma. The world can be cruel. Don't make it any worse for your friend. If this is a concrete decision she has made then accept her as a friend if you can't be more at this time. Judgement day will come for us all, let's make our lives here on earth free from that pressure.

The last point to you Mega is that your "vent" can be construed as being somewhat offensive. I've met many many girls over the years, although I can't say I'm their friends or really know them and have never enlisted their services. I found them to actually be first rate as far as having intelligence, class, looks and appeared to be genuine. Gia, Meaghan, Lisa Lawrence, Allanah, Keyle, Wendy, and many lesser known girls, are all in the TS life, have made choices, and I would be happy to have relationship with without judgement. You paint with a fairly broad brush when you vent that way. As you know these are all human beings. They have feelings, and they matter whether the mainstream world accepts them or not. Or even if we accept them or not. Not all the guys here are like you, willing to accept them on a full time basis. For them it's a sex thing and they go back to their other lives. Don't cast any more stones than necessary. It's easy to lash out, but harder to show understanding.

Maybe she has fallen in with a bad crowd. It might be her surroundings or what she is exposed to. By abandoning her you've taken away at least one bridge she had to something better. Call her man.

Your friend

[longman]

good response bezane, I agree with most things you said.

Mega I can understand being/trying to get close to someone & then they change. That I think is the chance we all take in the early stages of a relationship. She may have chosen the wrong path & may need help finding her way back.

I do it all the time it seems with the people I care for the most I shut out at times when I'm pissed off. I don't have shit to say to them for any reason.

But 9 times out of 10 talking to the person makes me feel 20 times better.
Sometimes being stubborn isn't the way to go. Over all you know the girl deep down inside & even though her actions & habits have changed the person deep down is the same. Not to sound like an episode of "All My Children" but I think if your heart is in it you can bring her back to the finer things you have to offer. Let your heart & brains tell you when to give up, not your your pride & stubborness.

sincerely your friend also.... (keep your head up...)

[iluvshemales]

sorry mega. and no offense taken friend.

i would like to ask u to listen to the two other friends above me. there really is great wisdom in what both bezane and longman said. listen to it mega, it will make u feel a lot better.

and my apologies again. can u mail me her name so i dont repeat her pics again. i dont mean to offend anyone. just want u guyz to enjoy the wonderful world of hung angels

hopefull a friend too
good luck

[bezane]

Your vent is starting to turn into a rant. You're better than that and you're generalizing. Don't let the ego get in the way. Girls aren't just going to be dedicated to you without some time spent with you. Why don't you give it a chance.

Sometimes a lot of girls I know didn't get any attention for a long time. Then when their transitions are complete and they look sexy they;re smitten with the attention.

To be honest with you, I don't know the girls you've been hanging with lately, but the girls I used to know in NYC were okay and a bunch of girls here in LA are like so sweet. Like Vicki, I saw her out one night and she was so together that I could only admire what a well adjusted lady she is.

And there's a ton more. And your friend is one of them if she gets some good influences. Why don't you be one of them.

Be cool. You deserve something good, but don't be afraid to pull the trigger.

[flabbybody]

It's time to bring this topic to a close. A lot of stuff to read, but it's all been worthwhile. The most important thing: This site is not about tgirl porn and dirty pics. Yes, I love looking at these beautiful girls and the photos turn me on. But Mega is saying what I'm thinking. I would just love to settle down with someone that I could hang with, watch TV, and order some Chinese takeout.