"why most hungangels (in general) don't find brothas attract

[Porndog]

dj4monie touched on this in his last post, it's something a lot of people have mentioned. I know I've seen it. There's certain girls (read: ESCORTS) who will tell you right away on the phone "I don't date black guys".
Once when a couple of us guys here at HungAngels were out at a club, a girl actually asked if another staff member "was Dominican or Cuban because Black Guys are a No-No".
Maybe someone can chime in on this (and for the record 1) I'm not Black and 2) I lied and told her that he was Dominican. He had the most priceless look on his face when she kept asking him to speak spanish)

[dj4monie]

LOL! That's one of the funniest things I have heard. I do find that kinda strange that most white and asian T's just don't dig brothas. The more I think about, this came to mind -

Maybe they feel an interacial relationship attracts too much attention and they feel people will look at them "closer". Esp if the lady in question doesn't feel 100% "passable" in public, even thou in most cases she wouldn't be "detected" by the avg joe/jane.

But another thing I see is more than a few brothas down at 7669 (Peanuts) and gurls talking to them. So I dunno, the only T I have dated was white and she didn't have an issue with it one bit. I also know of another T that likes black men, but what both of these girls have in common is that they are NOT in the "industry".

I would really like to see some ladies comment on this.

* I will add some white, asian and latina T's do find me attractive, but I will admit they are less than stellar in most cases. My standards are not too high, I would just like to be seen in public every once in awhile. If I wanted to keep it behind closed doors, I would just continue f**kin BiTV's (which I really hate doing) to get my TG fix.

Im starting to wonder if I should in fact "pay for it". Funny that I would get turned down by most escorts too. Just doesn't pay to be a brotha I suppose...

[thanos]

Each person is entitled to their own opinion and there is no accounting for taste. It seems like the actions of a few fuck things up for the majority of you.

I asked a couple of "tgirl-friends" of mine about Black Men. A few flat out said "No way", and listed a couple of reasons that seem racist IMO.

I'm probably not the best to answer this question, but maybe an article about this would be good......

[dj4monie]

I story would be great, if gurls were willing to sit down, give a name (fake works also) and just break it down for us.

I was wondering around Queen Mary tonight. More than a few gurls on "duty". I always thought that the management looked down on that. Dj was BAD, playing the same shhh, he played last week, when I came by. I asked about djin there over a year ago. I'm going to talk to him this Friday.

Anyway, I was TRYING to make eye contact with "Paige" aka "Payton" this month (lol). She's a beautiful woman. I tried to my best and I know she saw me, guess just wasn't interested.

Too man "guys" in QM now days. Guess the gurls can afford to be "picky" like other women.

Somebody should really do a story on interracial dating in the TG world. So some of us brothas can get some 411.

I have seen this type of discussion elsewhere and always said why should tgirls be any different than the general populace. It does not surprise me, but you would think that the discrimination that most tgirls receieve would make them more empathetic to Af/AM. That being said, I am black and have visited several tgirls and have had only one say something but we did do the deed. It's like anything else in life if that one doesn't work there is always another right around the corner, so I don't let that stuff bother me too much. Their loss not mine. Now some of us brothers have given many the bad rap by trying not to pay, bargin the girls down, being abusive, and stuff like that, so some of the girls probably have had a bad experience. To me they should just screen each guy individually and not blanketly reject some of us hot, hung and true admirers and lovers of tgirls. "Can't we all just get along"........

[dj4monie]

Good Post...

Couldn't agree with you more.

It's tempting to "pay" for it now. Just to make sure I get what I want instead of another closet CD/TV just to get my TG fix once in awhile.

Been looking at the review sites and settled on a few ladies. Any suggestions? I'm tired of going to QM alone and don't want to wade through the "working girls" at Peanuts. Not much choice now.

I just stick to the fine as sista and latina tranzs. That's where I spend my money and time with. I avoid a lot of hassle this way. I am a black man pretty new to the game but I am no fool. If a white tranz stepped to me at a club or something, I will holla back, see what see is like. But as far as escorts, no way. Time is money. I think an escort should put in ther add if they don't do 'certain' people. That way 'certain' people can look elsewhere.

word, I have a bad case of yellow fever meaning I love the Asian women. Its really fucked up when I'm trying to hookup with one and they tell you straight out that they don't "date Black men". I'm not a cheap ass, I got doe and have no problem spending to get what I want. But it seems that a few bad experiences have fucked it up for the rest of us.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

moderator's note

this thread is WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY before my tenure on HA but I gotta say that I used to think this was true. Now in '05 you'd be amazed how these broads throw themselves at a man regardless of his nationality at the parties.......................

[ANIYAH]

This Subject has been ouch on on several occasions ...

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..
3.Black men will Rob or rape you

All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

Hung angel who loves black men ^^^^^^^^^^^