People who come on just to start shit

[giovanni_hotel]

Girl drama is different.
TS admirer drama like Freddie's kills the board because usually it's directed at other admirers or most of the girls.

Real 'drama' happens naturally, you don't have to go around looking for ways to artificially start shit.

[scroller]

The funny thing is, if there wasn't drama on this site the forums would be empty.

Except that the longest and most-viewed threads have no drama at all, they're just picture-posting threads.

[tsparisangelline]

Girl drama is different.
TS admirer drama like Freddie's kills the board because usually it's directed at other admirers or most of the girls.

Real 'drama' happens naturally, you don't have to go around looking for ways to artificially start shit.

True.

Except that the longest and most-viewed threads have no drama at all, they're just picture-posting threads.

Yes CROSSDRESSER posting pics, lol.

[Odelay]

Every forum needs a reminder post now and then about not feeding the trolls. Well done, Bi.

[fred41]

Freddie comes across as a guy who was blessed with good looks but zero tact...that's unfortunate because if he doesn't change anything in his life he'll never have a LTR...which is fine for some people , but probably not most...it can get lonely in the later years...especially when looks fade, and you have nothing else to bargain with.

..and as far as this site is concerned...the girls really are the stars (this site is about them)...you can't be as big a diva and try to compete for that kind of attention...it's pointless....male narcissism burns itself out here.

[giovanni_hotel]

Yeah, it took me a while to understand that some dudes around here are actually jealous of the attention given to the girls!!!lol

Outrageous.

[fred41]

Yeah, it took me a while to understand that some dudes around here are actually jealous of the attention given to the girls!!!lol

Outrageous.

The one or two guys that think you're a "white knight" or an ass-kisser (some one who backs a girl even when she's crass and dead wrong ..desperately hoping for her attention)...are wrong...I think that there are a couple of people on here like that...but not you.

you have manners...and they do not. they hate you for it and think you are weak...but IRL people like that are generally bitter losers who wind up with no friends or lovers at all.

[Duh]

why should girls be exceptional to this rule? are you sayin if a thread is not worthy of attention because of its bad or distasteful content but if its a girl who started it you should still give it attention? a bad thread or a bad comment is a bad one doesn`t matter poster is a he or she.

[giovanni_hotel]

why should girls be exceptional to this rule? are you sayin if a thread is not worthy of attention because of its bad or distasteful content but if its a girl who started it you should still give it attention? a bad thread or a bad comment is a bad one doesn`t matter poster is a he or she.

Because the girls put themselves out there publicly,they're the ones more likely to be viciously attacked on this board. I'm not saying you shouldn't confront someone if you believe they're wrong or not call them on it, but for an admirer to get into a back and forth with a girl over some stupid petty shit is a waste of time, IMO.

Sometimes it can be justified, but there are some guys on here who have a hostile attitude towards girls on general principle.
There are some ignorant, rude, offensive muthafuckas on HA who get off on being that way, and it's mainly the guys from my observation.

BTW, no one, (ME!) is trying to get shit for 'free', kissing ass or sucking up. It's called being remotely civil, you know, how you deal with people IRL.

I talk to people on HA the way I do on almost any other site I frequent, or the way I would if I saw you out and about.

I feel free to talk about almost anything on HA, but there's a way to go about it without antagonizing someone, or deliberately insulting or demeaning the person you're talking to.

It's like, if I'm talking to a combat vet from Afghanistan or Iraq, because of their intimate personal experiences, on certain subjects I just won't press them too hard because there's nothing to be gained personally by one-upping them.

Basically it comes down to this; there are plenty of girls on HA I find mentally and physically attractive, and my desire for TGs in most cases is equal to that of GGs.
But am I open about it, outside of venues like HA??? Nope.
Would it be easy to have an open intimate relationship with a TG?? I'm at the point that I'd be willing and able to try it, but I already know on some level it would be HARD.

So, because I know this AND the girls equally know this, and they also know why this is the reality of the matter, ( societal pressures and character defects on my part), I tend to cut a girl slack on HA, as a rule.

BTW, all this crap should be self-explanatory.

[alyssaluxor]

OK, it may be a boring post. Just wanted to share my thoughts like everyone else on here. Sorry if I'm not as entertaining as Freddie, lol.

i dont find it boring at all actually very gentleman type of you to post this