Help Post-Ops Get Listed with Females on Eros

[Trans-Promo]

Hello everyone,

It has been a concern of mine that post-ops are listed in the ts/tv/cd category on Eros Guide.

I am not sure you agree with me that admirers who seek transsexuals in this category are seeking cock.

If you agree and would like to help us get our own subcategory off of the Genetic Female section, which would get exposure to those who seek vagina, please drop Eros a note like this one.

It doesn't take that long and you would be helping us out quite a bit!

Thank you much !

AND THANK YOU NICOLE DUPREE FOR THE REVIEW!

Danielle



To whom it may concern,

I'm writing you in regards of the misplacement of post-op women in tour well-established transsexual category.

My experience is that men who seek a transsexual are usually looking for pre-ops. I, being a PRE-op TS, know this fact very well.

Anyway, a friend of mine made a wise suggestion today, and I think it had great merit. Her suggestion was for your website to implement a subcategory off of the Female Section, such as the numerous subcategories that are currently in placement.

Let me also point out that safety is a potential issue here for my post op sisters as well. Honesty and accuracy is the number one priority when trying to avoid any type of potential retaliation from clients who get "surprised". Therefore you'd minimize the number of post-ops who currently have no other productive option but to list as genetic females in order to make a decent living, hence running the risk of retaliation and violence.

The law in most states allows trans women to list their gender as female in many documents such as Passport, Driver's License and Social Security, and I think your site would do well to also include a more accurate listing for post-operative transsexual women.

I understand that, perhaps up until now, this may not have seemed as necessary. But, in the year 2010, I think it is. So maybe you can take this progressive step sooner than later? I truly hope so.

Thank you for taking the time to read this email, and your consideration of this matter.

Sincerely,

PLEASE SEND LETTERS TO: ADS@EROS-GUIDE.COM
SUBJECT LINE: PLEASE LIST POST-OPS IN THE FEMALE CATEGORY

[Silcc69]

Why don't they just say they are GG's and not post ops.

[scubaman]

Eros already has them as TS in their database.

[saintpatrick]

I had a date once with a post-op who works out of Chicago as Heather. She states she is post-op transexual in her Eros add but claims you would never know--she's right. She does it because she has another career where she is also out as a post-op TS using another name. A client post-coitally learning this made trouble once, so she goes to great effort to make it clear.

[Trans-Promo]

It is very dangerous to work as a GG and I would never. Guys snap for no reason. They may spend sometime with you then later on find out and come after you. Very dangerous indeed.

But if girls want to play with fire - let them

I would like to run my business honestly and give other ladies the chance to do the same.

[peggygee]

My opinion is that if the woman can pass, then by all means she should just go ahead, put her ad in with the natal
females, and escort as any other woman, and that her post op status is irrevelant.

If she is reluctant to do that, then I feel that there should be a sub-category in the genetic female section,
much like there would be for BDSM or other niche.

I agree with Danielle and other posters that men perusing the TS section are usually looking for pre op
transwomen, and that post op transwomen do not belong in that section.

Transsexual and transgender connote that someone is "transitioning". Post operatively that transition is complete.
At this point we are women, we are no longer transsexual, yes we have a trans-past, but it is just that, the past.
The law, and government realize this, and we are permitted to legally have our birth records amended and to marry,
the journey is done.

In non-escort, casual situations, I don't feel that a woman is obligated to share her past. If the relationship is getting
serious, there too I feel that it is her choice whether to confide.

It is 2010, not 1960, 70, 80 or 90, the existence of transwomen is not a secret. We are everywhere, mainstream media,
movies, television, the Internet. It is extremely likely that most people know, have seen, or even have a family member
that is a transwoman. I'm sure that all men have at the very least had a passing thought as to what they would do if a
woman that they met was trans.

As I have previously mentioned, I have been full-time a very long time, have known a lot of men, both casually and very
intimately. I have also known a lot of transwomen, and they each had their unique way of confiding their status.

But as I have stated neither I, nor they ended up in physical altercations because of our gender status.

I do know of many, many fights between boyfriend and girlfriend, client and provider, and many where drugs were involved.
In some of those altercations the man would allege that he didn't know the gender status of the woman that he was with,
but upon further investigation it comes out that he knew full well.

But bottom line, if a man unknowingly meets a transwoman and gets sprung on her, and that's not his cup of tea, he should
move on, and we women will not live our live's as second class citizens.

Danielle, you may anticipate a letter in support of your request, from me.

[Ecstatic]

Danielle, I have sent an email to Eros in support and totally agree with you.