anal sex

[sexycdjackie]

I bought a dildo to get ready for a visit with a lovely lady and shit it hurt...is it always painful or does it get a little better with a second or third try....

[kaiser1one]

Use more lube. How big is this dildo?

[dderek123]

It gets better each time but always always use lots of lube. And if it is water based lube you need to keep re-applying it because it tends to dry up.

[south ov da border]

it will be uncomfortable at first, but lube lube lube...

[jaydubb]

Agreed. The more lube the better. Keep in mind that you kind of need to warm up first too. You don't want to just cram that thing up in there. Slide some fingers in before you go straight for the dildo. Works for me any ways.

[onmyknees]

I bought a dildo to get ready for a visit with a lovely lady and shit it hurt...is it always painful or does it get a little better with a second or third try....

I'm not sure I can help you, but let's ask an expert.....Freddie can you help jackie out here???

[Corven Ren]

like they said use plenty of lube ..then start by just using a finger or two first get the lube worked in real good before putting in the dildo

[Prospero]

Yep...Lotsa lube and - in my experience - a real cock tends to hurt less than a dildo (unless the dildo is very small or the cock very large and the top very aggressive). I have, erm, accommodated a fair number of cocks and it CAN hurt if there isn't enough lubrication, but big dildos still hurt every time.

[sexycdjackie]

I use the bullet anal vibe with no issue - it's 7/8 in diameter

I wanted a cock like dildo so I go the buttock cock - it's 1 3/8 in diameter

The buttock cock is much softer than the bullet...

I did use lots and lots of lube...

probably just nervous - did figure that cock would give a little more...

[NatashaLover]

Well hun I can only suggest a 3 or 5 dildo training kit. The one thats brings five is better because its from small to big in 5 steps. I bought one of these and can't pass from the number two. I think it takes time and patience and lots and lots of lube like people say here.
good luck!