My Dilema

[giovanni_hotel]

LOL trannies are crazy.. and this shit is the reason why... give her all your money... =)

LOL!!

She's giving the 'signs' that's she's a headcase and a hoe4life!! You didn't even approach her on that level, but she ONLY saw you as a trick!!

If you only wanna fucc her, pay the dime and keep it moving. But clearly this girl isn't relationship material on any level.

It's sad that some girls fucc up their own shit without even knowing it. I bet you're the kind of dude who would willingly have spent more money on this chick in an informal way as you would for any casual GF, but she only sees that one time payoff.

Not all these girls are crazy IMO, but there is a LOT of crazy out there in the trans-community.
Keep your wallet in your front pocket, Don Juan.

[fred41]

LOL!!

She's giving the 'signs' that's she's a headcase and a hoe4life!! You didn't even approach her on that level, but she ONLY saw you as a trick!!

If you only wanna fucc her, pay the dime and keep it moving. But clearly this girl isn't relationship material on any level.

It's sad that some girls fucc up their own shit without even knowing it. I bet you're the kind of dude who would willingly have spent more money on this chick in an informal way as you would for any casual GF, but she only sees that one time payoff.

Not all these girls are crazy IMO, but there is a LOT of crazy out there in the trans-community.
Keep your wallet in your front pocket, Don Juan.

I think you might have over thought this one just a bit. Most people don't go to the "TS Bar" looking for relationship material...for the most part it's just not that kind of dynamic. If it happens it happens.

[giovanni_hotel]

Where else are you gonna go in town to meet TGs?? At the bar.

And the OP didn't approach her like she was a trick, so why treat him like a john?? Regardless, she's sounds mental.

If she was working that evening, she should have put it out there up front, that she was going to charge him for the privilege.

[fred41]

Where else are you gonna go in town to meet TGs?? At the bar.

And the OP didn't approach her like she was a trick, so why treat him like a john?? Regardless, she's sounds mental.

If she was working that evening, she should have put it out there up front, that she was going to charge him for the privilege.

A "TSBar" isn't just any bar...and I'm pretty sure you know this. It's like someone once said "You don't go to a topless bar looking for a date". Sure, the possibility is always there...it happens to plenty of guys...but that isn't the main purpose for the establishment and the people that work there. Chris is from LA,,,there are lots of regular bars and clubs that have TS...just like New York...in New York it's some of the gay bars that feature drag shows...some of the big dance clubs like Pacha...etc.This is where the girls go in their free time just to have fun (and yes, they shop too like any other young woman)...you know-just like everybody else.

The easiest route is the route he took...but you can't go there thinking that the majority of girls there aren't working...sure some are there for the goof...but not "the majority" and even some of the girls there just for the goof probably work but are just off that night.She probably figured he knew this, or maybe at least certainly understood that the chance of her being an escort was very high.

Besides...she was "second choice' that night why shouldn't she be the slightest bit insulted?

Ruby was spot on...she was interested in him. She gave him her real name...she had to get back to work. It's how she pays her rent. Do you stop working on your job just because someone caught your eye? No...people have jobs to make money..to pay bills and eat. Even if she didn't leave with a client...she's networking..getting numbers.

..and no one with any class approaches a girl like a "trick"...even if that's the purpose of the approach.So that doesn't mean anything either.

[Chris in LA]

I'm really glad I didn't pursue her now...

[dderek123]

I was surprised about how many ts girls were coming up and talking to me, it caught me off guard, but perhaps because I was the new guy, they wanted to see what I was all about. A couple of girls were smiling at me at the bar, but again, without a whole lot of experiences, and my unwillingness to approach them, I decided to walk around and check out the rest of the scene.

Uh, earth-to-Chris, they were all prostitutes!

So, my question for y'all is, do I take her out to dinner and try to work that angle, like I've done in the past, or would it actually be cheaper to just pay her for her services? Which is the better investment?

Depends on what you're looking for.

If you just want to have a good time. Pay her.

If you are looking for a relationship (or can see yourself looking for one in the new future), just move on. Don't be friends, AOL chat buddies nor acquaintances. The lady is working so let her work.