Married men and ts, what would wives say??

[TsVanessa69]

This dude was NOT a client.
He would come to my house and we would hang out for HOURS!!
He took pics fucking me, we went out to eat and everything.
How could a wife not miss her man.
Then you guys bitch and moan about us charging money for our time.
Thats all we get is money.
Back to business for me! EVERYBODY is now suspect.
Even dude who makes those posts about bein a Jersey boy.

[TsVanessa69]

Is it surprising??

IF you've NEVER been to his place, even for a quick 5 minutes to pick something up, that's all you need to know.

Currently I'm not in a LTR or married, but if I were, yeah, I imagine I'd be shady about how I handled my business too.

I'd like to think at least if a girl asked was I married, I'd be capable of being upfront with her and not lie about it.

Anyway Vanessa, seriously, for THREE fuccing years you were messing with dude and had no clue how he lived his life the other 23 hours in a day!!??

Sure, to a degree, that's on him. But partly that's on you too, Vanessa.

It's like, if I feel that under less formal circumstances a girl and I could have a more conventional relationship, unless she quits escorting, I have to put our emotional/physical connection in perspective.

Just because there's a cash exchange doesn't mean whatever goes down never gets beyond the 'money' every single time, it's just that some girls can't help but give up a very personal, intimate part of themselves whenever they're seeing a client.

Really, certain girls aren't really capable of purely 'casual sex'. Which I totally love, but it sort of conflicts with the reality of the situation.

Sorry that dude wasn't real about his situation, but three years is a LONG time to not know about someone.

He was not a client.
He was a fuck buddy/friend.
We hung out, he even told me about orgys and sex party he was going to and how would I feel going to one and being the only ts.
stuff like that.
When he wasnt at my house, we either talked online or text.

[sucka4chix]

How did you find out that he's married on a TS dating site?? Have you verified this? I'm just saying----maybe there's a legitimate explanation. Probably not, but maybe.

[TsVanessa69]

How did you find out that he's married on a TS dating site?? Have you verified this? I'm just saying----maybe there's a legitimate explanation. Probably not, but maybe.

The wording of the ad:
I am married so I have to be discreet.

Now what did that sentence say to you?

[TsVanessa69]

What does this excert from his ad tell you:

Hello im a 27 yr old Latino male. Five ten. One ninety pounds. Big bubble butt and an eight inch uncut thick cock.

I am a straight male however I really enjoy 3somes and more-somes. I am married so I need discretion and you would have to host. Like I said, i love group play, the kinkier the better and the safer the better. There is not much that I am not into. I will try anything as lonmg as it is safe, I love role play amd even a lil pain. I am open to just about anything you can come up with.

I love orgies as well as gangbangs. Please be open minded, sane and of course d and d free.

[sucka4chix]

Not NECESSARILY proof of anything, except the persona he wants to project in the ad. Could be married OR could just prefer people think he is.

[bte]

So I have this play buddy.
Young guy, we had alot of fun, even he did pics with me to use on my site, yet I found out on accident on a ts dating site,
HE IS MARRIED!
Wow, he lied to me over 3 years.
we played long periods of time, all hours of the day and night.
WTF!!!!!!
Wonder how his wife would feel?

She would probably feel hurt.

[bte]

This dude was NOT a client.
He would come to my house and we would hang out for HOURS!!
He took pics fucking me, we went out to eat and everything.
How could a wife not miss her man.
Then you guys bitch and moan about us charging money for our time.
Thats all we get is money.
Back to business for me! EVERYBODY is now suspect.
Even dude who makes those posts about bein a Jersey boy.

Maybe he told his wife that he had to work, but he went to go see you.

Maybe he told his wife that he was hanging out with his friends (which was true because he was hanging out with you).

I can understand how you must be mad. The guy not only lied to you, but to his wife as well. Who knows what else he must have been lying about.

[alyssaluxor]

i really couldnt understand why most guys lie so much? why please? could you tell/explain to me? why cant be honest?

its really getting tiring! ive always been very honest so i really cant relate to BS lol

kisses
Alyssa Luxor

[bte]

Because telling a lie is so much easier than telling the truth.