My personal Reasoning on not dating TS attracted men

[goku]

First of all the transsexual community is fairly small and so when a guy dates transsexuals he normally dates more than one and you NORMALLY know the last girl he dated.
I personally find it awkward to know my partner had sexual relations with a friend of mine or even a friend of mines friend.

This one I can understand. Knowing how small the community is, this is always going to be a problem. However, if a girl turns someone out, you never know what they will do next. I have a friend that thinks like you, however, her guys keep leaving her for other TS even though they had never been with one before. Once they found they liked it, they wanted to explore the scene even further.

Second MOST men who dates transsexuals have a strong attraction to the Male organ. They see us more as a fetish than an actual person.

While this may be true on an elementary scale, it is more complex than that. A lot of guys entered in with that idea, but have evolved over time. For example, I came to HA to look at the pics years ago. Now, I never come to HA for sexual pleasure. I actually log on to see the topics. Everyone grows, and should be judged on a case by case basis.

Third the MAJORITY of men who likes transsexuals (no matter what they say) pay for sex and even though I am an escort I could NEVER find it in my heart to date someone who is a client because EVERY client I have ever met claims the very thought of paying and doing something illegal is half of what turns them on so much. So it is most likely they will pay AGAIN and if the relationship is long lasting it might be during y'alls time together.

I have no idea about being a client, because I have never taken an escort. It would seem like the whole idea of breaking the law is half the rush for those guys. However, I am sure that there are just as many who wouldn't pay for it, if they could get a TS woman on their own.

[quote=tsparisangelline;840315]Fourth, the majority of men who date ts's date more masculine Trans-women but consider themselves straight and I cannot find myself to be with a man who is not OPEN to the fact that he find masculinity attractive.

(I would date a bisexual man with no problems but a man who dates very strong looking transsexual women with no breasts is a turn off to me because he is closet case and not open to himself about his OWN sexuality)

Daryl Washington

Fifth, men who date transsexuals are normally weaker minded than men who do not, and they even hold fear of being "caught".
Men who I have not told in the beginning and told later on have not had those hookups because before they knew I was a ts they never had bad reactions from outsiders.


Now I have alot more reasons but I will come to those in time.

This I completely disagree with!

People who openly date transsexual women are STRONGER minded men, and could give a shit about being caught. We long since dealt with the issues, and faced them head on. We go to the movies, out to eat, and walk past the glaring eyes of the masses without so much as a flinch.


My issue is, this seems to be the thinking of quite a few Transwomen. However, why would you wanna "train" your man each and every time, only to have him run off and start fucking all your friends after you "break him in"? This is a question I have posed to a lot of my friends. Wouldn't you rather have a guy who has gotten all the bullshit out of his system, and is ready to settle down? If I was TS, the last thing I would do is date a guy who is new to the scene. That is like bringing a kid to the amusement park, and only expecting him to ride one ride.

[giovanni_hotel]

Can't imagine a GG saying she hates dating men because they're too obsessed with pussy or only want eat and fucc her vagina!!lol
You girls have more hangups than the guys on HA!!!
Another T who's become bitter and cynical from escorting.....shocker.

[rockabilly]

I guess this means Paris and I shall never date.

Because i'm confident in what kind of women i like oh and i'm whiter than snow. lol

[Coroner]

I really don´t know why anyone should want to date you, Paris? You´re not in the position to pick too much.

[rockabilly]

She's in Doggy position or Reverse Cowgirl maybe.

[phobun]

Can't imagine a GG saying she hates dating men because they're too obsessed with pussy or only want eat and fucc her vagina!!lol
You girls have more hangups than the guys on HA!!!
Another T who's become bitter and cynical from escorting.....shocker.

No need to attack her because of her honest and candid feelings.
That's another thing... hounds are so insecure they will often attack the girl for not seeing the world with cock-rimmed glasses.

[phobun]

While this may be true on an elementary scale, it is more complex than that. A lot of guys entered in with that idea, but have evolved over time. For example, I came to HA to look at the pics years ago. Now, I never come to HA for sexual pleasure. I actually log on to see the topics. Everyone grows, and should be judged on a case by case basis.

There is a lot truth in this. I agree that this can happen.

[rockabilly]

lmao Cock and Rimmed in the same sentence.

[giovanni_hotel]

Paris is an ESCORT at present. Would it not make sense to assume her world-view on relationships is somewhat 'warped'???

Men OBJECTIFY women, GG and TGs. Get over it. I respect your mind, but I don't wanna fucc it.
And still with that 'hound' garbage, vietboy/phobun/tollroad.

It's not a COCK THING.
It's a TRANNY THING.
Close, but not the same by a long shot.

[Solitary Brother]

I dont think it matters because your a hooker anyways.
No one cares who a hooker dates when she is not working.
(just being real)