Why do gay guys think they can have you if....

[Nowhere]

it's called wishful thinking. i get it all the time, even before i had ts friends.

Same here, and I am not involved with the community. They try with everyone, especially those more open-minded. And, I can't blame them, with all of the "straight" guys who aren't exactly that on the DL.

[goku]

Straight men seem to be more concerned than any other demographic about who's gay, if gay men are attracted to them, what a gay man might like about them, what technically makes someone gay, if they can be friends with someone who's gay, if they ever knew someone who came out as gay, if they were ever perceived as gay, ad nauseam.

Newsflash: No one else really gives a shit. lol

IT IS JUST A QUESTION......geez


I am just wondering why they get so aggressive after they find out that you are comfortable with transwomen. I am comfortable, I am just posing the question...lol

[Nicole Dupre]

If it's an individual you have to run across a lot and can't avoid..then you're just going to have to have that "serious" conversation with him so that he'll leave you the hell alone about it once and for all. There are annoying people like that in all walks of life...(including stalker GGs...lol)

Gay guys generally don't want to be seen as predatory by the straight world. Don't flatter yourselves. They can hang out in any gay meat market, and get all the dick and ass they want. Imo, you guys are simply intimidated by getting a taste of your own medicine.

But I don't think any man is as persistent, when they are clearly not getting a green light, as a tranny chaser. Why do guys who call escorts and say all the WRONG things over the phone, after you tell them you do NOT want to see them and/or you hang up on them, call back repeatedly like cuckoo clocks? If that's not pathetic and desperate, I don't know what is.

[Nicole Dupre]

IT IS JUST A QUESTION......geez


I am just wondering why they get so aggressive after they find out that you are comfortable with transwomen. I am comfortable, I am just posing the question...lol

But you're not the only one who's asking it. And this is a tranny forum. Exactly who were you even asking this question? Phobun? lol

I think some of the guys, who are so supposedly traumatized by a gay guy hitting on them, are actually delighted to discover that someone was even sexually attracted to them.

[goku]

Gay guys generally don't want to be seen as predatory by the straight world. Don't flatter yourselves. They can hang out in any gay meat market, and get all the dick and ass they want. Imo, you guys are simply intimidated by getting a taste of your own medicine.

But I don't think any man is as persistent, when they are clearly not getting a green light, as a tranny chaser. Why do guys who call escorts and say all the WRONG things over the phone, after you tell them you do NOT want to see them and/or you hang up on them, call back repeatedly like cuckoo clocks? If that's not pathetic and desperate, I don't know what is.

Never called to make an appointment with an escort, so I am not the one to ask. You are right about gay guys not wanting to seem predatory. However, once you become "cool" things change. These are people I have exchanged numbers with, who call and tell me what time we are playing, are on facebook with also. They had accepted me as just one of the straight guys who came up to the place to play(there are quite a few of us), but a few guys got aggressive when they found out I was willing to date a TS.

I don't think some of yall get it. I roll with anyone, and don't care what your sexual orientation is. There are cool people all over. Austin is cool like that. I loaded up a gang of gay guys in my 300, and we rolled to Austin's splash event which is held at hippie hollow(a nudist beach). When we got there, I saw my neighbor and his girlfriend there too(21 and 19), completely naked. lol

[fred41]

Why do guys who call escorts and say all the WRONG things over the phone, after you tell them you do NOT want to see them and/or you hang up on them, call back repeatedly like cuckoo clocks? If that's not pathetic and desperate, I don't know what is.

Well you know what THAT is...those guys are either jerking off over the phone or that is probably their ONLY means of socializing away from their computer ...or both....or the guys who simply INSIST that you'll understand what they mean if only you would see them (for free of course..).

[Nicole Dupre]

Never called to make an appointment with an escort, so I am not the one to ask. You are right about gay guys not wanting to seem predatory. However, once you become "cool" things change. These are people I have exchanged numbers with, who call and tell me what time we are playing, are on facebook with also. They had accepted me as just one of the straight guys who came up to the place to play(there are quite a few of us), but a few guys got aggressive when they found out I was willing to date a TS.

I don't think some of yall get it. I roll with anyone, and don't care what your sexual orientation is. There are cool people all over. Austin is cool like that. I loaded up a gang of gay guys in my 300, and we rolled to Austin's splash event which is held at hippie hollow(a nudist beach). When we got there, I saw my neighbor and his girlfriend there too(21 and 19), completely naked. lol

Good lord. lol Again, you must be taking it upon yourself to speak for someone, because I was still speaking in general terms. I'm not trying to infer anything about you, personally. lol If it was a rhetorical question, you don't have to own it, sweetheart. lol

[Nicole Dupre]

Well you know what THAT is...those guys are either jerking off over the phone or that is probably their ONLY means of socializing away from their computer ...or both....or the guys who simply INSIST that you'll understand what they mean if only you would see them (for free of course..).

I'm somewhat of a sexual sadist, so I suspect that a closet masochist's strong need for humiliation is also part of the equation. lol

[TsVanessa69]

i also noticed if you nice to a gay dude they start thinkin it's cause you want them....i really dont have a problem wit gay dudes but that dont mean i wanna mess wit them....my godfather who raised me because my biological father walked out when i wass young raised me....but he's not one of those faggoty types so i have more respect for him than most gay dudes .....

you are a homo freddy so why would you NOT like gay dudes.

[goku]

Good lord. lol Again, you must be taking it upon yourself to speak for someone, because I was still speaking in general terms. I'm not trying to infer anything about you, personally. lol If it was a rhetorical question, you don't have to own it, sweetheart. lol

gotcha babe.

Being the OP, I just assumed the responses were to me. Sorry, won't happen again. lol