Have you ever been caught?

[dderek123]

NO i haven't TOLD any other girl but i've been wanting really badly to tell one, prolly one of my lesbian girl friends (NOT lesbian GIRLFRIEND), you know, straight guys know lesbian girls whom they are friends with, and straight girls know gay guys whom they are friends with. Well, one of those. Just for the sake of sharing it with someone and having an intelligent conversation about it without feeling judged or mocked.

Sounds like you should let it all hang out if this is more than just a fetish. Or go make some new friends who are into the scene and will be supportive. Once you get it off your chest it will be a big weight off your shoulders. And then you can get on with it and go find the TS of your dreams. FYI, Most people don't care that much, usually people are too worried about themselves and their own interests to stop and think about what you do.

And, some people will be interested to discuss it with you. They will want to know more about why you feel the way you do and what it is like.

But there are always haters, but fuck them. There is always someone to criticize something and anything.

Do it!

[droog]

NO i haven't TOLD any other girl but i've been wanting really badly to tell one, prolly one of my lesbian girl friends (NOT lesbian GIRLFRIEND), you know, straight guys know lesbian girls whom they are friends with, and straight girls know gay guys whom they are friends with. Well, one of those. Just for the sake of sharing it with someone and having an intelligent conversation about it without feeling judged or mocked.

jedimaster... i like ts as well, but i like guys too, but only certain types. i'm not much into girls other than as friends. back in may i updated my facebook page to indicate to my friends that i was bi-sexual. before i did this is i was terrified/paranoid that people who didn't know would stop talking to me, but no one has said anything negative to me, in fact, some messaged me saying they already knew! i feel so much better about myself now and don't have to worry anymore about what i say/type or who i hang out with or where i hang out. if you have lesbian friends like you said, chances are they already know you are gay/bi if they know you at all. talk to the girl you trust most, if she is truly your friend then she will support you.


@dderek123: your avatar gave me a seizure.

[alpha2117]

One of my female freinds had a bad break up and I took her out for a night just to get her out having fun and we ended up in a club then one of my exes walks over and stickes her tongue half way down my throat. My freind had no idea I had gone out with a TS. She was cool with it though.

[dderek123]

jedimaster... i like ts as well, but i like guys too, but only certain types. i'm not much into girls other than as friends. back in may i updated my facebook page to indicate to my friends that i was bi-sexual. before i did this is i was terrified/paranoid that people who didn't know would stop talking to me, but no one has said anything negative to me, in fact, some messaged me saying they already knew! i feel so much better about myself now and don't have to worry anymore about what i say/type or who i hang out with or where i hang out. if you have lesbian friends like you said, chances are they already know you are gay/bi if they know you at all. talk to the girl you trust most, if she is truly your friend then she will support you.


@dderek123: your avatar gave me a seizure.

Rock on droog! I am slowly developing that network of friends over here in Thailand.

I think HA would be nice if we had threads like this more often. More supporting and less cutting remarks. Most "chasers" (don't like that term much even though it is accurate for a lot of people) are probably wanting to live their life in a way so that they can be free to pursue what makes them happy. Living a lie can eventually alienate you from everything and everyone. Best to get out there and keep it real as they say.

[jedimaster]

hey dderek123 and droog, thanks for the support!

well i'm not gay (ah that everlasting debate!), have less than zero interest in men, and absolutely ADORE women, mainly GGs and then TS. i don't think i'll ever stop lusting after (and generally admiring) Genetic women.

Nobody has a clue as far as i know. WHen i mentioned my lesbian friends it was pointing out a small segment of my "friend population" that i know wouldn't be judgemental of me.

Either way, tell or not, it's terrible to get caught by a GG whom you happen to have a relationship with: both of you will have a shitty time because of it, IF the girl does not understand your thing, and chances are she won't.

[pasta2000]

I still love almost everything about women, the curves, their smell, especially their shapely butts, their breast, not their bad attitudes(goes for men, women, TG, etc.) I became fascinated by TG woman approx. 1996 or so, when you get those gonzo mail order videos, and then I saw my first TG woman. Been fascinated by them ever since. Although I date exclusively GG's, I still have interest in TG's. I beat myself up sometimes thinking I have to make a decision, But I'm not married so I feel like I can do what I want, without intentionally hurting someone's feelings.

[droog]

@dderek123: your avatar gave me a seizure.

i was only kidding! you didn't have to go and change it!

[dderek123]

i was only kidding! you didn't have to go and change it!

no worries m8
ahhhh i see. a lot of the times i don't pick up well on sarcasm on internet message boards. maybe that could be the cause of the huge number of flame wars here...