I dont get losers

[MrF]

Being married is quite different from visiting an escort for sex.

An escort is a fantasy, an object of temporary desire. And usually the guy who pays for it either a) couldn't get someone that attractive for free, or b) he is married and needs to keep it a secret, or c) he just wants some quick, no-strings-attached sex. Either way, it costs $$.

The choice of who to marry is different. One guy's "atrocious" might be another guy's "acceptable". In addition, a woman may start off acceptable and then her looks deteriorate over time, e.g. she gets fat. However, other qualilties are important and may compensate for the looks factor: how nice she is, her integrity, her intellectual curiousity, how well she organizes her life, her income, etc.

[DL_NL]

Repeat after me: I'm not superficial, I do think there is something besides looks...

[innocentbychoice]

Looks aren't everything.

[bte]

Isn't paying for sex in general a loser thing to do?

[MrF]

^ It depends on your definition of a loser. I'm sure the escorts have encountered clients who are rich and good-looking, which is not your standard definition of a loser.

[bte]

^ It depends on your definition of a loser. I'm sure the escorts have encountered clients who are rich and good-looking, which is not your standard definition of a loser.

I'm not saying anyone who buys sex is a loser. Its their thing and if they want to do that then they can. But I am just saying that society view is that buying sex is a loser thing to do.

[BigDF]

I'm not saying anyone who buys sex is a loser. Its their thing and if they want to do that then they can. But I am just saying that society view is that buying sex is a loser thing to do.

It also depends on the definition of a loser and I'm not sure the OP know what he's talking about in that regard. These definitions are personal opinions and as someone else pointed out beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

BTW, bte, happy to see your signature change.

[Prospero]

Society does for sure.. which is why those who pay for sex don't wear a badge proclaiming it... but are furtive or use pseudonyms on sites like this. I pay and am not ashamed but equally don't want family friends and employers to know-

[Merkurie]

People's opinion on who is good looking vary, people often look for things in a wife other than looks. Your idea of a "hot babe" is a skinny slut to someone else. A lot of men want a down to earth, homemaker to be the mother of their children.

Most women are attractive at some point in their lives, few women remain attractive throughout their lives. So she may have been the hottest thing in the mall in 1999 and is a worn out broad today.

Any woman is capable of letting herself become an alcoholic lazy bitch. As any man can allow himself to become an alcoholic, lazy bastard. It goes both ways.

Fat girls with good personalities probably get married easier than the "hot chick" who is a slut bitch.

[bte]

BTW, bte, happy to see your signature change.

Yeah me too. I had lost a sig bet to Partlycloudy.