My Dilema

[south ov da border]

SO, are all those girls in the club working then?

a lot of them yea. If they aren't they still won't pass up an opportunity to get that guap...

[RubyTS]

oooh tough one!

ok, she obviously gave u her work name at first then decided she wanted to get to know u on a more personal level so gave u her real name (or another name so she could distinguish u from clients when u call... all the girls do it) And to see you hitting it off with another girl bothered her which means she actually was interested in u. in case u dont already know there is much competition and caddiness among ts girls, same as genetic females, they all wanna be #1!

To be honest, im not much into competition so the second u walked off with the other girl i would have realized ur not for me an blacklisted u, only because i want a guy that can recognize quality and see's me and only me, so ur actually kinda lucky that she even gave u the time of day after that, u must be pretty cute!

and u should have figured or at least prepared yourself for the possibility of her being a woring girl, most the girls that are in the scene ARE. But the fact that u even asked if you should just pay goes to show what it is u are looking for so go for it! thats y guys pay, to get what they want and avoid all the extra drama. Its pretty obvious u dont have a lot of experience with tgirls by your post, but once u become a trick to one of them u become a trick to all of them! If youre trying to avoid drama and not have girls flinging drinks and open palms at u i say just pay, get in your experience and then decide what it is that u want. No girl wants to be some guys experiment unless she's being compensated, and no girl wants a desperate tranny chaser bouncing from one girl to the next either so tred lightly, the scene can be pretty harsh to navigate

[rockabilly]

But seriously it's networking.

A girl comes to town has her ad up and or goes to some clubs to mingle.

[lovesall]

I would not get all excited for that you are seen as a trick already, so be prepard to pay up or move on.

[onmyknees]

Huh?? How am I easier to hustle when I've never paid for booty in my life? You don't know me playa, I grew up out here, I may be new to this game, but I'm not a dude that is easy to hustle, I can assure you.

Freddie's piker.. Pay him no mind....he's wrestling with his own sexual identity. He loves chics with dicks, but hates himself for doing so. Most all the gurls on here despise him, and most of the guys laugh at him...

[Chris in LA]

oooh tough one!

ok, she obviously gave u her work name at first then decided she wanted to get to know u on a more personal level so gave u her real name (or another name so she could distinguish u from clients when u call... all the girls do it) And to see you hitting it off with another girl bothered her which means she actually was interested in u. in case u dont already know there is much competition and caddiness among ts girls, same as genetic females, they all wanna be #1!

To be honest, im not much into competition so the second u walked off with the other girl i would have realized ur not for me an blacklisted u, only because i want a guy that can recognize quality and see's me and only me, so ur actually kinda lucky that she even gave u the time of day after that, u must be pretty cute!

and u should have figured or at least prepared yourself for the possibility of her being a woring girl, most the girls that are in the scene ARE. But the fact that u even asked if you should just pay goes to show what it is u are looking for so go for it! thats y guys pay, to get what they want and avoid all the extra drama. Its pretty obvious u dont have a lot of experience with tgirls by your post, but once u become a trick to one of them u become a trick to all of them! If youre trying to avoid drama and not have girls flinging drinks and open palms at u i say just pay, get in your experience and then decide what it is that u want. No girl wants to be some guys experiment unless she's being compensated, and no girl wants a desperate tranny chaser bouncing from one girl to the next either so tred lightly, the scene can be pretty harsh to navigate

Thanks for the advice...I am fairly new, but I just think of ts girls as any other girls, so I guess I was just caught off guard. But I don't want to pay because then I feel I can't get that stigma off if anybody else finds out. Of course, when I'm attracted to them, I want to have sex, who doesn't? But for me, I would rather get to know somebody before I put my penis in them...call me crazy!

But it wasn't like I walked away from her and started talking to any other girls...I was just walking around, talking to different people & then I had this other girl come up and we just hit it off. But I've been to many straight clubs over the years and used to get 4-5 #s a night and it wasn't a big deal...everybody talks to everybody & it wasn't like I just ignored her after that but she wound up leaving anyway.

By no means would I consider myself a chaser, like I said, I'm pretty shy and usually won't approach a girl anyway...but I also am not looking to just "experiment" I've been with a couple ts girls and loved it, again, I just view them as women so I guess I figured it would be simliar, although it does seem there is a bit more caddiness in this world.

[RubyTS]

Thanks for the advice...I am fairly new, but I just think of ts girls as any other girls, so I guess I was just caught off guard. But I don't want to pay because then I feel I can't get that stigma off if anybody else finds out. Of course, when I'm attracted to them, I want to have sex, who doesn't? But for me, I would rather get to know somebody before I put my penis in them...call me crazy!

But it wasn't like I walked away from her and started talking to any other girls...I was just walking around, talking to different people & then I had this other girl come up and we just hit it off. But I've been to many straight clubs over the years and used to get 4-5 #s a night and it wasn't a big deal...everybody talks to everybody & it wasn't like I just ignored her after that but she wound up leaving anyway.

By no means would I consider myself a chaser, like I said, I'm pretty shy and usually won't approach a girl anyway...but I also am not looking to just "experiment" I've been with a couple ts girls and loved it, again, I just view them as women so I guess I figured it would be simliar, although it does seem there is a bit more caddiness in this world.

there definitely is, i can never seem to get away from it hard as i try. i even see clients that tell me stuff like "dont tell her i saw u, she gets jealous" in reference to other escorts. it recently just happened with one of my regulars, i chose to stop seeing him after that. i dont have the time or the patience, plus it was just a HUGE turn off. ive lost a lot of "friends" to competition.

i think the main thing is to know what u want and be honest with them and yourself, and remain humble and down to earth. And try not to let the biullshit get the best of u. As long as ur doing whatever makes u happy without bringing anyone else down at the end of the day, ur good money =)

[onmyknees]

Hi all, thanx for reading, I am new here, but think this site is awesome! I've been reading posts and finally decided to sign up for an account and get your opinions.

So, I went to this club that has a ts night & thought I'd play it cool, just grab a drink and see what was up. There were quite a few hot ts girls there but I'm kind of shy so I don't usually approach girls, especially since my experience is somewhat limited, I've only hooked up with a couple ts girls that I've met online, so this going to the bar was a new deal for me.

I was surprised about how many ts girls were coming up and talking to me, it caught me off guard, but perhaps because I was the new guy, they wanted to see what I was all about. A couple of girls were smiling at me at the bar, but again, without a whole lot of experiences, and my unwillingness to approach them, I decided to walk around and check out the rest of the scene. Well, they followed me and asked me why I wasn't talking to them. I just laughed it off and had a nice conversation with one of them. After a few minutes, she asked to exchange #s, so we did-i called her on my cell so she could save my #...when I asked her what her name was, she told me one name, then said no, input this name instead...I was a little perplexed, but whatever....

About a half hour later, I was lucky enough to have one of the more attractive ts girls I've ever met strike up a conversation with me & we talked for almost an hour it seemed like. I wound up buying her a drink & we got along great. In the meantime, the girl I met b4 was frowning at me & then wound up storming out with her gf...I didn't realize we were dating already! lol

So I waited the standard 3 days to hit her up after, actually it might have been 4or 5 days later, haha, but I text her and she said she was mad at me. I asked why and she said I should know why, but whatever, we got past that and I wanted to know if I could get to know her better. I offered to bring over a bottle of wine so we could just relax and have good conversation to see if it was going to go anywhere.

She responded with something to the effect of "I don't know you well enough yet to have you over to my house...unless you are a customer. But if you want to treat me like a lady and take me out to a nice dinner then we can do that."

This threw me for a bit of a loop, cause I couldn't really understand how she didn't know me enough to have me over, but of course, if I was a paying customer, it would be no problem for her to invite me into her home.

Now, the girls I've met online and hooked up with were not "working" girls, so I never had to shell any $ out of pocket, although I did take one out to dinner and another one out to the movies, just like a normal date.

I didn't even know before her remarks that she was a working girl, but I'm glad she at least let me know. I text her back and told her I've never paid for ass & she responded with, well you can take me out to dinner then.

So, my question for y'all is, do I take her out to dinner and try to work that angle, like I've done in the past, or would it actually be cheaper to just pay her for her services? Which is the better investment?

Dude....That's a classic dilemma !!!!!! The gurls on here will probably tell you you're already marked, and that's probably true for the most part. But it's worth the price of a dinner just to play your hand and see how this develops or doesn't.
I have no idea what this gurl is like or what her motivation is. I have made friends with several escorts I see fairly regularly...Not friends like meeting her family at Christmas, LMAO.. but friendly enough to have lunch or dinner, or a ride along the beach on the back of one of my bikes. They have no problem or difficulty separating business from a friendly dinner, and I know right where I stand. I works well. There is an unspoken mutual respect. I don't need the fucking drama , and they're probably not looking for a steady dude.

I've stated on numerous occasions I have no problem paying for my vices. I get exactly what I want, when I want, and from whom. You watch...They'll be dudes who will from the safe seat behind their keyboards that will howl at that and tell you how they'd never pay for it. That their dick rap is so good they get their shit for gratis.. LMAO. With rare exception, I'm not buyin' it for a second.

My take for what it's worth ?? Take her to dinner see what kind of gurl you're dealing with. By the time you finish your first glass of wine....you should know !

[lisaparadise]

Freddie's piker.. Pay him no mind....he's wrestling with his own sexual identity. He loves chics with dicks, but hates himself for doing so. Most all the gurls on here despise him, and most of the guys laugh at him...

wow i didnt know freddie had a brother,stupiditty must run in there family.

[Chris in LA]

wow i didnt know freddie had a brother,stupiditty must run in there family.

Huh? are you talking about me?