DATing a tgirl. help!

[Ryz]

thats the best way to have them that way no other women is tryin to take ur man lol and there alot less to cheat

lmao if he can spend money on her in the first place. Why can't he just spend it on another girl :P

[SunshyneMonroe]

lmao if he can spend money on her in the first place. Why can't he just spend it on another girl :P

Cuz he likes her meany...........lol

[russtafa]

theres a few using sluts in this world =avoid them like the plague or it will fuck you up for a very long time

[Stoked]

omg did he say something mean to me lol i dont even see....lmao

You are correct Sunshyne, I didnt reference anything towards you...

I believe IsuckTgirlCock is trying to make himself appear better by putting someone else down. Maybe his name should read IsuckUPtoTgirlCock.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

Sunshyne, no, I said Id take u up on the offer to be your bf..........didnt put u down anywhere , I was referring to that moron, whos now on ignore, named "stoked".........Im actually disgusted your name and his are actually mentioned in the same post, it dirtys yours in a way.
The tgirl in question....and my whole dilema with her is the fact that she promises to be my girlfriend when we get the place. So shes holding out the sex because she thinks...1) that ill lose interest or 2) that im just saying ill let her live w me to use her for sex then get rid of her, but again thats insane because id just pay her for sex and be done w that, if that was the case.....is she gunna give it up when we move in is the biggest question? as time passes its looking that way, shes really starting to open up more . When we go shopping she doesnt look to spend money for the sake of it, and doesnt get upset if i say no, and the biggest plus is she doesnt have high class tastes that my former gfs have had.
as far as me being old and ugly, thats not the case...im not that old, 41...though shes 22. and i dont look that old so its not a strange scene when were in public. im clean cut 6'3 235lbs and dress nice. no problems with regular girls...only Tgirls !

[IsuckTgirlCock]

[QUOTE=FIRSTTIMER;776594]I see some good points being said here.

Something that I get out of this is that you seem a little too excited to get with this girl in the "sack" and I think that taking a moment and breath to just take your time you may get her.And if you do things in a more timely manner you just may get her for a good long term.(100% the plan, yes!)
Also,another thing to look at is how this girls "way" is.How is she around you.Does she know that if you go to the mall and she knows that if she asks for something that you will buy it for her because she knows you are just too happy to be around her.

Some girls take advantage and some don't.Does she seem like the one who does?(no she really doesnt take advantage, Id be done w her if she did)

Another thing is why if you asked her to move in with you but if she doesn't give up that ass that she needs to pack up and get the fuck out?(right, shes out the door if she doesnt, with my foot in her ass! Id be so fuming pissed off and hurt)

I mean if you are her friend,than be her friend.Right now it doesn't look like either one of you are friends with each other.(Im def her friend, shes mine too, but how deep that goes only time will tell)[/QUOTE]

thanks for the responses

[kyoJecours]

dude i'm reading your posts and i'm not even surprised you're getting played. man up and grow a pair. your 'gf' has bigger balls than you... probably in more ways than one. i'd say she's withholding sex to gain your trust and make you believe she wants something long term. then she'll be living at your place rent free and you'll be buying her shit and paying for her to do whatever she wants... and she'll probably still fuck other guys. 'gold digger' and 'sugar daddy' spring to mind. i'm sorry if that's brutal but she's taking you for a ride and you're a mug if you sit there and let her do it just because you want to get your dick wet.

[Amoore]

I'm in a similar situation at the moment, yet different.
Met a wonderful girl some months ago as she was working in my area, I met her for a date, meaning I didnt see her as a client or anything. We had great fun and began dating, she was very clear she didnt want me to pay for her and that she was independant, wich I really liked about her.
The whole thing wasnt even about sex for me, she was even the one to make the first move in that direction. Now she left this area, we kept talking and everything was ok, I was even planning to move to a place close to where she's at.
But just a couple of days ago she tells me she needs "time" and is now ignoring me completely. Can anyone tell me what thats about?

And for the record, I'm straight, top or whatever you want to call it. I never did her anything wrong and she wont even explain the situation.

sorry for stealing your thread btw

[Jericho]

thats the best way to have them that way no other women is tryin to take ur man lol and there alot less to cheat

Kewl..Sounds like i'm in!

[talon]

I'm not sure if you're actually "dating a tgirl" at this point, sounds more like you're listening to a bunch of promises from someone who is not at all into you or she'd be screwing you, but she does need a place to stay so she's keeping her options open...