Is she cheating - or am I just nuts...

[steviedresses]

I'm a 50 year old closet CD. (Have been since puberty) Married 2nd wife 8 years ago. Some would consider my facination with shemales and internet porn cheating... But I've never actually touched anybody else since we got engaged 10 years ago.

Anyway, my wife has given me reason to suspect she is cheating. Last week she said she had a meeting at work at 1 pm. (She works nights) It is a 20 minute drive so she left at 12:30. Before she left she made a point of telling me one of her co-workers was going with her to the meeting. She got a couple of text messages before she left and closed up her cell phone real quick without answering them. I call her at 3:35 and she is on her way home. I'm near home so we meet and have really good sex. She sucked my dick HARD!

She tells me the meeting was a bust so they went to a show. The movie was another 15 minutes away from her work so it is 35 minutes from the house. That's when I go huh? You left at 12:30, went to work, had a meeting , left, went to the show, and was on the way home in 3 hours? It is an hour round trip to the show, show was 1:45. This doesn't add up. So I checked the times: Show started at 1:15. It seems a stretch that she went to work, met with her boss, then decided to go to the show with another night shifter, not the orginal friend.

What does add up is she never went to work and just met someone at the show. Now why would she lie? Cause she is meeting someone she doesn't want me to know about. I asked her how the show was (The Last Exorism), she said she had her eyes close thru most of it.

I've caught her lying on many occasions. She can be a pathological liar. She doesn't do it to me too much cause she know I will catch her. She told a cop friend of our she passed a kidney stone when she went to the ER. I was with her, she never passed a stone. He is a fucking cop and started grilling me... I covered for her.

I think there is a 50% chance she has been seeing this guy on the side for years now. I've met him, I knows she likes him, and she admitted she stays in touch with him. Yet he is not in her address list on her phone. So I'm thinking she has hid him under a name I don't recognize and deletes all his messages. There has been other things, like finding a receipt from McDonalds with a list beside it... His name was on it. I say 'Went to McDonalds last night huh? She says she got so and so something but left him off. Another time she said she took half a night off work and went ghost hunting with him and his girlfriend. Only I saw the pictures, girlfriend was there, but they are not really a couple. And my dear wife was not dressed for work, she had on her cum fuck me clothes.

If anybody actually read this, thanks. I'm just venting. If I really want to know I just need to hire a private dick and have him tail her next time she says she is going to the movies with her friends.

[goku]

cheating..........hate to be the first to answer. When things don't add up.......

[PomonaCA]

She is cheating and you are nuts.

[youshouldtrythislol]

you say she is a pathological liar and you have caught her lying numerous times, i gotta ask, why do you keep putting up with it? personally, after the first lie, i would have kicked her to the curb. thats just me though.

[goku]

People will push you as far as you let them. If you don't handle the situation, she will eventually handle it for you. Stand up for yourself, and put your foot down. Just a thought.

[steviedresses]

Thanks guys. I knew I could count on the HA clientlle to set me straight. Guess I will catch her now and decide what to do.

[notdrunk]

People will push you as far as you let them. If you don't handle the situation, she will eventually handle it for you. Stand up for yourself, and put your foot down. Just a thought.

Or, turn into another Mel Gibson.

[steviedresses]

The problem is ... I love crossdressing and am continually dreaming about having sex with men. I catch myself looking at nice cocks at the gym.

I keep my chest shaved, just shaved my arm pits. My ass and scrotum I try to keep smooth, (but it is a pain in the ass!). And I trim my pubs. She knows damn good and well that I am cross-dressing. Or at least she should. I have been with men maybe 6 times in my life. (Though None since we got together.) Some of the experiences were OK. Some weren't.

We have a good sex life and she is a good fuck. But she won't let me go down on her anymore and I really miss that. We manage to fuck two to three times a week. We have 5 kids between us, she works nights, I work days, so fucking two to three times a week is good.

Anyway, if she is fucking someone else. I am almost inclined to let her, and start my own fucking around. I'm 50, nice ass. average cock. 6 feet, 190 pounds. Should post some picks so everyone can check me out. I'm not getting any younger, maybe now is the time.

[tsbrenda]

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[scubaman]

she is cheating and you are nuts.

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