Trans-girls and relationships.....

[goku]

We all crack jokes, or just come on here to entertain ourselves. So a lot of shit gets sadi for just that, and lost is what we really might feel about this world we plunged into.


A long time ago I saw it as a fetish. I used to hide it, and only looked at pictures or videos online.

Then one day I actually met a Transwoman, and after talking to her at length, I began to see things a little differently.

These days I date both GGs and TS. However, I do find dating TS to be much more difficult and taxing than dating GGs. For every down to earth, low keyed/laid back one, there are 8 more who are extremely dramatic and superficial. There is also the difficulty of getting past the negative view of men. You will find that the girls have a hard time trusting you, and are just waiting for you to do something stupid. Some will keep you at bay emotionally for fear that you would hurt them. They have had countless "chasers" leave them for the next best thing, and are not willing to open up emotionally.

After you get past that, you still have personality and sexual differences to deal with. Being able to get along on a daily basis is key. Also, some girls just wanna bend a dude over, and if you are a "top", then the relationship is over before it starts.....lol

And finally, there is the constant changing of a girl. The girl you met, might not be the same girl a year or two down the road, depending on where she was in her transition.

All in all it's a difficult world to navigate. There are a lot of hoops to navigate, and your patience level has to be high. You also have to have a bit of understanding as to what she is trying to do, and where she is trying to go. Before you jump into this world, realize what you are getting yourself into. If it's not for you, just keep it moving!

[Willie Escalade]

You've taken the words right out of my mouth...I can speak from experience, my friend!

[BLKGSXR]

You've taken the words right out of my mouth...I can speak from experience, my friend!

dont think about it have a good day at work fucker,

[Willie Escalade]

dont think about it have a good day at work fucker,

I'm thinking about the brunette, not the blond.

And my workday is off to a bad start...

[BLKGSXR]

I'm thinking about the brunette, not the blond.

And my workday is off to a bad start...

her hair is actually black hence why I call her a panda oh wait youre talking about the other one huh you sick fucker you lmfao!

[BellaBellucci]

This is a very brave and probably a little too accurate post. Very well articulated. It's hard to disagree with the logic, but suffice it to say, sometimes you just have to follow your heart instead and stick to the 1 out of the 9 as best you can. It's a difficult sea to navigate, sure, but it's not impossible if you know where the lighthouses are so to speak.

~BB~

[rockabilly]

Navigating is easy if you use G.P.S. .

[DarylWashington]

I love the drama that comes with dealing with trans women!

[JackBeLittle]

Thoughtful and well put.

Thank you.

[BellaBellucci]

Navigating is easy if you use G.P.S. .

Don't you mean T.P.S.? Is that like 'gaydar?'

I love the drama that comes with dealing with trans women!

Really? No shit?

~BB~