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    Default Planning on asking my wife to fuck me with a strap-on and...

    ... I was wondering if anyone here has had to ask someone to do that for them - what their reaction was, so on so forth.
    We've used vibrators and fingers but I have never asked her to lash a cock onto her body and fuck me. I wonder how that will be different -she is open to all the other anal activities.
    Anyway, just wondering - thanks ...



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    Default Re: Planning on asking my wife to fuck me with a strap-on and...

    Quote Originally Posted by mistergigantor View Post
    ... I was wondering if anyone here has had to ask someone to do that for them .
    What, asked your wife to fuck them with a strap-on?
    I dunno, what'd she look like?


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    My then girlfriend (now wife) was into it when I asked. We were drunk and talking about sex, and I said it was something I wanted to try. She said she'd try, so we bought one and used it that night. We both really enjoyed it. We don't use it all the time, but break it out every so often.

    As fetishy things to do with your wife, it's not really that extreme. Probably a little more out there than handcuffs and playful s&m, but depending on your wife's attitudes about sex, it might not be a big deal. If she has a dominant streak, she'll probably love it.

    Advice for bringing it up: Mention it after a few drinks. Once you mention it, don't press it. You can always bring it up later, and chances are she's not going to forget this conversation. Also, make it seem like it's fun for her. Don't act ashamed and give her the impression that she has a repressed husband who needs weird things to get him off. Own it, and give her the impression that she has a kinky husband who enjoys getting off with her all kinds of ways.

    Good luck. And use lots of lube.



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    i ask my girl if we could do anal and she told me it hurt too much and she would do it only if i let her do me with a strap on no lube i have never mention it again but you may be surprise she might have other fantasies she might be emberace to say or even mention to you i find out she wants to go to a strip club and get a private lap dance from a girl



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    I can't recall exactly how I asked her but I came clean about my desire to have her bend me over. She wasn't excited about it at first but this Christmas she surprised me with a sexy Santa outfit while wearing a Feeldoe. It was the hottest thing she's done for me by far. Tell her what you want and good things will follow.



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    Default Re: Planning on asking my wife to fuck me with a strap-on and...

    Quote Originally Posted by mistergigantor View Post
    ... I was wondering if anyone here has had to ask someone to do that for them - what their reaction was, so on so forth.
    We've used vibrators and fingers but I have never asked her to lash a cock onto her body and fuck me. I wonder how that will be different -she is open to all the other anal activities.
    Anyway, just wondering - thanks ...
    Oh snap good question lol I have had four wild women and I never asked them, they brought that shit up to me. lol I kept wondering why i kept running into these type of women. But I love that shit. The first one took my asshole and she trained my ass and one day she tied me up and brought the strapon and I was in heavennnnnnnnn! lol I have asked other women 3 out of of 20 women said no they wouldn't do it and the 17 others have done it or want to do it. Women want to do some wild shit but men turn them down so much they get frustrated and leave it as a fantasy. I let a woman live sexually 100% she can talk to me about anything.

    GO FOR IT ALL SHE CAN DO IS SAY YES OR NO! Hope it's yes !



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    Default Re: Planning on asking my wife to fuck me with a strap-on and...

    Quote Originally Posted by mistergigantor View Post
    ... I was wondering if anyone here has had to ask someone to do that for them - what their reaction was, so on so forth.
    We've used vibrators and fingers but I have never asked her to lash a cock onto her body and fuck me. I wonder how that will be different -she is open to all the other anal activities.
    Anyway, just wondering - thanks ...
    3 out of my last 5 girlfriends were right into it, the other 2 were simply indifferent but would have come around if we had stayed together. All of them know about my love for transexuals. Of those 3 strap on babes, 2 were wild about TS as well, one was curious, the other 2 simply had no interest but didnt freak out or anything.

    Tell ALL your women about your desires, if the girl cares about you she will just want you to be happy, you dont need to drop a load of porn in her face (although with the right woman that can work wonders) sometimes you need a little subtlety, just work it out. The more women that know about our desires the more women will indulge them and we will all benefit.

    And really mate, if your playing with vibrators your already home! just step it up and enjoy!



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    I looks like if you guys have used vibrators and fingers already in the relationship then I say go ahead and ask. She seems open to new things and a strap-on is just another tool for her to use. I remember when one of my girlfriends loved to play wih my ass. I asked one night if she was willing to put on a strap-on, and she got excited about the idea. So the next day we went brought ourselves a strap-on and lube and it was a wonderful experence. After that we were more open to different things in the bedroom, if comunication is there go for it! Just remember lots of lube and enjoy yourself.



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    She's your wife, not one of the alley cats willing to who fuck JamesEdwards. Think it over because it may harm your relationship. Most women look down on guys who take penis up the butt and, even if she indulges you initially, she will secretly wonder what's going on. Is it possible that if she finds out about your internet activity, she'll be upset, maybe even gone and seeing a divorce attorney?

    Make sure your own desires aren't coloring your understanding of her background, values and biases!


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    Default Re: Planning on asking my wife to fuck me with a strap-on and...

    Quote Originally Posted by mistergigantor View Post
    she is open to all the other anal activities.
    go for it



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