Why don't all men like tgirls?

[TomSelis]

I started thinking about this and it seems that from my point of view, if a man likes tgirls, its an advantage.

Think of this. Lets say you a normal guy with this hot beautiful lady with a nice personality. And you have been dating sometime. So finally you decide to be intimate and you reach down and feel something hard. You think to yourself "either she is so excited that her vagina has turned hard and is coming out or she has a penis."

Now two possiblities here

1. The man who likes tgirls thinks "well what the fuck does it matter, I like this lady and she is my potential soulmate so whether that is a really turned on vagina or a penis, I still going to have a good time. I am going to take advantage of the situation and not ruin it."

2. The man who does not like tgirl thinks "oh shit, this is the end I can't see this lady anymore, but she is really beautiful and nice. But hey that penis is getting in my way from having a good time. So I just wasted all those dinners, money, and good times and I got nothing out of it."

Situation 2, what a fuckin waste. He is really fucked. Its like you invested your money in a stock that goes bankrupt. And why? Because he is not a man enough to stand up to the penis. He is not a man enough to say "look penis fuck you, I will not let you stand in the way of my happiness and desires." I mean having a penis doesn't take away the fact that she is beautiful and nice.

So the way I see it, a man who likes tgirls who finds a very nice beautiful girl has a better chance to find a wonderful relationship with that girl versus the one who doesn't because you never know if the woman you are with is a gg or tgirl until you actually have sex.

So why would a man choose to limit his chances? It doesn't make sense.

Here's the thing. People like different things, that's just how people are. There's no advantage or disadvantage to liking what you like.

There are definitely more than two possibilities here. You saying there's two possibilities is like a tgirl saying either 1) A guy that likes me is a freaky trick/fag 2) A guy that likes me, but doesn't know likes me for me so that's ok.

You left a lot of room in there for variation.

What about guys that only date asian women? Is a man that will date women of every race better off? Ideally, yes. Realistically, no. It's not all about what you're open to, it's about the choices you make. What happens when you meet a really nice girl and she's a crackhead?

See the board. There's guys that only talk about a girl's dick and being fucked by them. There's girls that secretly or openly think that guys that are interested in them are "chasers" or "fags."

Now, suppose you, a guy who's open to dating/being with both T-girls or GG's meet a nice T-girl. You don't know she's a T-girl until you both get naked. Of course you're fine with it, but what if she was expecting a "Crying Game" type of reaction? Now she thinks, you've done this before, you're no fun, where's the drama?

There's just a broad spectrum of things and possibilities you missed out on. It's not as simple as either/or and it never is.

[Izzy]

First let me say that I like T-Girls and I like GG girls...

But I think it would be wrong for the girl to not let the guy know that she is not a GG... I'm not saying she should have to walk down the street with a sign on her head, but...

As stated in the original post, if a guy were to find out that the girls has
a cock by just feeling down there... Not only is that wrong (the T-Girl should have found the oppertuned time somewhere along the line to tell her new love interest that she was transgendered).

This is real life, not the "Crying Game" movie, a guy not into it could really freak out and, I would think that could possibly lead to her getting herself hurt...

We don't live in a perfect world... :0(

[tsntx]

diff' strokes for diff' folks

[brickcitybrother]

Ok, too much focus on red herring. Advantage? Do you mean like the concept that bi-sexuals have twice as dating possibilities? I'm not so sure you're looking at this clearly... the world of possibilities is set by each individual. A guy that likes only GG's is not losing out, since he is not into Trans females, they are not on his list of possibilities.

[TomSelis]

Ok, too much focus on red herring. Advantage? Do you mean like the concept that bi-sexuals have twice as dating possibilities? I'm not so sure you're looking at this clearly... the world of possibilities is set by each individual. A guy that likes only GG's is not losing out, since he is not into Trans females, they are not on his list of possibilities.

Well, put my Brick City Brother!

[lar336]

Ok, too much focus on red herring. Advantage? Do you mean like the concept that bi-sexuals have twice as dating possibilities? I'm not so sure you're looking at this clearly... the world of possibilities is set by each individual. A guy that likes only GG's is not losing out, since he is not into Trans females, they are not on his list of possibilities.

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This is different. Because in the sense of a bisexual, if you aren't attracted to men, will then it doesn't matter of its increases your dating possibilities. Physical attraction is inborn in a sense.

So lets say there is this beautiful tgirl and she is very passable. She walks into this bar and a lot of guys will be attracted to her eventhrough she is a tgirl because the guys don't know that for the most part. That is why this situation is different. Because whether a guy is straight or likes tgirls, he is still attracted to beautiful women, whether they are gg or tgirls. Now if you were to tell a straight guy, yes she is beautiful, but she is a tgirl, all the sudden he freaks out. But what has really changed here? I mean he still is physically attracted to her.

[lar336]

What about guys that only date asian women? Is a man that will date women of every race better off? Ideally, yes. Realistically, no. It's not all about what you're open to, it's about the choices you make. What happens when you meet a really nice girl and she's a crackhead?

Again this is a different situation. A man looks at a asian woman and knows she is asian. He may not be physically attracted to other races. And that is why he prefers to date asian women. The idea here is not because of more chances or more possiblities. Just simply that a straight man can look at a tgirl who is beautiful and be physically attracted to her, yet will not be with her just because of a penis.

[Brideshead]

What about guys that only date asian women? Is a man that will date women of every race better off? Ideally, yes. Realistically, no. It's not all about what you're open to, it's about the choices you make. What happens when you meet a really nice girl and she's a crackhead?

Again this is a different situation. A man looks at a asian woman and knows she is asian. He may not be physically attracted to other races. And that is why he prefers to date asian women. The idea here is not because of more chances or more possiblities. Just simply that a straight man can look at a tgirl who is beautiful and be physically attracted to her, yet will not be with her just because of a penis.

Too much of this discussion is being spent on the penis. For some, it is an issue, and for others, it's not.

[Buddy Wood]

What about guys that only date asian women? Is a man that will date women of every race better off? Ideally, yes. Realistically, no. It's not all about what you're open to, it's about the choices you make. What happens when you meet a really nice girl and she's a crackhead?

Again this is a different situation. A man looks at a asian woman and knows she is asian. He may not be physically attracted to other races. And that is why he prefers to date asian women. The idea here is not because of more chances or more possiblities. Just simply that a straight man can look at a tgirl who is beautiful and be physically attracted to her, yet will not be with her just because of a penis.

I hear exactly what you're saying. We're all cooler people because to us it doesn't make a difference. Seriously. Their loss our gain. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman - vagina or penis. It's all about the ass anyway. After personality and intellect of course. There's been plenty of times where I'm with a beautiful t-girl out somewhere and every guy (and most of the girls too) are totally checking her out. Not because she's a transsexual but because she's beautiful. Sometimes some may suspect something - but I guarantee you it's fucking with their heads if they do and I love that. Immediate infatuation and maybe some guilt (if ther suspect ) in the faces of the men and jealousy in the faces of the girls. I was at a restaurant recently with Carmen Cruz (not dropping names - I'm just a humble pornographer) and I swear the couple at the table next to us broke up during dinner because he was checking her out so much. She could have pulled out her cock right there and I think he would have gladly given his first bj.

Bottom line - those of us that are into transexuals have a unique and far more open and diverse view on sexuality and sexuality my friends is a big part of life. It's a viewpoint that I'm actually very proud of.

Buddy Wood

[lar336]

Again this is a different situation. A man looks at a asian woman and knows she is asian. He may not be physically attracted to other races. And that is why he prefers to date asian women. The idea here is not because of more chances or more possiblities. Just simply that a straight man can look at a tgirl who is beautiful and be physically attracted to her, yet will not be with her just because of a penis.

I hear exactly what you're saying. We're all cooler people because to us it doesn't make a difference. Seriously. Their loss our gain. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman - vagina or penis. It's all about the ass anyway. After personality and intellect of course. There's been plenty of times where I'm with a beautiful t-girl out somewhere and every guy (and most of the girls too) are totally checking her out. Not because she's a transsexual but because she's beautiful. Sometimes some may suspect something - but I guarantee you it's fucking with their heads if they do and I love that. Immediate infatuation and maybe some guilt (if ther suspect ) in the faces of the men and jealousy in the faces of the girls. I was at a restaurant recently with Carmen Cruz (not dropping names - I'm just a humble pornographer) and I swear the couple at the table next to us broke up during dinner because he was checking her out so much. She could have pulled out her cock right there and I think he would have gladly given his first bj.

Bottom line - those of us that are into transexuals have a unique and far more open and diverse view on sexuality and sexuality my friends is a big part of life. It's a viewpoint that I'm actually very proud of.

Buddy Wood[/quote]

I know that is totally cool when like you are with someone that everyone is checking out. You know what I wonder through, but this is a bit off topic, in the days when I used to date, a lot of girls and tgirls would tell me that their boyfriend would get mad and jealous when others check them out. I don't know, I never felt this way, I think it is awesome to know that others think your girlfriend is hot, you know the old "look, but can't touch" saying.