Alot of you guys are mistaking passable with beautiful.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

We all know there are different tastes for everyone- so this post is not about being critical. It's about a truth that many of you are mixing up.
Being passable has nothing to do with being beautiful. They are two states that can be mutually exclusive- or if you are lucky combined.

We tend to forget that there are many mediocore or unattractive women in the world. Certain transsexuals, can blend very well into society and be extremely passable, and not be beautiful. Of ocurse a girl can be paasable and beautiful, there is no doubt- but transsexuality nor surgery is a gaurantee of being either.

Then comes the end of the other spectrum. There are many beautiful transsexuals who might not necesseraily be as "passable". I know many girls who are beautiful, but you can tell they are transsexuals. They can be striking, just plain beautiful- but this garnishes a degree of attention and one can quickly realize that is indeed not a "real" woman. In fact, most of the transsexuals who tend to fool me, tend to be the most "plain jane" looking girls. Girls you would not look at twice, but they blend in so well, they look like an every day woman.

As a personal prefference, given the choice, I'd rather be beautiful or striking than "passable". Maybe that has to do with growing up feeling ugly? But, I think if one is comfortable with oneself, and lives her life happily to her own aesthetic desires then she can be satisfied and you then you let all those worries go. Some girls just want to blend in and look unnoticible. Still, there are certain people and places who will always clock you. That is just life. We are not talking cross dresser here- or an obviously bad attempt to look like a woman. I don't care who you are- you are bound to get spooked on occassion.

Alot of men expect ALL transsexuals to be beautiful or passable and that is impossible. Just as there are fat,skinny, short, tall, unattractive, ok looking, and beautiful women- you will find the same spectrum with men and in transsexuals. I just think the difference is that most transsexuals strive to be beautiful or passable- but you are dealing with genetics and surgeons are not magicians and everyone has certain limitations. I often find it funny when someone says- oh her hands are too big, her feet-, well yes I feel bad for a girl who has to wear a size 13 shoe but she can't do anything about it. There are a lot of women with big feet- there are shoe sites on the net especially designed for women with larget feet. These products are all made and marketed TO WOMEN.

I certainly do not find every man I see personally attrective- so why should you expect the same from transsexuals? I think this has to do with they myth that we are all beatiful and well hung.

Sopeaking from experience, I can tell you that a lot of men have varied taste in transsexuals. I have seen guys at the parties trying to talk the prettiest of the girls there and then to a drag queen next. I don't know if they are horny, or what have you, but it goes to show you that THERE IS SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE.

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[Lavonne]

Bauty is 100% in the eye of the beholder, passable is also in the eye of the beholder to some extent. We all see what we want to see and tend to block out that which we would rather not see. But I agree that beautiful does not necessarily mean passable and of course you dont have to be beautiful to pass as a woman. Look around you every day, how many women do you see that you would truly classify as beautiful?

[BeardedOne]

Nice post, Allanah. We do all need a touch of reality sometimes.

I think my fave T-girl is absolutely gorgeous. Nice eyes, infectious smile, and extra parts to die for. But I don't think she'd qualify as 'passable' with feet larger than mine and hands the size of tennis raquets (And I think she's taller than I am, but we've mostly been seated when we spend time together).

It could be said that she's the lucky pairing of beauty and passabilty, but the beautiful part is certainly heading this race, and that works for me.

[MoonAndStar]

a very down to earth post allanah.... considering the amount of shit thrown about on this board its good to see some posts still actually make some kind of point.....

and by the way you are striking, beautiful and VERY passable..... in a word you are stunning..... but hey thats just my opinion......

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

With all due respect as I stated in an earlier thread not all but many of the uglier tgirls act fucked up, and I don't think it's them being themselves, I think it's the influence of narcotics and/or alcohol............... but I will be honest I do know some boogawolfs/dragonbreath broads I see weekly both gg/& tg that have nice personalities

I apologize if I offended any boogawolfs out there, just speaking my mind............

[MoonAndStar]

With all due respect as I stated in an earlier thread not all but many of the uglier tgirls act fucked up, and I don't think it's them being themselves, I think it's the influence of narcotics and/or alcohol............... but I will be honest I do know some boogawolfs/dragonbreath broads I see weekly both gg/& tg that have nice personalities

I apologize if I offended any boogawolfs out there, just speaking my mind............

that last sentnce crack me up...... oh shit...... LMFAO!!!!!!!

[McRen]

I have to agree. Many of the pictures posted here are followed by a lot of guys saying 'beautiful!', and im thinking 'manly'. I'm more attracted to a more naturally looking femenine body than the perfect barbi doll (which just might be alannah! lol). Natural breasts or seemingly natural ones are a big turnon for me


On a serious note, I feel bad when I see some beautiful girls that are all scarred up. Patricia Aruajo was sooo hot when I first saw her in a video, but then I saw a later one and saw hoooorible scarring on her chest, and noticed scars on her nose. Made me realize what she has done to look like she does, and feel bad for her that she had to do those things. I'd hope things are better for you girls in North America than in Brazil.

[Ecstatic]

Boogawolf...never heard that one before.

Allanah, you are of course quite right. The most passable tgirl I've had the pleasure of being with, named Kayla, is not the most beautiful (though she is beautiful), and the most beautiful (ok, maybe 3 or 4 could tie for this title) are not fully passable (though they would fool 9 out of 10 on Maury). That most passable girl is so utterly female that, the first time I was with her, I was honestly reluctant to reach down there because I thought she might not be a TS at all. Her voice is totally fem, the most convincingly feminine voice of any TS I've met. All hormonal, no implants, lovely soft 32Bs. And her attitude: as giggly and bouncy as a high school cheerleader.

Yes, she is beautiful, so she qualifies for that rarer combination you mention, but other girls are far more striking without being quite so passable. And some girls as you say are not beautiful, but you'd never "clock" them no matter how "good" your eye (well, I doubt seanchai is fooled very often).

[Dkg]

I would rather be passable than pretty........

I would rather look like a regular girl than look like a made up transy wit big boobs and loads of makeup.Maybe that sounds strange but I feel as though looking real is more important than being pretty.Its about survival in this lifestyle.Especially for the girls that dont escort.Pretty isnt going to get you a job if they can still clock you are a tranny.Pretty isnt going to protect you from the boys on the block when you walk by.Its about being real and being able to blend.Thats my goal.I dont want to be flawless absolute beauty like most transexuals.I just want to look like real tuna so when I walk into a womens bathroom they dont call the police on me.Me being passable is my survival, its my sheild.It allows me to work a daytime job at wal-mart. and it aloows me to survive.Even if I was a ugly tranny I wouldnt care just as long as u cant clock I got a dick im fine.

you have a good point.
And yea, I'd rather have a passable ts as a gf/wife than one that isn't. Whether shes "homely" or cute/pretty/beautiful it doesn't matter. Just as long as she doesn't look like a guy with a dress (so to speak).