My Dilema

[NYBURBS]

You make some good points here. I don't mind being seen in public with them, like I said I've been out on dates with a couple ts girls before, dinners & movies, so that's not my issue.

These women go through a lot in their lives & I really can respect that but again, I just don't know how dating a girl who is an escort can turn in to a long term relationship. I think I will leave this particular girl alone & see if my luck continues through other online methods.

Bro, I can totally understand the whole 'I'm not gonna date an escort,' but then you should just leave it be imo (which you already mentioned).

[yodajazz]

What the hell are you asking us for, do you want a cost-benefit analysis on whether to date her or something? If you plan on dating her, and she doesn't feel like giving it up right away, you might end up spending more money up front until you get sex, and that's not even guaranteed, compared to seeing her professionally. However, if you continue dating, your cost per sexual encounter will decrease compared to her costs as pro. But remember, costs per sexual encounter increases exponentially over time should you decide to move in together and take the relationship to the next level.

Thank you much, for your math analysis. This explains everything. Now I understand, why I'm paying about $5,000 a hit. Whereas I started out getting it free along with a free home cooked meal. Now along with my five grand, I have to bring her some take out food.

Look, a lot of guys just want to have sex with these girls and then act like they don't know them. They won't be seen in public with them, and converse with them only as they get dressed to leave after the sex. Think about it, they can get sex whenever they want (if they are half way decent looking), but what a lot of them want (on a personal level) is for someone to treat them like they would any woman they ask out for a date.

Obviously she wants something more than just sex, or in the alternative she wants to at least make money off of it. If you just want to screw then pony up the cash and leave it at that. Taking her out a couple of times might end up being more money, and fucking with someone's head is bad karma. Just my two cents.

I'm with NYBURBS on this. Take her out. She could be checking you out for boyfriend material. It could be a slow buildup to a fantastic night. The best possible thing, could be that you figure out that she is crazy, and you dont want to be bothered with her. You could be put on the waiting list. that you may get that call when she is in heat. Lots of possible scenarios, if your really interested. But be honest with yourself, with what you really want. If your life is already complicated, then go for the pro service, to keep things simple.

[Chris in LA]

I'm with NYBURBS on this. Take her out. She could be checking you out for boyfriend material. It could be a slow buildup to a fantastic night. The best possible thing, could be that you figure out that she is crazy, and you dont want to be bothered with her. You could be put on the waiting list. that you may get that call when she is in heat. Lots of possible scenarios, if your really interested. But be honest with yourself, with what you really want. If your life is already complicated, then go for the pro service, to keep things simple.

Yeah, she could be, but I don't know if its worth it, being that she is an escort and all...I mean, I'm not just about fucking a girl to fuck her, I would rather get to know her & build on something if its worth it & I don't know if that's possible with her work. I'm not really down to be on the waiting list although late night booty calls can be fun, lol. I think I better just let this one slide and hope I can find a girl that is open to a relationship who is not an escort.

[Chris in LA]

Bro, I can totally understand the whole 'I'm not gonna date an escort,' but then you should just leave it be imo (which you already mentioned).

Yep, think that's what I'm gonna do.

[Chris in LA]

you should hang out with t$420...

Who? Why is that?

[Chris in LA]

She's just like any other girl, ignore her client talk and proceed as you were. She'll get over the talking to another girl.

You would think, right? Seeing that she has sex for a living, looking back on it, I don't know why she would be jealous that I was talking to another girl, but like a few of the girls on here mentioned, apparently there is competition like crazy out there!

[Chris in LA]

in the end it's what do you want . If you want to pursue it then you must be willing to deal with her on HER level. Escorts are regular people too, so you have to understand what it is she does does not define her.

I agree, we are all just people. I just don't know if I can handle dating a girl who does that for a living. I mean, if I start to get feelings, Im not sure if I could handle that.

[ARMANIXXX]

I agree, we are all just people. I just don't know if I can handle dating a girl who does that for a living. I mean, if I start to get feelings, Im not sure if I could handle that.

Lots of TS's in LA.....go for a different one if you're not feeling this one.

Out of curiosity, what club was it, Chris in LA?

[Chris in LA]

Lots of TS's in LA.....go for a different one if you're not feeling this one.

Out of curiosity, what club was it, Chris in LA?

I think it was called the Palms?? I went on a friday, I think that is their only ts night, but I could be wrong.

[BigDF]

Why is this such a dilemma for you? It's a fairly reasonable choice you're being offered, either treat her like someone you want to get to know and date or purchase her sexual favors. I can tell you right now, if you like intimacy and a relationship, the former is the way to go. As Ruby said, if she gives you her dating name, she's interested in you as a man, not a trick. As far as being able to tell who's working and who isn't, you're probably going to just have to stumble on through it like the rest of us. Your best bet would be to follow the golden rule and treat people the way you'd like to be treated.