Guys and Transsexuals?????

[Adam_Thompson]

I was wondering if any guys on here address the psychological ramifications of hiding their sexuality to people in their real life. I have a friend that just came out and says he is 200% better mentally now that he does not have to hide who he is. It's cool cause he has PRIDE meetings, parades, siestas (j/k), and real support, while men guys like US usually get the most advice and help from forums like this (not shitting on HA at all either). The girls get help from other girls I guess, but it seems OUR community has a long ways to go. I wonder if some guys even consider themselves part of this community or wish to incorporate themselves more into it.

Just a random thought I figured I would share.

[4DegreesWarmer]

I wonder if some guys even consider themselves part of this community or wish to incorporate themselves more into it.

I'm not sure I get that...if you're referring to the gay/tg community, then no I wouldn't prefer to be involved in it because I consider myself neither gay nor transgendered.

Though, I'm sure having a group of guys around who all could relate to my attraction would be comforting in some way(it'd be great to bring of tg porn or point a hot tgirl and not have other friends freak out), but at the same time I am also happy that I've worked/working(whatever you are or do, you're always a work in progress) out my issues by my lonesome. I find that I gain a lot more fulfillment from introspection as opposed to group thinking...I'd rather have the least amount of outside influence as possible.

I'm glad you brought of psychology in general because I'm often trying to garner a better understanding of myself, as well as others.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

The girls get help from other girls I guess.

If that statement was true..you wouldnt see gurls tearing another gurl up. Its a sad reality. And Ive said this on a different thread..The ts/tg comunity is rather small and in the minority..hence creating segregation or separation of pacts (by people who creates them) would only weaken the community as awhole.

If anything ts/tg should be supportive of one another. And the guys who are into them as well. But from observation, based on what i saw and read at some threads..thats not what is happening. The most opinionated judgemental people are the less attractive or educated etc. The one's who tries to bring a fellow guy or trannies down wether because one is in porn, works as an escort or whatever the case maybe. Its not right any which way you look at it.

~Kisses.

HTG

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

while men guys like US usually get the most advice and help from forums like this (not shitting on HA at all either). The girls get help from other girls I guess, but it seems OUR community has a long ways to go. I wonder if some guys even consider themselves part of this community or wish to incorporate themselves more into it.

damn good topic 1st off

secondly let me say this, personally no guy will ever attract me, which is weird considering I flirt with tgirls ALOT, but I don't consider them guys, at least the ones I mess with.................. women like Allanah, Dina, Sunny, Giselle, & Jade go through all that work to get groped by guys like me, they aren't men, those are WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thirdly I just want to say I am thankful everyday for the guys like US.........
you have no idea how comforting it is to be around guys that actually think some of the same things.........................some of the same things, lol

[TrueBeauty TS]

The girls get help from other girls I guess.

If that statement was true..you wouldnt see gurls tearing another gurl up. Its a sad reality. And Ive said this on a different thread..The ts/tg comunity is rather small and in the minority..hence creating segregation or separation of pacts (by people who creates them) would only weaken the community as awhole.

If anything ts/tg should be supportive of one another. And the guys who are into them as well. But from observation, based on what i saw and read at some threads..thats not what is happening. The most opinionated judgemental people are the less attractive or educated etc. The one's who tries to bring a fellow guy or trannies down wether because one is in porn, works as an escort or whatever the case maybe. Its not right any which way you look at it.

~Kisses.

HTG

Goddamit....... I write a big long reply to this post and when I click on "submit" it dumps me and I lose the entire post!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, I'm not going to re-write the whole thing but trust me, it was good.

I want to scream!!!

[hwbs]

agreed....its good to not feel alone and stuff like that.....good to meet people that are like u except for the excessive T.M.I., hehe

[NYCe]

That was the point of creating this site originally. While the focus has shifted in our 4 (!!!) years of existance, its still cool to provide a shelter in a storm for some folks.

[SexxxyJade]

I live in ATL which is known for being very gay populated so im use to seeing gay guys.But with all they gay guys here the TS lovers and admirers are still "in the closet", they are all DL, or clients or sum discret type.
When i first started going to NYC, and Allannahs parties i was amazed, almost shocked to see they many guys that clicked together as TS admirers. Made me feel more comfortable myself, all warm inside even. like i was a real woman. There were actually a room full of guys who were attracted to me, and none of them were trying to hide.
I wasnt use to getting this feeling unless i was at a str8 club, hiding the fact that im a TS ( which i do quite often because of the enviornment i live in).
Im sure many of you will see that when im at the parties im clicked with the guys instead of the girls, thats just how cool i find it that they are all hanging like that " Far outtt Dude!!!"
I just wanna say i think its great, and hopefully one day NYC's liberal ways will spread across the rest of the world.
Big ups guys.

[NYCe]

Goddamit....... I write a big long reply to this post and when I click on "submit" it dumps me and I lose the entire post!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, I'm not going to re-write the whole thing but trust me, it was good.

I want to scream!!!

Awww. The old "I lost it" story? Well, don't get your boxers all bunched up now, Sweetie. Post it again. We'll wait. And let's see a pic of that pretty testo-free face of yours, while you're at it. We're all just either sisters or admirers here, you know?

Come on, keep this post drama. This site isn't about to turn into ...overthere.

[hwbs]

she has posted pics up here many times ......very nice person