random rant

[amberskyi]

so this is kinda random but im so tired of this happening to me.i hate when i meet a guy and he's really cool,chill,down to earth.we'll have like a million things in common and the vibe between us would be crazy.
i just meet this guy and he was so awsome.i mean he was funny as hell,great to be around,and he seemed to really take me seriously.so we were hanging out and he made a joke about me secretly having kids,apparently when ever he's into a chick she ends up having kids lol.i just kinda assumed he knew what was going on as far as my gender.so of course i told him even if if it was to just reaffirm everything.well to my surprise he had no idea.he was very surprised but he seemed to be cool with everything.he's a pretty intellectual guy so we talked about it and what not.i did notice he was kind of less flirty and physical but i just figured he was still processing.so here it is like a day later and he hasnt called me or answered my texts .
i feel like i just cant win.if i dont tell a guy right away there always the high chance ill face disappointment when i do.if i do date guys who know most of them are so akward and filled with insecurities that its hard to really connect.
i should just give up on dating and turn into a uber whore or something lol

[phobun]

He'll be calling you in a week if he has any brains, once he works through his insecurities.

[JoePitt]

Eh, he's a guy. It takes us more than 24 hours to process anything more complicated than what we're going to eat that day.

[scroller]

Suggest using an online dating service where that is communicated in advance.

[runround04]

Eh, he's a guy. It takes us more than 24 hours to process anything more complicated than what we're going to eat that day.

Thats true.

Dont worry about it, he may seem great, but if he cant accept you for you, then what good is he? Dont get down on yourself about it, it his stupid ass thats missing out on you, not the other way around.

[amberskyi]

Suggest using an online dating service where that is communicated in advance.

"if i do date guys who know most of them are so akward and filled with insecurities that its hard to really connect."

[amberskyi]

He'll be calling you in a week if he has any brains, once he works through his insecurities.

i doubt it.ive been through this several times.to jaded to hope

[giovanni_hotel]

IMO, all girls would increase their odds of finding significant others by pursuing those men who openly express their desire for transgendered women.

Shooting in the dark and more often than not, you're likely to miss your target.
Sorry to hear about you and dude, but trust there are DOZENS of chill, normal guys who never would have left you hanging, Amber.

[JoePitt]

so here it is like a day later and he hasnt called me or answered my texts

You probably shouldn't have sent him any texts and/or calls right away.

[amberskyi]

You probably shouldn't have sent him any texts and/or calls right away.

its been like two days.we chillled on saturday.i only sent him like two texts.im not the type to blow a guys phone up.after being ignored twice i get the message and move on