Hate on HA

[giovanni_hotel]

It's simple, the board NEVER has been properly modded.

There should be a list of what is considered acceptable dialogue, warnings handed out, then weekly, monthly and permanent bans.

It's crazy how people talk to the girls on HA, and sometimes how the girls eviscerate T-admirers.

Whateva....enjoy your stay.
Shower thoroughly after you logoff.

[youshouldtrythislol]

It's simple, the board NEVER has been properly modded.

There should be a list of what is considered acceptable dialogue, warnings handed out, then weekly, monthly and permanent bans.

It's crazy how people talk to the girls on HA, and sometimes how the girls eviscerate T-admirers.

Whateva....enjoy your stay.
Shower thoroughly after you logoff.

This is what I was aiming for with this thread, a post that offers suggestions on ways to fix the problem if the poster saw a problem.

I agree, there should be stricter modding. It should cover everyone, the guys and the girls. There shouldnt be name calling between anyone, nor blatantly disrespectful comments towards anyone.

[PomonaCA]

This is what I was aiming for with this thread, a post that offers suggestions on ways to fix the problem if the poster saw a problem.

I agree, there should be stricter modding. It should cover everyone, the guys and the girls. There shouldnt be name calling between anyone, nor blatantly disrespectful comments towards anyone.

Wait wait wait. There's a fine line between properly modded and complete lock down. There are examples of both all over the internet. I'd prefer lighter moderation and everyone

A. Don't be a complete asshole.

B. Stop your fucking bitching and grow thicker skin.

Seriously, it takes 2. I don't need to know how hard it is to live your life and frankly, I don't give a shit. We all have hard lives in one area or another and sometimes 2 areas or more. What are we supposed to do? Pussy foot around? If that's what you want then heavy-handed moderation is the way to go.

[giovanni_hotel]

You definitely need a mod, PomonaCA.

You talk like you've been in lock down for 10 years.

[youshouldtrythislol]

Wait wait wait. There's a fine line between properly modded and complete lock down. There are examples of both all over the internet. I'd prefer lighter moderation and everyone

A. Don't be a complete asshole.

B. Stop your fucking bitching and grow thicker skin.

Seriously, it takes 2. I don't need to know how hard it is to live your life and frankly, I don't give a shit. We all have hard lives in one area or another and sometimes 2 areas or more. What are we supposed to do? Pussy foot around? If that's what you want then heavy-handed moderation is the way to go.

as far as rule 'a', some people wont abide by that sadly.
as for rule 'b' some people just dont have thick skin.
who says it has to be one extreme or the other for modding?
is it 'heavy modding' to take action in a thread with 20 + pages of namecalling?

[scroller]

as far as rule 'a', some people wont abide by that sadly.
as for rule 'b' some people just dont have thick skin.
who says it has to be one extreme or the other for modding?
is it 'heavy modding' to take action in a thread with 20 + pages of namecalling?

Comments:
(1) It's true that things used to be much, much worse -- the new boards' "ignore" feature really tamped down the flamefests.
(2) This thread itself is an excellent litmus test -- I just took the opportunity to "ignore" one of the promoters that lashed out at the thread for no good reason. If someone outright says they don't like men, who needs such dissonant negativity, eh?
(3) With regard to your last question -- it won't, can't, shan't, will not, won't ever, has never happened. There's simply no hope for it, so at some point you need to let that idea go.

[ELSAPO]

You know what I love the new boards. I post more I go to partys and hook up. Either way I am now more out and about.

[Caramel]

I don't think anything can be done about it, but you did hit the nail on the head with your first post/thread starter, youshouldtrythislol. It's bad, really bad to the point where the original purpose of this site is almost completely out of focus. It's just plain sad to see like the aftermath of a brutal crime scene. If you're looking for a site that celebrates the best of transsexuals and basically anyone who indentifies as a female on some level from the most closeted crossdresser or transvestite to the most celebrated transsexual and their admirers, this once once the place to enjoy that. But it's certainly not now. I don't know if moderation can fix the culture at this point. That would be a full time job. What eats me up is that Hung Angels started out with such positivity and it's unsettling to see so many people I look up to being drawn into the drama and negativity and their admirers turning into their worst haters, let alone the "Hung Angels" who've turned on each other like rabid dogs. I never thought I'd see this happen, but it did. I never thought that the infighting would go beyond taking it outside and exposing everything negative people had to say to each other in public but here we have it. This is the fighting arena now for all to see. I hope that Hung Angels will someday return to it's original purpose someday. But now, it's a trainwreck that even the most jaded can't turn their heads to look back at.

[giovanni_hotel]

Yeah Caramel, more often than now it turns into a square cage match, fight to the 'virtual' death.

[SunshyneMonroe]

Its gettin old to me fast...im about 3 sec from del my acct....im not into bs