I tried dating a transexual but.......

[Mari_Mar]

I find they just don't get the point otherwise, and they keep talking!

Yeah... I know what you mean. I can't tell you how many times I've tried to subtly blow a guy off, and ultimately ended up having to scream at him in order to get him to leave me alone.

One time, a guy was so annoying and full of himself that I abruptly cut him off by excitedly exclaiming "Are you going to rape me and beat me to death in a back alley somewhere!!!!" The room went silent and stared at us. The guy lowered his chin and nervously walked out of the room.

HAHAHAHA!

[LaCosa]

You can't really base your whole opinion of a transsexual at a club. Transsexuals that are at clubs are normally there to escort, unless they are at a straight club. Then they are trying to score straight cock.

Oh no! I wasn't meaning to imply I was judging all transsexuals from that one girl. Actually she seemed to be a nice person. She just was looking for a guy that has lots of bread. And that's not me.

And for the record... I have no problem with trans girls trying to "score straight cock."

I agree women use men just as much for money and security, but what I was talking about is the escorting gets to them. It messes with their head. It makes them hate men. Many strippers have said the same thing after stripping for years. Men disgust them.

Plus a lot of girls try to date men for love, but get mad when the guy wants them as a secret.

Ah! I see what you are saying. Yes, I can see how that could happen. I think the same thing most happen to prostitutes too. I think gay male prostitutes might feel similar towards men after a while.

It's one thing for a person to see you as many different things or a person capable of many different roles. It's another thing when all the man ever sees you as is a mere fuck toy.

I don't think you saying that about Ashley George is immoral. I think she is a pornstar, and you are a guy who is a fan of her porn. You are supposed to feel that way. HOWEVER if you were trying to date her...I wouldn't say that would be the way to approach her.

Error, Kelly, dear. I haven't really seen any of Ashley George's porn. I see her add pop up all the time on this site. I've also visited her website and watched her intro video (which I was very pleased with I might add LOL). That's about it. Ashley is completely new to me. I don't follow her (can't be called a "fan") and haven't seen any of her porn really. But her ads on this site are promoting an overt sexual objectification of her. Halle Berry and Ashley George, two women in film, both promoting different images of themselves. If any woman keeps parading herself butt naked before a man, the guy is going to think about stick his dick in her. That's just the way it is.

If someone has an issue with that they can take it up with "mother nature" and evolutionary science, and get off my balls.

[LaCosa]

YES!!! Those "Other women" are clearly out of their goddamned fucking minds!

LMAO!!!!!!! Oh boy... that had me rolling!

[arnie666]

Just because I treat a ladyboy escort as a playtoy, doesn't mean I don't treat them extremely well. In fact I would say I treat them better than I have women I date.

At the end of the day ,women and men use each other, whether money is directly changing hands for a few hours or not. Just because someone escorts, doesn't mean, they shouldn't get treated with respect, just as you should for anyone carrying out a service for you. And neither should all men who visit escorts be sterotyped either. It's all very well and understandable a ladyboy saying that guys have little understanding of what they go through,but on the other side of it, unless you are in or have walked in the shoes of men who visit ladyboy escorts, then it is wrong to pontificate.

[LaCosa]

Arnie! That signature of yours is awesome! Man, that had me seriously LMAO. I'm going to have to steal it. Was it from some novel you read?

Oh, and I agree with you about interactions between escort and client. I've never had sex with a transsexual or paid one as an escort. But whether the working girl (or boy in the case of gay or bisexual males) is a biological girl or a transsexual, I see no reason why people can't treat each other with a little human respect?

Last night a friend of mine came down the block in tears and shaken up. She has the tattoos from a former gang life, she prostitutes, and is drug addicted. She's no pussy in other words. But whatever violence she witnessed one or more men dishing out on some woman she knew had to have been on level brutal enough to traumatize her. My guys and I where outside. This happened right down the block. I don't know if the woman was beaten to death or not. But I'm happy my friend made it to us. Had those cats came down towards us looking for her they would either have had to draw guns or go knuckle to knuckle with us.

[TSMichelleAustin]

First Kelly, my bf that I am with we had sex first date and we are still together for over two years. So I dont think that whole thing about sex ruins his interest in you! Girls who go to clubs are not always escorting.... I dont ever escort when out, I go out to be with friends and have a good time. If a tranny chaser approaches me I tell him an outrageous price if he wants me. So they leave me alone. I go out to have fun, not to work, if I wanted to work Id stay home.

I think everyone is sexual to an extent be it paying for it or going out and getting it.

[DL_NL]

I've had two relationships with T-girls, both unfortunately cut short (by Immigration and extreme homesickness, respectively) but didn't find the relationships by themselves different from relationships with GGs.

[alyssaluxor]

I think there are a lot of reasons girls get in the sex indusrty but I am sure its not cause of some bad dating experiences...

the number reason why I ended up being in the adult industry is because of a lot of bad dating experiences

[alyssaluxor]

no difference between dating a ts and a real woman if they have self-esteem

lol Mari! I really think most men into transsexuals especially the beginning ones need time to accept themselves. I think many girls should try dating with out SEX for at least two to three months. So they see you as a person and a woman before hand. You give it up too fast they will move on to the next.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

I just dated a smoking hott tgirl for months. Takes alot of patience and alot of money to date a tgirl. Its a whole new world of dating cuz the normal rules of dating regular gurls dont carry over to tgirls.