Real life scenarios..

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

This goes out to everyone..man, ts/tg/tv etc..

Question?..

Scenario: Say you have a brother, son, father, uncle, cousin, close friend etc. (whatever the case maybe)..Who one day told you he wanted to be a transexual..Would you:

A. Be tolerant and supportive of him?

B. Disapprove of it. Disown and frown upon him?

~HTG

[BeardedOne]

Jeez, Ms. Hara, you do come up with the ballbusters, don'tcha?

My answer would definitely be A: Tolerant and supportive, but you know it's just too easy an answer.

I've already been in a handful of scenarios just like this, but in every case I was already an outside observer (None were immediate family members) so about all I was able to do was provide a good ear, a dry shoulder, and make some attempt at giving good advice. In two of these scenarios I was stuck trying to do all of the above without screwing up from the fact that I had an emotional/sexual attraction to the individuals in question.

Sometimes, there's only one good answer: Get another cat. >^..^<

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Jeez, Ms. Hara, you do come up with the ballbusters, don'tcha?

LOL. Well real life is more interesting to discuss than being stuck arguing with people and most especially online. So why not talk about real life, right?

My answer would definitely be A: Tolerant and supportive, but you know it's just too easy an answer.

I've already been in a handful of scenarios just like this, but in every case I was already an outside observer (None were immediate family members) so about all I was able to do was provide a good ear, a dry shoulder, and make some attempt at giving good advice.

Good answer BeardedOne.

In two of these scenarios I was stuck trying to do all of the above without screwing up from the fact that I had an emotional/sexual attraction to the individuals in question.

Haha! Interesting..I guess thats quite a dilemma..providing an ear, a shoulder and talk some sense all the while having attraction for the person.

~Kisses.

HTG

[slinky]

Does he have nice tits and a big dick?

[Ecstatic]

The easy (and true) answer is that I would be supportive and would never be disapproving. However, if it were someone that close to me, who had previously not demonstrated this identification, I would most definitely want to disucss the ramifications with hir (deliberately selected pronoun there), and quite probably with a therapist, to be certain that this is an appropriate decision. But yes, I would definitely support hir choice.

[ezed]

I would say, have you thought about it, if so I wish you the best. By the way, you're still playing hockey aren't you? and drinking beers?

ya gotta do what's right for you, and fuck the critics!

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

ya gotta do what's right for you, and fuck the critics!

I agree.

LOL@you're still playing hockey aren't you? and drinking beers?

~Kisses.

HTG

[ezed]

ya gotta do what's right for you, and fuck the critics!

I agree.

LOL@you're still playing hockey aren't you? and drinking beers?

~Kisses.

HTG

Yes I am love! And enjoying every minute!

[roy404]

Wish them luck. Support them and most of all make sure they are sure of their decision. Oh yes and protect them from the freaks and haters out there the best I could

[Chica]

probably not the best areas to get a populative decision... i'd guess that everyone would support... however real life is different, my dad and brother don't approve, im guessing im not the only one either