are men who date transwomen gay?

[tsparisangelline]

The short answer is NO. Let me explain why men who date transsexuals are not gay. Firstly, it needs to be known that every man has their own likes and dislikes in terms of sexuality and emotional companionship. Many "straight" men are not as straight as they say they are, but that doesn't necessarily make them gay or bisexual. Just because society likes to label people with straight, gay or bisexual doesn't mean everyone fits into those categories. In the Transgender Dating world those terms don't always match up to reality.

Additonally, transgenderism has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

A lot of men will seek out transsexuals for dating and love because they feel that transsexuals are actually more feminine than genetic women. Yes, that is right....MORE feminine! Additionally, men find that genetic women have a lot of hangups in the bedroom department that they feel transsexuals do not have. While that may be true to some extent, it's not a hard and fast rule to live by. Transsexuals who were born in a male body, but have female brain chemistry and are truly women stuck in a man's body until they begin transitioning into a female outer appearance. However, it must be known that nobody should be judged solely on their outward appearance as their are many complicated circumstances that hinder the transitioning process, most of which come from society and financial barriers.

Everyone has a right to date whomever they want to without judgment, however that is just not where society or reality is at these days so I cannot stress enough the importance of living your life in a way that makes YOU happy without worrying about what your friends or neighbors will think.

While some men who date transsexuals may be bisexual, those men who are gay would not be in the slightest interested in dating someone who is NOT actually a man, but a transsexual who embodies everything that is beautiful in a woman.

It is also important to point out that not all transsexual male to female play an active role sexually with their male genitalia. In fact, many transsexuals do plan to have complete SRS (sexual reassignment surgery) at some point in their lives. Men should not approach transsexuals with the expectation that they will always have another penis in the relationship. Transsexuality is not a sexual fetish, but a gendor dismorphic disorder that stems from before birth. That is not to say that being transgender is a "bad" thing or mental illness, it simply is a fact of life which has not yet been fully embraced by most civilized countries.

In closing I applaud those men who are not afraid to say they prefer to date transsexuals and do not worry about what society will think. But please be aware that the greatest sacrifice is made by those who are transgendered and have to struggle with the constant abuse that society and ignorant men prey upon them.

[bat1]

hummm...don't think so

how is fuc%king guys in the ass make tgirls more feminine?

don't get me started...

[tsparisangelline]

hummm...don't think so

how is fuc%king guys in the ass make tgirls more feminine?

don't get me started...

huh? i do not comprehend what you are saying

[rockabilly]

I think he's asking what's feminine about a tgirl topping a guy.

[goku]

This is a question that I posed to myself on several occasions. First, let me tell my story.......

I was first interested in Transsexuals about 9 years ago. It was just something that I ran across on the internet, and I would occasionally add to my porn collection. Never acted upon it in real life. Well, about 4 years ago, my then girlfriend came upon my TS porn. She was furious, and immediately questioned my sexual orientation, something I had never thought about up until that point.

We made an attempt to resume our relationship, but she would always make jokes about it whenever she got angry. She also kept saying that I should investigate my interest. Needless to say, we eventually broke up for other reasons, and it got ugly. In an effort to hurt me for calling it quits, she outed me to her friends, and any people I knew that she could get her hands on, including my mom.

Let me clarify, I don't consider myself gay as I don't enjoy the male form one bit. Muscles and mustaches do absolutely nothing for me. I am not in any shape or form feminine. I am a typical 6'2 200lb guy. I enjoy everything about the female form. The softness, shape, clothing, perfume, hair, and everything else associated with females.

As stated, the whole TS thing started as a fetish for me, but since then I have actually realized that I am not afraid. Hell, anybody I actually care about already knows anyway!

What I don't get, being a guy not really in the whole scene, is the fighting that goes on between TS women and men who are interested. Maybe I am a little naive about the whole thing but, shouldn't a girl be happy that guys are accepting of them? What's with all the calling guys gay and all that?

[Jericho]

Yes...No...Maybe!

[tsparisangelline]

This is a question that I posed to myself on several occasions. First, let me tell my story.......

I was first interested in Transsexuals about 9 years ago. It was just something that I ran across on the internet, and I would occasionally add to my porn collection. Never acted upon it in real life. Well, about 4 years ago, my then girlfriend came upon my TS porn. She was furious, and immediately questioned my sexual orientation, something I had never thought about up until that point.

We made an attempt to resume our relationship, but she would always make jokes about it whenever she got angry. She also kept saying that I should investigate my interest. Needless to say, we eventually broke up for other reasons, and it got ugly. In an effort to hurt me for calling it quits, she outed me to her friends, and any people I knew that she could get her hands on, including my mom.

Let me clarify, I don't consider myself gay as I don't enjoy the male form one bit. Muscles and mustaches do absolutely nothing for me. I am not in any shape or form feminine. I am a typical 6'2 200lb guy. I enjoy everything about the female form. The softness, shape, clothing, perfume, hair, and everything else associated with females.

As stated, the whole TS thing started as a fetish for me, but since then I have actually realized that I am not afraid. Hell, anybody I actually care about already knows anyway!

What I don't get, being a guy not really in the whole scene, is the fighting that goes on between TS women and men who are interested. Maybe I am a little naive about the whole thing but, shouldn't a girl be happy that guys are accepting of them? What's with all the calling guys gay and all that?

i actually posted this so i could use it on another site

but i want it from a tgirl lovers opinion not the gay boys

do u mind if i post it?

i wont say hung angels or your screename

[goku]

i actually posted this so i could use it on another site

but i want it from a tgirl lovers opinion not the gay boys

do u mind if i post it?

i wont say hung angels or your screename

No problem, and I appreciate you asking first. You surprise me more and more everyday Ms Paris.

[tsparisangelline]

No problem, and I appreciate you asking first. You surprise me more and more everyday Ms Paris.

lol and why is that?

[goku]

lol and why is that?

You could have posted it without asking. The fact that you asked first tells a lot about who you are as a person.