Would you have a serious relationship with a TGIRL?

[Ryz]

im looking for a boyfriend/long term relationship!

anyone out there looking for a TS girl 100% passable and hot just contact me and lets FUKC everynight *wink wink*

Where are you baby? I'm ready to get married

[dogsandcats]

im looking for a boyfriend/long term relationship!

anyone out there looking for a TS girl 100% passable and hot just contact me and lets FUKC everynight *wink wink*

lol you are too boy crazy right now, but you are beautiful

[innocentbychoice]

im looking for a boyfriend/long term relationship!

anyone out there looking for a TS girl 100% passable and hot just contact me and lets FUKC everynight *wink wink*

So is it safe to say that your relationship with the guy who wouldn't blow you is over?

[LibertyHarkness]

i am not being funny, i really would date a TS ... i like girls and boys equally so it would be no issue to me ..

my whole family know i am bisexual and TS .. they are used to seeing boys/girls etc flitting about our home lol

I have seen some lovely girls i would love to date and get to know more personally/emotiaonlly xx

[dogsandcats]

DING DING DING!!!

We're all suckers. We all get used for one thing or another. And usually the last thing we want to be used for. Men dont want to be used for their money, women dont want to be used for their body, but i have to say that i try my damned HARDEST to be seen as a person and not an object, and give men PLENTY of reasons to like me beyond just physical attraction. Its like u guys cant help some of the stupid shit that comes out your mouth sometimes. Like those dating shows where the guy screws up in 3...2...1....

lol i remember this one time (i told this story b4) i was with this guy who drove me somewhere and my tuck was hurting so i loosened it up a bit and the guy noticed and wouldnt stop commenting on my cock the whole ride, telling me i could take it out if i wanted to and hang it out the car window and stuff ... ughh... so inappropriate. and he just wouldnt stop!!!! Another guy i met as friends and was playing video games and he just kept looking for reasons to brush up against me, or touch me, or make little random flirty comments and when i wouldnt respond as he hoped after an hour he dropped his pants in my house to ask me what i thought of his cock like we were in some cheesy porno scene and i was gonna jump on it. i was SO disrespected i kicked his ass out after giving him a hot piece of my spanish mouth!!! And not the good kind!

the truth is it doesnt matter WHERE u meet the girls, its all about you, your confidence, and the way you make her feel about herself. women like men to treat them like friends. Let the GIRL make the first advance, she wouldnt be spending time with u if she wasnt interested, (or time your advances accordingly. Pay close attention to mannerisms and mood, its not hard people are very easy to read!) u dont have to remind her that u like her every 5 seconds, or OVER compliment her, its looses it's genuine-ness after the first 5 times u tell her how pretty she is and makes u look a little desperate! Women love confidence, and believe me, that goes a LONG WAY!!! Its right up there with WIT and humor! But there is a VERY fine line between confidence and cockiness and there nothing more of a turnoff than an egotistical guy! Try treating a girl like u would your mom, or your sister, or a close family friend. With respect! That will take u so much further than bragging about how many hot chicks you get (lol) or making inappropriate comments that only YOU find funny!

And finally, i met my boyfriend online. He wasnt my type initially and i shot him down over and over again. One day i noticed an awesome away msg and commented on aim and we just got to chatting. i didnt know it was him, but i was so enveloped in his personality, natural charm and charisma that i decided to contine talking with him as friends. He went WAYY out of his way and met me in Atlantic City BTW A CASINO IS AN AWESOME FIRST DATE!!!! Anything interractive and fun really.... I was impressed by his persistence and confidence. Our conversations flowed effortlessly, and from day i we were BEST FRIENDS. He would pick on me and i would pick on him and the playfulness was exhilirating and such a great change of pace. i kept him with me for 3 days, and after that we were inseperable. It wasn't long before we were exchanging "i love you's" The chemistry was amazing and effortless. then i started to realize how cute he really is, and wondered why i didnt see it sooner. Now i feel very fortunate to have found him. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me!

How long have yall been together?

I will say one thing. Relationships are work. The infatuation and excitement will fade over time, but the love and the bond between yall will always be there if you work on your relationship together. Just make sure that you guys always communicate and show appreciation for one another. It can be easy to become complacent in a relationship. After years of being together it can be easy to get in a rut sexually and emotionally. Make sure that each of you is putting in 100% into building your relationship, figuring out ways to keep things lively between you two, and figuring out ways to always make sure the lines of communication are open.

Further, try to think longer term and how you two are going to accommodate each others goals and desires in life. It's easy to feel great in the short term when you are in love, but if yall have different goals in life then you 2 need to figure out how to try to fulfill those goals.

I'll stop rambling and I wish yall the best

[RubyTS]

Way to go, Ruby. Very good primer for the guys to read and learn from. Any guy looking for any kind of serious relationship with a woman should mine all of the gems out of your post.

I loved the story about the two boys with you, mainly because I was like that myself at one time due to a combination of nerves, horniness and alcohol. I'll pretty much guarantee that the boy who couldn't keep his mouth shut in the car knew that he was going too far in his comments and was actually trying desperately to shut up. And one of the problems that guys have from watching too much porn is that they don't realize that no real woman is going to act like that unless she's getting paid.

I also liked your personal love story too because it shows how really strong relationships evolve. I met my wife at work and we used to talk a lot as friends. At first I had no romantic attraction to her, she just seemed and smelled nicer than the guys that worked with her. We enjoyed chatting about things that went on at work and around the town where we lived and after a couple of years we just moved into a romantic relationship. She told me then that she'd never planned it that way and in fact was going to try and hook me up with her friend who was constantly having man problems. But the timing of that never worked out right and she decided to keep me for herself, thank God.

I think you a very attractive woman and person, Ruby, especially for sharing you life and thoughts with us. Your inner beauty shines through your words.

Thank you,
Dave

Thank u so much =) love always comes when ur not looking for it. Those are always the best relationships. Friends first! The rest will develop on its own if the chemistry is right. Its not a good idea to chase a girl down just because you have a crush, those never end well. People need to involve themselves in relationships for the right reasons, then there will be so many more happy stories to share!

bitch,when you write i shut up and listen lol.your always right on point.i think im going to have to write ya another letter.

LOL!!!

"they just aren't necessarily open about it in their personal lives. With the society we live in, it's not exactly hard to understand why that is"

yep that just smacks of acceptance.pleaseeee.if you wanna treat me like a dirty secret,ima keep running those pockets.why should i give the time of day to men who are to ashamed and hung up to take me seriously.show me your not a trick then ill respect you as a man.come at me with a bunch of hang ups and wanting to be on the low than youll just go in the box with the dollar signs.
and im guessing you havent seen the thread where almost all the men in here were discussing their addiction to trannies and how they try to cope or kick their habit.it was crazy,you really would of thought they were talking about crack.its great to know that im something to be coped with or tried to kick.

whats funny is no matter how much we explain this it always goes in 1 ear and out the other. like i said before, confidence is key, and confidence also includes walking proud with ur woman regardless to what society thinks. i THANK THE LORD i never had this problem with my baby. He is a total man and absolutely could care less what society or his family thinks (But im happy they adore me!) This issue is usually typical of younger guys, and any guy that says he's loooking for a relationship with a TS isnt ready for one at all if theyre still concerning themselves with what other people think. its a complete contradiction to what a relationship is about!!! Again, a relationship is about being able to put somone else's needs before your own. How can u say u want a relationship but concern yourself with other peoples opinions in the same breath? Everyone has an opinion, you shouldnt let that interfere with your happiness. It shows immaturity and an extreme lack of confidence and is definitely the #1 turn off among ts women and the reason WHY a lot of girls choose to go into the adult industry. So when i say that i wish happiness to those deserving, people like this guy are NOT on the list! You will only help to further her insecurities if you involve yourself with a ts and still maintain this mindset. She has enough criticism to deal with on a daily basis, she shouldnt have to deal with it from the people who claim to lover her!!!

[audifan]

Hey Ruby,

Thanks for posting here. Hope it all goes well for you with your future plans.

[Dkg]

"they just aren't necessarily open about it in their personal lives. With the society we live in, it's not exactly hard to understand why that is"

yep that just smacks of acceptance.pleaseeee.if you wanna treat me like a dirty secret,ima keep running those pockets.why should i give the time of day to men who are to ashamed and hung up to take me seriously.show me your not a trick then ill respect you as a man.come at me with a bunch of hang ups and wanting to be on the low than youll just go in the box with the dollar signs.
and im guessing you havent seen the thread where almost all the men in here were discussing their addiction to trannies and how they try to cope or kick their habit.it was crazy,you really would of thought they were talking about crack.its great to know that im something to be coped with or tried to kick.

If I have genuine feelings for a girl, it would literally be against my nature to keep her as a dirty secret...why would I want to? If I know a girl who is a skank or ho then of course I would not want to be affiliated with her. I personally have no hang ups and the only reason I didn't take one particular relationship to that level was because I felt she was "too old" for me and had nothing to do with the fact she was trans.

Nah, I didn't see that part of the thread but if you want to give me a link I'll check it out. Not that I don't believe you. and I'm not denying that there are some guys out there that might feel "ashamed" or whatever, but most I know on here aren't including myself. I came to terms with it looong ago. Probably when I was 17 or so and I'm 27 now so yeah. Its just not an issue to me anymore. I don't go around announcing it to the world but I don't try to "kick the habit" or some stupid -ish like that.

[RubyTS]

Hey Ruby,

Thanks for posting here. Hope it all goes well for you with your future plans.

thanks

[TsVanessa69]

i honestly don't know...maybe when i'm older?

Age is not the issue.
I've had finer guys than you, younger than you, takin me to meet moms right in NYC.